My boyfriend stayed at home for 8 months, slept during the day, surfed the Internet at night, and didn't want to find a job. He is idle and makes little money. Can you tell us something about this?

(1) Your boyfriend is selfish and lazy.

You are too kind to him and spoil him.

(3) You can advise him to go to work first. The amount of money is only temporary. If he has some money, he can sign up for a training class and learn something related to his job or major. After learning something, he can change and regard individual work as a springboard or a temporary transition.

(4) Tell him that he can take a detour, but he can't give up his goal.

(5) I hope you don't quarrel because of the status quo. The difficulties are only temporary and the future is long. You will understand when you look back at this period in the future.

(6) It is difficult to meet people you like and like. Please cherish. I wish you all an early and happy marriage.