Being too sensible is the biggest failure in life.

"Looking back over the years, I am too sensible, which is the biggest failure in my life. This sensible thing is to understand other people's affairs, understand other people's sufferings, be easily moved, and forget to love myself".

I accidentally brushed this sentence, and I was deeply touched, as if I were talking about myself.

I have always been "sensible" and understand other people's affairs.

Recently, I have little personal time, even little time to spend with my family. Just because I understand others' sufferings too much, I am easily moved by others' words and take on a lot of work. It seems that I am sharing for others, but in fact it is not helping.

I can't hand in my job as scheduled, my credit is declining, and I don't like myself very much.

I'm so busy that I don't even have time to breathe, but who will understand you?

how can you expect others to love you when you can't love yourself?

So, learn to say no and learn to give up.