What psychological changes will men have when they reach the age of 60?

I understand your feelings very well. I have encountered similar situations in my usual work. Through communication with them, I don't care about the following points:

First, the sense of loss. Many old people are busy with work all their lives. Suddenly one day, HR informed him that he was going to retire, and he wouldn't have to come to work from tomorrow. An elder told me: At that time, it was like red-hot iron, and suddenly it was poured by a pot of cold water. Cheep, stiff all over, even have no strength to walk back to the seat!

Second, I am not reconciled. Some people are enthusiastic about their work. By the age of 60, they feel that they still have endless energy and things to do. Why do they have to retire? An old man said that he looked puzzled, unwilling and unwilling.

Third, I am attached to the position of power. Some people are about to retire and still occupy a certain high position. This position brings him a certain gray income or reputation. If he wants to retire and make way, the benefits will be gone. Just don't cry, don't cry and don't scold!

Fourth, it is inseparable from old colleagues and old comrades. Some people work in the same unit all their lives. There is nothing unfamiliar with the people, things and things in the unit. He can't bear to leave!

Most 60-year-old gay men have returned to this field. Because of their identity, official position, post and so on, their mentality is different, but the mentality of * * * is probably like this:

The first is not to compete with the world. At work, men always compete with others in the dark, fight for it, and men will be proud. By the age of 60, they are nothing but ordinary people with zero status, position and official price. Everyone is on the same starting line, there is nothing to argue about, and it is not as good as young people. Living your own life has become the norm, and the previous passion, temper and courage are gone.

The second is the mentality of being kind to others. When people reach the age of 60, decades of career has come to an end, and they have also washed their hands in the rivers and lakes. Although there are old sayings and grievances, most people see through the world of mortals, become calm, turn enemies into friends, resolve contradictions, and do good deeds, only planting flowers and not planting thorns.

The fourth is the mentality of being isolated from the world. A 60-year-old man has experienced the ups and downs of the world, and he will have the psychology of "hiding in a small building and becoming unified". He doesn't want to turn over old scores, sort out old scores, see through them, see through them, and he is chilling. He will find a paradise to rest himself, avoid the world of mortals and stay away from rivers and lakes.

After the age of 60, great changes have taken place in the hearts of gay men, and various physical functions are also declining.

I am over 60 years old. I will tell you my psychological changes and physical changes.

1, first of all, amnesia, although it is said that I am not deaf yet, but my eyes are already spent, I don't wear glasses, I can't read the fine print clearly, and I forgot my words at the beginning of writing. I just remembered the word and forgot it for a moment.

2. Competitiveness is declining. When I was a child, seven was unfair and eight was not angry. I have to contend with others for everything, and it is vigorous. After 60, I am not in the mood. Muddle along, just eat.

3, courage becomes smaller. When I was young, I was full of energy. I was not convinced by anyone and had no self-restraint. When I see unreasonable phenomena, I must stop them, or I must fight others. Not now. When I see others fighting, I stay away, don't listen and don't care about those meddling.

4, and children become more or less alienated, nothing, usually do not go to the children's house to visit, go to his house, always feel as if there is trouble. I rarely participate in the affairs of my children's family, and I rarely talk when I see things that my children don't like. It seems that I am half shorter than before.

The communication with classmates, friends, colleagues and relatives is becoming less and less. I used to drink with my classmates almost often, but now there are only a few good friends left, who are still in frequent contact.

6. I didn't pay attention to physical maintenance before, but now I pay more attention to physical maintenance, smoking and drinking more or less, and exercising every day. Sometimes I will go to check my body and measure my blood pressure and blood sugar.

7, the physical function drops quickly, and you are not tired after a few days of fatigue. Strength is not as good as before, and sexual function and mind are more than enough.

To sum up, although the sunset is the most beautiful, I think it is also a way to persuade the elderly. Old people have no great skills, and they can't do it if they are not convinced. This is also the natural law of life.

One person, one world, one thing, one world, others don't know, and I am almost 60 myself. Tell me about my own psychological changes.

1, lust for beauty. Seeing a beautiful woman's eyes shining, her eyes spitting out, her mouth dripping and her spirit in her head, this is an old problem that has existed since 10, and now the symptoms have not been alleviated at all.

However, you can rest assured that it is no longer a threat to women. It has been proved so many times that it no longer poses a threat to women.

2, resigned to fate. Undoubtedly, it has been over 10 years, and I have lived in Zhihu for several years. The greatest understanding of the world is destiny takes a hand.

How much money you earn is destiny takes a hand. When I was a child, my family was poor and my parents earned work points. All the year round, they always owe money to the class. It is difficult to pay tuition and fees at school. Always in arrears for a long time. Tuition fees can be waived, but miscellaneous fees cannot be waived. I can't get it from my parents. I only have a teacher's home visit and ask my parents directly. So, my parents borrowed something from the east and begged my father to tell my grandmother. Later, they would teach us a lesson.

