Why is losing a blessing?

The person who loses is the cleverest person. They can kick their prime minister in the stomach and try not to care. The loss is only temporary, not long-term. It's no big deal to suffer by yourself. Satisfying others is a kind of kindness. Eating a small loss properly can sometimes bring unexpected results to yourself. People are emotional animals and will feel your kindness. One day you are in trouble, maybe the other person can help you.