What kind of attitude should we maintain towards older men and women?

Tik Tok is on fire. In a park in Shanghai, an aunt is dating. My daughter is a nurse with a monthly salary of 7000. Just because she is registered in Shanghai, she looks down on other people who drive Mercedes-Benz BMW with an annual salary of several hundred thousand.

This also reflects that there are many older women staying at present, and their parents have grown up besides their own reasons.

So what is our standard to measure emotional value? Naturally, everyone is different.

There are 1000 Hamlets among 1000 people, and they carry many independent older women on blind dates. Even if we catch up with them, we will find that many values of the two people have problems, and they will not last long in the end.

There are even many men who say that you won't realize how worthless it is until those older women catch up with you. It's not that these men's comments are vicious, but that some women have gradually improved their social status in the illusion of equality between men and women, and they can't recognize the reality.

Girls talk about material things, while boys talk about reality in their hearts. What people want from their other half is not as simple as we think. The so-called harmony between the three views is just the best candidate who has not yet met the pros and cons.

Nowadays, each of us is entitled to judge the other half.

So, what kind of attitude should we maintain towards older men and women, and what kind of thoughts do they have? Let's listen to the opinions of netizens respectively.

First of all, old men are just some love rat.

At that time, I met that love rat on a blind date. At that time, we were having dinner on a blind date, and he offered to pay the bill. I also think this boy is a gentleman.

But I didn't quickly determine the identity of my boyfriend and girlfriend. I told you to take your time, starting with friends.

In the process of getting along, he gave me enough sense of security and all the romance I wanted. I decided to fall in love with my other half, but after I got it, I found it was completely different from what I expected.

Why do women nowadays prefer to talk with their uncles rather than fall in love with their younger brothers?

I think these old people are scum men. After I accepted each other's pursuit, I always thought there would be a beautiful love waiting for me, and I could even get married.

As a result, after he got me, he began to break up. Obviously, he didn't take me seriously. He just wanted to try different types of girlfriends with me.

But he really gave me all the fantasies of falling in love. In winter, he will take the initiative to put a scarf on you, take you to buy the gifts you want, and take you to eat your favorite hot pot and dessert.

But when you think about it, he must have learned these things from many girls. The predecessors planted trees and the descendants enjoyed the cool.

These men also create a single atmosphere that makes you feel that he really likes you.

These men are not much different from pua. With some mature charm, they constantly cheat different girls among older women. Such people are completely scum.

Don't be fooled by his appearance. Girls should always protect themselves.

Second, some older women are worthless! "

I always think that older women have a certain amount of money and a clean circle at this stage. Such a comfortable person should not be single, perhaps because of the high requirements for living conditions.

But I really like the girl introduced by a friend. Although she is an older woman, I think she is much better than I expected.

So as a boy, I took the initiative to pursue her. At first, my affection for her increased infinitely, just like having a filter.

As a result, we were together for less than two weeks. At his age, we should be sensible and gentle, and their love will be very suitable.

I didn't expect you to understand that those older women must have stayed for a reason. Nobody likes them for no reason. Whenever and wherever she looks cold, she can't feel the sweetness of any love.

At her age, emotional intelligence is actually very low. When two people chat, the atmosphere can always be the most embarrassing, and the other person seems to have no particularly important friends. She is always alone and always says something particularly sad or a young woman in literature and art.

And I always humbly apologize, comfort and coax her. As a result, before I said a few words, she accused me in turn, saying that I had no idea what she really wanted.

As a man, I don't think I am straight. I never lack gifts when I need them. Other girls are never short. People around me think I am very kind to her.

And I constantly reflect that I don't have any problems, I can't cook, and my daily life is sloppy. If I hadn't let him wash his hair, it would be ten times dirtier than the boys' dormitory.

In addition to the daily salary, the whole person sleeps in bed and plays with his mobile phone to brush Tik Tok.

I can't believe what kind of life I lead after marrying her. She's really not worth my efforts, although I'm not particularly good.

But I'm not particularly miserable. I'm someone else's kid, too I have a high enough education, a good job, a better life and a group of lovely friends.

If these older young women like him, no matter how old they are, I don't think they will get married. They should start from themselves and reflect on what went wrong.

Of course, there are many older young men and women in this world who don't want to get married, but they may not meet the love they want.

We can't kill with a stick, but it doesn't mean everything. What I said is only one-sided, but it does reflect some problems.

I don't want to pursue my dreams hard and discriminate against people who laugh at others. Really unworthy of being accepted.

Chernyshevski once said: "Life is empty and dull only in the eyes of plain people."

Each of us is shining, so you should find the bright spot in yourself, constantly develop yourself, create your own career and strive to improve yourself.

Only in this way can we find a better partner, and don't believe in the chicken soup for the soul that others say too much in a quick decision.

Read more, study more, and improve your charm and personality value.

Your eyes are wide open, and you see things differently. When your luck improves, people you meet will follow you.