The teacher confided in the parents that the children had done a lot of wrong homework. How do you want your parents to respond?

I think, as a parent, when the teacher sends you a private letter and takes pictures of children's papers and exercise books with many wrong questions, you should not think about what kind of response the teacher wants from you first. We should think about how to give teachers an attitude. Think about how to communicate with teachers and educate children.

Self-reflection first: children's grades are poor. As parents, what have they failed or failed to do well?

1. Have you personally supervised your children when they are doing their homework?

2. Have you ever told your child the problem that he can't do?

As a parent, do you check your children's homework every night?

4. Have you ever taken your child to recite the text yourself?

5. Have you personally given dictation to your child?

6. Have you checked whether the children's school supplies are complete?

Without these, it is natural that children can't do their homework and can't get high marks in the exam. I think, as a parent, you should communicate with the teacher in time and work hard with the teacher to educate the children.

The teacher confides in parents privately, shoots many wrong papers and homework to parents, and reflects the students' learning situation at school to parents. Educating children is the joint effort of parents and teachers. The teacher reflected the situation to the parents in order to see their views on this issue. In order to determine their next work goal for this student.

If parents think this is normal, because children are like this at ordinary times, even if teachers and parents work hard, children can't make rapid progress at once. In the future, as long as teachers and parents communicate and urge them diligently, let the children make progress slowly.

Parents reacted strongly to such papers and homework. I feel that I usually don't care enough about my children and I don't supervise and inspect them enough, which has caused this situation today. In the future, we must pay more attention to children, strengthen the supervision and inspection of his study at ordinary times, and help him correct his shortcomings and mistakes of not studying hard. Let children form the habit of self-conscious learning and make great progress under the guidance of teachers. Seeing such homework and test papers, parents feel that this child is like this. No matter how you urge your child, there will be no big improvement. There is no need to give him more efforts in this respect in the future, just let him go. If the parents are in the first situation, they will not be upset after seeing the test paper and homework. Teachers have a bottom in their hearts, so they just need to let students learn step by step in the future.

If you see the second situation. It is also the response that teachers want most from parents. Teachers will actively cooperate with parents, and both sides will work together to make great progress in children's learning in a short time. If the teacher sees the third situation. Then he can only sigh, and what the child will become in the future has to be left to himself. Although teachers bear the main responsibility and play a leading role in the process of educating children, they should try their best to achieve their studies. But this is only the teacher's duty and work. He faced sixty or seventy students.

Students are unique to their parents. This means that you are only responsible for one student. Moreover, parents are the ultimate beneficiaries of this student's academic performance. Therefore, wise parents will take the initiative to educate their children. Usually, I will take the initiative to contact the teacher to understand the students' school situation and actively urge the students at home to complete the tasks assigned by the teacher. I will take the cultivation and education of children as my responsibility. Only such a family can educate successful children. Parents who ask questions are responsible, responsible and sensible parents who know the importance of educating their children.

I believe that after communicating with the teacher, this parent will definitely respond to the teacher's requirements for students and parents with a positive attitude. Join hands with teachers to change students' backward learning situation, so that children can catch up as soon as possible and eventually become excellent students.

The original intention of the teacher to do this must be to use the help of parents, work hard with parents, and teach children together to make great progress and change. Parents should never think that the teacher is giving parents an ugly face, hating their children or throwing the pot at them. Parents can correctly interpret and understand the teacher's intention, which is the basis of cooperative teaching. Otherwise, no matter how parents respond to the teacher, the result will deviate from the original intention, even counterproductive, and the child will be even worse. This is the last thing parents want to see, and it is also the last thing teachers want to see.

So how should parents respond to the teacher or how to respond to the teacher best? I think the best response is from the following aspects:

Parents should look at their children's homework or papers rationally and seriously, analyze possible problems or reasons, then calmly listen to their children's real thoughts, and then talk about their own thoughts and expectations for their children. This is what teachers most want to see parents' reaction to their children. Remember: if you go home to see the children, you will be scolded or scolded. When you are in an angry state and your emotions are hard to suppress, don't say anything or do anything! Because in this case, no matter what you say to the child, it will cause the child's strong disgust, and you will hate the teacher very much. You think it's because teachers join hands with parents to clean me up, which makes me sad ... in this way, it is difficult for teachers and parents to effectively re-educate their children. Therefore, parents must wait for their inner peace before talking to their children!

