What should I do if my child has poor communication skills?

Children's poor communication skills, although not a matter of principle, should also attract the attention of parents. After all, whether communication is smooth or not affects the efficiency of doing things and all kinds of communication, so it is urgent for parents to cultivate their children's communication skills. Parents can try from the following aspects:

First, learn to be an excellent listener.

If you want to talk, you must listen first. When I say listeners here, I mean parents, because communication is two-way. Parents should not only express their thoughts and opinions, but also listen to what their children are expressing. When the child is talking to you or babbling, we should not interrupt and correct, first listen to him and then try to communicate with him and guide him. This is a complete process.

Second, don't spoil children.

Indeed, there is a certain relationship between communication skills and doting. Parents should remember that our parents only give suggestions and hints about their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and what they want to buy, so that children can cultivate their own thoughts or opinions and know that they are responsible for their actions. And the cultivation of comprehensive independent ability will also improve their communication ability, because what children want to say goes through brain tissue first, and organization comes from thinking.

Third, teach children communication skills.

There is a lot of knowledge and art in communication and conversation. On weekdays, parents should teach their children some civilized expressions and ways to say words on different occasions, and then simulate situational dialogues and practice them repeatedly. In this way, children will not get stage fright even in many public places in the future, and the conversation will be smoother and more appropriate. The so-called adaptation to local conditions, change is communication, and the art of communication lies in constant adjustment to be perfect.

Fourth, extend the time to communicate with children.

There is a way of talking that is quite offensive. It's like a conversation between two people. One person sends information to another person by asking questions, and the other person simply answers "Oh. Hmm. . . "It is very disappointing that such short modal particles keep ending the dialogue, which makes this kind of communication boring. Therefore, children and adults take the initiative to talk, and parents should not be perfunctory. They should analyze the core and purpose of children's words more, and then describe and present the interviewee flexibly, so as to stimulate children's desire to talk again, thus prolonging the conversation time and not being boring.

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