How to let go of a person's obsession

1. People don't want to let go because they are unwilling. We should learn to accept the past we don't want. A person originally intended to embark on a road of his own, but because of some factors in reality, he was turned to another road when turning the corner. However, no matter how he lives in the future, he can't let go of his previous choices. Maybe his persistence in those days was another world. It is precisely because of this boredom with the known life and his obsession with the unknown world that the rift in our hearts is constantly expanding and plaguing our lives.

2. Everyone's life will be different, and the people and things we meet can't all be right. In life and work, we should know that if we can meet good things in life, it also means that we may meet bad things. This is the law of natural development. One's luck cannot always be good. There will always be setbacks, but when we look at others, we always see the good side of others, while when others experience pain, we. Don't lose our motivation for a better life because of the obedience of others and our own frustration. In order to repair our world, we need to stand up again in the trough. Maybe we lost many possibilities and opportunities in the past, but it doesn't mean that our life can't start over. Maybe we need more time and patience. If you are ready, start a new journey, even if it will cost us more.

3. If you fall in love with someone, but you can't walk together, this is very common in reality, although losing the person you love will make people lose themselves, and even get trapped in their own world, so that they are no longer themselves. In other words, people turn this pain into a force to torture themselves. Many times, people don't know why they want to do this. Maybe this kind of unconscious injury is just a kind of relief for yourself. Everyone has been injured, both physically and mentally. Over time, it will be repaired one day, and it may leave a mark, but it can no longer hurt ourselves, because the wound will eventually heal, so we should not close ourselves up because of the temporary pain, but let the pain become our history and become the driving force for us to continue our lives.

Our pain may be the worst in the world in our eyes, but sometimes compared with others, it may not be the most hurt. Instead of closing ourselves up, we should share our stories with our close friends and let others help us get out of our own world, so that we can get in touch with the new world. We need to grow up in our own stories and find our medicine to solve problems from other people's stories, as long as we are still alive.

5. When troubles have seriously affected your life, when the past has become the resistance in your present life, and when you are still tormenting yourself with your obsession, should we stop, think quietly, weigh our gains and losses, change ourselves in the right way, solve the problems that plague us, let the past really become the past, and let suffering become the nutrition for our growth, just let go a little bit every day. Enrich yourself every day. When you look back many years later, life and time have made us unconsciously put down our obsession and turned it into a story in memory. We will find that it is not so difficult to let go of obsession. All we need to do is let go and embrace a new life.