Can a couple walk halfway?

1 As the saying goes, "A couple who give up halfway will always be thieves", which is a bit ugly, but it also has some truth. The meaning of this sentence is that two people who have been married will always be subconsciously wary of each other when they remarry, and it is difficult to be honest with each other. Although this sentence is not absolute, most "halfway couples" can't escape this sentence. For couples who become monks halfway, the biggest challenge is children. Let's listen to what this experienced person has to say.

My name is Li Yunliang, and I'm a truck driver. I often wander around this country. My ex-wife ran away with people in the neighboring village because she didn't want to be lonely. When I learned about it, I felt both hate and shame. Anyway, my wife ran away with someone else, and it was hard for everyone. Since then, I seldom go back to my hometown because I don't want to face the gossip of my neighbors. After several years of hard work, I also mortgaged a house in the city.

I met Miao Qing by chance. She is about the same age as me, and she is also from the countryside. After getting to know her better, I realized that Miao Qing was married and had two daughters. She and her ex-husband were introduced by matchmakers. However, after a few years of marriage, her ex-husband had an accident on the construction site and died on the spot. In-laws think that she killed her son and asked her to leave the village with her two daughters. In order to support her two children, she did a lot of things by herself.

After learning about Miao Qing's experience, I can't help admiring the lady in front of me. I was deeply attracted by her diligence and hard work, so Miao Qing and I started dating. At first, Miao Qing didn't agree. She thought she didn't deserve me. But I told her about my ex-wife and what she really thought, and she agreed. After dating for two months, I took her and my two daughters to live at home, and then we went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get the certificate.

After I got married, I took the initiative to give the money to my wife for safekeeping, but she refused to accept it. She said she didn't want my money, just me. What moved me even more was that my wife actually wanted to have a son and a half. But when we went to the hospital for examination, the doctor said that I had been driving a van for a long time, and my physical condition was much worse than before, so the chance of having a baby was very low. I was a little disappointed at that time, but my wife said, these two daughters were named by you. The next day, she went to the household registration office to help her children change their names, which made me very moved. At that time, I decided to hand over the financial power of my family to my wife, because I trusted her.

As the two children grew up, I didn't hide anything from them after discussing with my wife. I said with certainty, "Girl, if you want to change your surname, I won't be angry. It's your right." Unexpectedly, the two daughters said in unison: "We will not change, we only recognize you as a father." After listening to the words of the two children, I immediately burst into tears and thought, "Don't waste my love."

After reading this article, the author was inexplicably moved, because halfway couples really need to experience many setbacks and two people's inner struggles, and the husband in the article tells us with practical actions that the most important thing for halfway couples is to be honest with each other, always think for each other and raise the other half's children as their own children. As the saying goes: "The grace of nurturing is higher than the sky and thicker than the earth." It is not easy for lovers to know each other, and it is even harder to know each other!