Other parents should report the results of communication with their children to the teacher and express their gratitude to the teacher (by calling or interviewing at school). Thank the children for meeting such a responsible teacher, and thank the teachers for their expectation and not giving up. This should be the response that teachers want most. At this time, parents must think for the teacher from the heart and guide their children to understand the teacher in this way. Remember: don't let the children have the following misunderstanding: the teacher hates me for doing this, just to make things difficult for me and to make parents dislike me. Let the children know that the teacher likes him, has high hopes for him, feels that he has the potential to make progress or become better, and can join hands with his parents to promote his progress!

Let parents know about their children's real learning situation.

Some parents think that sending their children to school will be all right! Leave everything to the school. As for how children learn, they don't know much about it, and they don't even have the heart to understand it. Some parents trust their children, and they believe whatever they say! It should be noted that children nowadays also know that "good news is not bad news". Tell your parents if you do well in the exam. If you don't do well in the exam, you dare not tell your parents, or tell a lie or lie about your grades. There are also parents who know that their children have regressed in their studies, but they don't know how much their children have regressed, and they don't realize how much impact retrogression will have on their future study and development!

Remind parents to attach great importance to their children's learning.

Some parents have deep pockets and subconsciously think that everything can be solved with money. As for the future of their children, of course, it is paved with money! Children's school life is only a free and temporary transition, as long as the children are safe and don't get into trouble! Some parents are busy with work and business and never check and ask about their children's studies and grades. These things are left to their spouses or nannies. Some parents only know how excellent and beautiful their children were a few years ago, and their thinking still stays in elementary school or kindergarten a few years ago. They never imagined that their children had become so miserable now. They don't believe or don't want to believe that their children have regressed so much (even think that the teacher is incompetent, Lao Tzu is a hero, how can the teacher teach the children badly! )

Remind parents to be highly cooperative.

Education is a systematic project. It is completed by the comprehensive cooperation of family, school and society. I always think that family education is the first, because family education has solidified children's emotional intelligence and IQ, and even learned business. Some parents stubbornly believe that school is a place to study, and our parents give their children all the materials for life and life. What else is there? ! What does your school teach you to eat? In fact, this is an uneducated fool! This is sophistry, this is fallacy. As the ancients said, it is ugly and short to adopt a son without teaching him like a pig! Remind parents to check their children's schoolbags and homework regularly or irregularly, communicate with their children more, care more about their children, pay more attention to their growth and spend more time with them. Companionship is the longest confession! Parents are also reminded to communicate with teachers more about their children's learning, so that the integration of home and school can form a joint force, which is most conducive to the healthy growth of children.

Say "sorry" to the teacher! "It's all because of my own reasons that the supervision and management of children are not in place, which leads to such poor academic performance.

As a parent, shouldn't you say a few words of thanks to the teacher, mainly to thank the teacher for his concern and education for your children at school? I would also like to thank the teacher for not distributing the papers and exercise books that the children did badly among the parents, but giving them to you privately. You should praise the teacher's good practice, which not only leaves a lot of affection for parents, protects children's self-esteem, but also lets you know the real learning situation of children in time and get your parents' attention.

You should make a statement to the teacher that you should spend more time caring about your children's study from now on. If it should be taken back, carefully check the child's recitation; When dictating, you should carefully dictate the report to your child; Problems that children can't do should be counseled in time until they are explained clearly.

I hope the teacher will be more strict with your children in class. If the child is not attentive in class, the teacher will punish you as a matter of course, which shows that as a parent, you will never protect your own shortcomings.

I think the teacher will not be angry after hearing these words, because what the teacher wants is your attitude, and its purpose is to hate iron and not produce. I hope you care more about your children's study, and both family and school try their best to educate them.

In a word, you should actively cooperate with teachers and work hard to educate children.