Now that I am old, I have no place to spend more money. The pension alone is 1 10,000. If my wife takes it for nothing, it will become a symbol of the bank. If you deposit 3 million yuan, the monthly interest is 10000 yuan.

3. Save money. When I was a child, I wore pudding to make up pudding; New three years, old three years, sewing and mending for another three years. Now my wife's biggest housework is throwing clothes, and the clothes in the cupboard can't fit.

Many times, Huang Chengcheng's black wheat flour and corn flour are hard to swallow, especially sweet potatoes. Three months' rations and three meals a day make you cry. What about now? Too much meat is too fat, and too much fish is too fishy. Eat too much rice, afraid of high triglycerides; Eating too much meat is afraid of high cholesterol; Eat too much fish, afraid of high uric acid; Eating too much salt is afraid of high blood pressure; Eating too much sweet food is afraid of diabetes.

4. Look down on life and death. At this age, you must always be prepared to distinguish between black and white Some classmates or comrades-in-arms have passed away, so will their parents, and we will also face death.

I don't know which day, the doctor will point out a shadow from a corner of the body, saying it is cancer. So I began to suffer, and the journey of life finally came to an end.

Others are probably different from me. He is a big leader. At the age of 60, they are called young. The cleaning aunt in the unit, who is over 60 years old, is still full of energy and is in a hurry all day. And I, an antique, my heart is dying. I'm really sorry.

I understand how you feel!

I think this is a normal phenomenon.

Every time the living environment changes in our lives,

Will make us feel uncomfortable inside.

At school, we all graduated from primary school, junior high school, high school and university.

Every change in the environment will make our hearts.

Produce a great sense of discomfort. Some people are strong, others are weak.

Every time the living environment changes, everything and people I used to know.

Suddenly it's gone, and the classmates and teachers who live together day and night may never see it again. Then there will be a more or less melancholy feeling in my heart.

I graduated from school and entered the society, leaving my hometown to work outside.

Everything seems to have happened in a previous life, which is very uncomfortable. Often, an inexplicable sadness hits the heart, and people become depressed.

And you become sensitive after retirement because the environment has changed after retirement, and you have worked for decades. I feel that I don't need myself anymore, and I feel inexplicably lost. It is normal for people to have some sensitive changes in their psychology. Fortunately, I know this change. I will consciously adjust myself. This also shows that your bad mood is under your own immune control.

Say you're retired and someone has changed jobs, even if it's even. There will be psychological changes. I remember that once my post was transferred from the personnel management department to the technical management department, and it became very sensitive for a while. I feel that I have done something wrong. Does the leader feel that I am lacking in personnel management? Do you have a problem with me? Then the whole person becomes sensitive and irritable. But fortunately, I can feel my change. Then I began to consciously adjust myself.

So ... to sum up from my personal experience. I think that every change in living environment, working environment and learning environment will make people's psychology change more or less, or become sensitive or depressed. I think this is normal.

Hello, everyone, I am the fifth brother who focuses on the emotional field and tastes the true feelings of the world. I am 60 years old this year, and I feel like riding a roller coaster, with ups and downs and great psychological changes. I remember that there used to be meals at noon and evening every day except in the morning, sometimes several times. Push a cup for a change with people you don't know on the wine table, call each other brothers, and say things that you don't want. After a long time, I drank "general's belly" and "fatty liver". I really want to stay away from these wineries a day earlier.

Retired, the wish finally came true, and the wine field decreased. First, it's gone, and people have less demands on you. Second, I dare not spell wine again. I used to drink like water, but now I drink like medicine. Third, I dare not persuade people to drink. People will get more than one bargained for when they die.

Now when three or five people get together occasionally, they often choose to stay at home, play cards, and it's time for dinner. They just cook some vegetarian dishes, drink boiled water instead of white wine, and use water instead of wine. They speak their minds and feel closer and closer.

2. Don't be serious with others

I used to be nosy, and I couldn't hold my fire when I met something I didn't like. I argued with others at once, and I didn't put it down until I knew right and wrong.

Now when you encounter something you don't like, you can be calm, take it for granted and let nature take its course. If you understand something, it will add insult to injury, and the truth is beyond words.

3. Emotional fragility

When I am old, I feel that I am no longer interested in some things. I used to like to look at beautiful women in the street, and I would look at them from a distance. Now I still look at them, at most, at a glance.

For his wife, it is not so sticky anymore. In the past, when two people were separated for a few days, it felt like years. Now, even after a year and a half, it is not as strong as it used to be.

4. Fear of disease and death

When I was young, I had a slight illness, headache and fever, and I didn't take it to heart at all. I just called, laughing at life and death. I can't do it now. As long as I feel a little sick, I will have a check-up, including the inside and outside. Like to buy all kinds of insurance, afraid to hear the news of the death of relatives or colleagues.

I seldom update my circle of friends.

