Would your parents allow you to find a boyfriend from out of town? Why?

In this world, 90-year-old parents don’t want their daughters to marry somewhere far away. They wish their daughters would be married just a few minutes away from them. My parents are no exception. When they found out that I had a boyfriend from another province, they told me time and time again to reconsider.

Tell me why my parents don’t agree with my boyfriend from another place? The first reason: What should I do if I go to such a far away place alone and get bullied by my husband’s family?

My boyfriend’s home is more than a thousand kilometers away from mine. If I really get married, it means that I am far away from my home. My family is far away. My mother said not only once, if you are married so far away, if you are bullied by your mother-in-law's family, as a parent, I don't know, and as a parent, I can't support you. Do you think you will suffer a lot in the future? .

Furthermore, you have no friends or family in the past, and you have no one to talk to when encountering problems. What should you do? The second reason: It’s too far away from home, but I can’t do anything when my children need help from their parents

My parents don’t want me to find a boyfriend from other places. There is another very important reason. They are worried that when we need my parents, When asked for help, I had no way to help.

My parents are not very old, and they are still able to help us when we need help in our lives. For example, if we have children and need the elderly to take care of the children, if we are close to home, our parents are able to help take care of the children. Take a little less pressure off our young people. But if you marry too far away, even if your parents want to help, they will be powerless.

As a parent, I know how hard life is and all I want to do is help as much as possible. The third reason: too far away from home, the number of times we can meet is really very small

Although transportation is very convenient now, for daughters who are married far away, going home is still a difficult task. It’s a very difficult thing, there’s always something that can’t bring you home.

It would be great if they could return home once a year, not to mention that many daughters who marry far away may only return home once every two or three years, and the number of times they have met their parents can be counted on one finger.