Don't worry, those who work hard won't suffer.

I used to be a very reluctant person. Even if my relatives call or beg me repeatedly, I will mutter about muddling along. I'm afraid I'll suffer or even be exhausted if I help them do some work.

But in fact, hard work, whether it's doing your own job or helping others complete some tasks, can't kill anyone. On the contrary, it will accumulate a lot of experience or network resources. In particular, if you help your boss do a good job, he will not only praise you for it, but also probably entrust you with a heavy responsibility from now on, willing to give you better projects or more valuable things, so that you can be better, different and achieve a qualitative leap.

Hard work and down-to-earth life are the minimum qualities that everyone must have to become an excellent or successful person, which is more important than a person's facial features and looks, and can better grasp the throat of fate.

There's nothing wrong with you being ugly. This is an innate gene given by parents, and you can't change it. But if you don't work hard, you are not practical, you are ugly, and you have no money and no house, it will be a bit embarrassing.

Want to marry a beautiful girl, dare not start chasing; Want to find a good job, but dare not speak; If you want to live a happy and stable life, you can't face yourself. All your timidity and cowardice will add up and become your regret in your later years.

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A few years ago, my good brother Chun Ge worked as a planner in a relatively large company. At first, like many colleagues around him, every time his boss asked others to work overtime with him, they would complain and shrink their heads, and no one would take the initiative to stand up and promise the boss.

The boss had to name Brother Chun because he had long heard that Brother Chun was knowledgeable and capable.

Brother Chun had to accept the task given to him by his boss.

When having dinner with colleagues, Brother Chun always complains about the boss in front of colleagues. The boss asked him to do so many things and jobs, not only didn't help him get a raise, but also never praised him in person, as if it were natural to do those things. This made Brother Chun feel particularly unhappy.

Once, my boss asked Brother Chun to help me with a bigger project. But that time Brother Chun refused very simply. He said he was not available and asked the boss to find someone else to try.

The boss nodded and said, ok.

About a week later, the company decided to select an excellent employee from the planning department of Chunge as the deputy manager of the planning department of the branch. Everyone focused on Brother Chun, thinking that this position belonged to Brother Chun, and Brother Chun blushed with embarrassment. But at this time, the boss announced that Xiao Zhang was the deputy manager of the planning department of the branch.

Brother Chun never imagined that Zhang Hui, who was plain in appearance and average in ability, was highly valued by his boss. He found it difficult to understand, so he ran to the boss's office to ask what happened.

It was not until the boss put Xiao Zhang and his workload and performance on the table for comparative analysis that Brother Chun suddenly realized that the boss had been evaluating the comprehensive ability of himself and Xiao Zhang at the same time in recent months. Brother Chun is more talented than Xiao Zhang, but he always complains about everything he does. He always feels that he has been greatly wronged, so he only deals with the work in actual work instead of finding and solving problems, so the work given to him by his boss is also full of loopholes. On the contrary, although Xiao Zhang is average in ability and young, he doesn't complain about his work and is not picky. She will only work hard, be down-to-earth, and complete the tasks assigned above on time and with good quality, in order to get the unanimous approval of the company leaders.

In life, there are many people who are as capable as Brother Chun, but they don't work hard enough and are not practical enough. They always think that relying on their talents or gifts, they can surprise the audience and stand out from the crowd, instead of working hard and doing more things in a down-to-earth manner to be better people. From then on, they will hesitate, stop and be caught up, surpassed and buried by more and more ordinary people.

This is a very normal and natural thing. Because God knows that as long as you work hard enough and are practical enough, fate will never treat you badly.

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My good friend Mao Ge has always liked a girl in her class. High school has been six years. Although it is generally acknowledged that Mao Ge is not only the most handsome, but also the most talented, as long as he works harder, he can catch up with the goddess Linlin. But Mao Ge just doesn't work hard.

When he was in high school, he clearly wrote a love letter and asked us to send it to Linlin. But as soon as we took it from him, he became timid again and would try his best to get it back and tear it to pieces.

When I was in college, Mao Ge and I were in the south and Linlin was in the north. Every time I advised him, brother, if you still like Deng, you really should go to Harbin to spend more time with her, especially on her birthday.

Mao Ge said, good.

I watched Mao Ge go to the railway station, and he did get on the train to Harbin. But Linlin told me that Mao Ge never went to Harbin Institute of Technology to find her.

A few days ago, a girl from Linlin sent me a message that she was going to marry someone else at the end of the year, but she still couldn't put anyone down in her heart. I knew it must be Mao Ge, so I found him and wanted to talk to him. But Mao Ge only told me one word. He said, I can't let her go either, and then ran into the bar.

That night, Mao Ge was drunk as a fiddler. Until now, everything seems to be listless and unhappy.

I don't know what Mao Ge is thinking, but if he really likes girls in Linlin, he deserves it and doesn't deserve anyone's sympathy. Because a person who doesn't know how to work hard for love will lose himself, have no responsibility, and is not worth entrusting for life.

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As we all know, trying to love someone and doing something in a down-to-earth manner does not mean that you will achieve immediate success. But if you don't love someone hard and do that thing in a down-to-earth way, there will be no result.

Trying to love someone may fail, but it is still glorious to lose. Because we will constantly enrich and improve ourselves in the process of doing our best for love, so that there will be new breakthroughs in both ability and other aspects.

You have tried your best to love someone, and there will be someone to accompany you in the future.

Remember, everything you have done in a down-to-earth manner, and the people you have seriously loved, is not a bad thing. These things, big or small, happy or sad, wonderful or dim, will become intangible precious wealth in our lives.

So, whether your leader or relatives ask you to do one more thing today, your girlfriends or friends ask you to go all out to confess to someone. Since you can't or don't want to refuse, and you don't want to or can't bear to escape, then work hard and do it in a down-to-earth manner. Anyway, one day, fate will take care of you and someone will like you.