Do you need to run in in marriage?

Marriage needs tolerance and forbearance. Only by constantly running in and changing husbands and wives together can we continue to grow up and get along well with each other for a long time. When two people have contradictions, they should know how to tolerate each other, change each other, run in with each other, and be willing to change themselves for each other, which will last for a long time.

First, in the long marriage and daily life, there will be stumbling, and even some couples will quarrel and play constantly. But life will not always be sunny! Sometimes it rains and winds in Mao Mao, but don't call it a marriage tragedy. Therefore, there is no need to ask too much for the happiness of marriage. Daily life is always dull, and ordinary life is also a kind of happiness! I think the unhappy marriage is because we haven't experienced daily life training together. Life will not be smooth sailing, since two people form a family, it means that they are about to assume more obligations.

Second, daily life may give you a lot of training, even painful. The couples you see work together. Some couples are bankrupt, some elderly people are bedridden, some children are seriously ill, some couples are cheated, and their daily life is extremely embarrassing.

This kind of training, all survived together? Have two people been United? You can share weal and woe with * * *. After tempering, you will cherish each other more and your marriage will be more stable. How can you say that you are unhappy? Everyone always likes to plan a happy marriage as a whole and set it up in this beautiful way. When we persistently pursue perfection in order to find a way that we find attractive, we usually lose the essence of beauty. But once a certain way is put on the coat of happiness, in fact, it has long lost the objective perspective of identifying happiness and the original simple practical significance of happiness.

Third, a happy marriage does not need a beautiful light ring or anything to decorate it; If it is happiness, it is the charm of living in plain and the glory of living in trivial. Marriage is not an object, it is unlikely to be spent kissing me all the time, it is unlikely to be so radiant, sweet and charming all the time, and sometimes it is even bitter, hard and helpless. It is precisely because of this that it has become so precious along the way, and there is sweetness in bitterness. Marriage is a long-term relationship, so two people must constantly change, know how to be patient and tolerate each other's shortcomings.