Will parents’ divorce definitely cause harm to children?

There is no doubt that parental divorce will definitely cause harm to children. You may not have divorced parents, and you will never understand the changes in your relationship as a couple, which can cause great harm and impact on your children.

Impact 1: Children lose a warm home and will be mentally deficient.

No matter what the reason is, when the father divorces, in the eyes of the children, he becomes an unloved child. There used to be three people in the family but now there is only one person. Even if both parents love their children and compete to raise them, the child will always have some spiritual shortcomings no matter who it is with.

In a warm home, a child's personality will be more cheerful and his life will be more enjoyable. Once this home is lost, the child will always be timid and have a bad temper. Even good things can turn bad.

Secondly, children may not understand their parents and may hate them.

In the eyes of a child, mom and dad should be together. If mom and dad are separated, he may hate his parents and feel that his parents don't love him anymore. At the same time, he will also begin to envy other children and think that they are happier than himself. The child's thoughts may be affected by Influence 2: Without direct correction from both parents, the child will become increasingly unreasonable.

Some people say that children from single-parent families are more scheming, and it turns out that this is true. Because after the child's parents divorce, the parents may remarry. How can the stepfather and stepmother be the same as his own parents? It is definitely different. When our parents remarry, they will have other children. If our children want to survive, they must have a certain amount of scheming, otherwise life will be really difficult. Although stepfathers and stepmothers cannot be as bad as those shown on TV, it is difficult to be fair in front of their own children and other people's children.

Influence 3: Parents’ marriage will directly affect their children’s marriage.

Unfortunate marriages of parents will make children afraid of marriage and unwilling to get married in the future. Directly letting his marriage take a turn for the worse may affect the child for a lifetime. Therefore, as responsible parents, if you want to divorce, you must be cautious, cautious and cautious again.