To sum up: 60 years old is a very important turning point in one's life. Old comrades should adapt to this change as soon as possible, and more importantly, they are unwilling to accept the old times and dare to accept new things and challenges in order to have a happy old age.

The most beautiful thing is sunset red.

Do you know the reason for your great psychological change? Like are you worried about getting old? Worried about your health? Or are you worried that you will suddenly lose your direction in life after retiring? Or something.

If we can sort out the reasons, it may be of great help to adjust our mentality.

Besides, not everyone will have your change. Many older comrades I met generally felt much younger than their straight boyfriends. A 66-year-old good friend of mine is still dating a 25-year-old recently.

To be truly free and easy, you need strong inner self-confidence. So, to find the reason why you are sensitive, or go back to explore what you care about most, or what you are most worried about?

When people reach 60, almost everything changes. Let's see what happened to them when they reached 60.

1, age change

Before the age of 60, we can still consider ourselves middle-aged, but once we reach the age of 60, people's consciousness will be different immediately. China people turn 60 years old into children, that is, when they reach 60 years old, middle-aged people "suddenly" step into the ranks of the elderly, and there is still a big gap in their hearts. Although I don't feel old, I actually belong to the elderly in terms of age. "Being an old man" is actually not ready in my heart.

2. Change of rights

Before retirement, if you are a leader and have certain rights, you will often praise or criticize your subordinates, and everyone will praise you. When I retire at the age of 60, all this will cease to exist. No one will praise you or criticize you. I will feel very unaccustomed, and I am getting less and less every day.

3, the role of change

Before I was 60, I was in the workplace. After retiring at the age of 60, I stopped thinking about work and became a chef, working around the pot all day. Before the age of 60, it was crowded everywhere. After retirement, I can only say hello to the old people in the community. In fact, I am also an old man or an old lady in the eyes of others, but I don't think so yet.

4. Emotional changes

After retirement, people become withdrawn, and because of the great changes around 60, they can't accept it for a while. So in the early days of retirement, I always felt a little embarrassed when I saw my former colleagues. I didn't want to go back to work and was afraid to face everything before.

In short, at the age of 60, I have reached another stage of my life. Strive for your career before the age of 60, and strive for longevity after the age of 60.

Of course, most people are still healthy at the age of 60. What we need to do now is to get through the adaptation period as soon as possible, find what we like to do and enrich ourselves as soon as possible. As long as life is regular and you can do what you like, your mind will gradually calm down and everything will be normal.

I am sixty years old, and my psychology has changed. I came back from the dead at the age of forty-five. Since then, my heart has changed a lot, which is completely different from before.

People in their sixties, like the sunset at dusk, have entered old age, and their lives are limited and time is running out. Memory and physical strength are declining, not only forgetting words, but also forgetting names when meeting acquaintances. Fighting spirit and competitiveness are sharply reduced, and courage and courage are reduced. Sometimes, I will be a mother-in-law, afraid of wolves and tigers before the meeting. I am estranged from my children, and my contact with my relatives and friends is also decreasing. I am far away from the Jianghu, and some are isolated from the world. I don't know that I have the feeling of Qin, Han, Wei and Jin dynasties. I am afraid of illness and death, and I pay more attention to my health.

I used to like arguing with people, making it clear, being serious, meddling, and being keen on an injustice, but now I don't like it. I look down on everything, be kind to others, see through everything, have nothing to do with myself and ignore it. Now I am just a bystander, just a spectator, not an actor director, not an athlete coach and referee. It's normal, calm and indifferent. I used to get to the bottom of it and never let people go. I won't let go. Now I must be reasonable and forgive others. I was born and left the company in my thirties. I feel lost, uncomfortable, sensitive, withdrawn and troubled beyond words. Now I have no income and no pension. My colleagues at that time ranged from four or five thousand to six or seven thousand a month, but they also enjoyed themselves and thought that "books are really rich, and there is nothing like them." I am humiliated, and I can be idle.

1, sense of loss.

When a man reaches the age of 60 and reaches retirement age, he officially enters old age and loses his position in society, especially when a man with high power suddenly retires, he will feel lost.

2. Not adapted to the new role.

Before the age of 60, men are very noisy in the workplace. After 60, they buy food and cook around pots and pans. Before I was 60, I was pushing and shoving. After 60, I can only talk to vegetable women.

This role change will take some time to get used to.

3. Sensitive and irritable.

The 60-year-old man retired from the familiar workplace environment and went home to cook and buy food every day. Men are very strange and resistant to these things.

Because the space for activities has become smaller, the people I meet are different.

4, will become very withdrawn, love to lose his temper.

A 60-year-old has a weak heart. Facing his aging and retirement, he can't accept it for a while. For a while, I would be embarrassed to meet my former colleagues and I didn't want to go back to my former unit.

Everyone has just retired and has an adjustment period. It is best to find a hobby and something you like to do as soon as possible, so that you can enrich yourself and live a regular life so that you will not be paranoid.