Just look at how important it is for mom to dress up, and you will know all about it.

The Spring Festival is coming.

It is our tradition to celebrate the New Year and wear new clothes.

The whole family put on new clothes together and visited relatives and friends to celebrate the New Year.

But when we look around, we will find that.

Many children look awkward in their new clothes.

I remember the last time in the park, a child over two years old wore a dress that almost mopped the floor.

That dress still looks a little big for my four-year-old son.

My mother greeted my grandmother, and I learned from their chat.

That dress is for children, it is very big, so it can last for several years.

Just for these years, children will wear clothes that are completely unsuitable for these years.

Seeing his clumsy movements is not a taste for me.

Because I used to do this when I was a child, the sewing of my brother and sister's clothes came to me.

In those years, I always bowed my head and felt inferior for a long time.

The child is still young, but does he really have no feelings?

Of course, he will feel uncomfortable, and one day he will think, why am I dressed differently from other children?

Just ignored by parents.

So I choose clothes for my son and give my wife two suggestions: first, they fit me, and second, the children like them.

But my mother thinks I don't understand.

Finally, with the cooperation of my son and me, it influenced her to make a decision.

Many parents have two attitudes towards raising their children: "eat and wear warm clothes" and "study hard".

Therefore, we have achieved excellent results in the Olympic Mathematics Competition, but aesthetic education is seriously lagging behind and our aesthetic ability is low, so we are not valued by our parents.

What we hear most is that "it is not important for children to wear clothes, but it is important to be comfortable, because children grow up at once, so they should buy big ones."

Others will laugh at parents who dress up their children. "Why dress up your children every day? They will get dirty after a while. "

Have you really never put yourself in the child's shoes?

Is this the growth model they want?

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Dressing appropriately is an education that makes people feel comfortable.

Yang Lan mentioned the story that she had just returned to China for an interview, saying that no one has the obligation to discover your excellent inner qualities through your sloppy appearance. You must be exquisite, which is a woman's dignity.

As parents, when raising children, we should also let them dress appropriately and carefully.

Don't say that judging people by their appearances is superficial.

Who doesn't like to see beautiful things?

What do you think your friend will think if you make a mess of your children and go to a friend's house and your dirty little hand covers the white wall of the host's house?

Some time ago, a public service advertisement was circulated on the Internet.

This is an experiment of UNICEF. They want to test whether passers-by will pay attention to and care about the seemingly lost child if the same child walks alone in the street in two images: beautifully dressed and dirty.

This little girl named Anano, six years old, is the protagonist of this experiment.

On the streets of Georgia, Anano put on a skirt and a small coat with good texture and stood there quietly. It sounds like a rich kid got lost by accident. Soon, strangers began to care about her. Passers-by have released goodwill to this lonely little girl. They asked her what her name was, how old she was and where she lived.

Looking at her pitiful appearance, someone squatted down to care if she was lost.

Some people even take out their mobile phones and don't know whether to call or call the police.

Everyone seems to care.

However, before the story was over, Anano changed his clothes. The clean and lovely little girl disappeared, and the makeup artist dressed her up as a ragged wandering little girl.

The same place, the same Anano, she still stood there quietly.

There are still so many people in the square, bustling and busy. Then, nobody asked her.

Poor Arno just stood there, like standing in a forgotten corner, dazed and at a loss.

Finally, she said, I feel very sad. Everyone told me to go away quickly. Because I have dirty soot on my face and I'm wearing dirty clothes.

Many times we judge others only by their clothes. Even if the other person is just a child.

Of course, children like people around them to welcome themselves, pay attention to themselves and like themselves. They may not express themselves, but they also like to dress appropriately and behave gracefully. If you make your children sloppy, you can't blame them, it's the parents' responsibility.

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Why many people are rich, but they still look vulgar and rustic.

There is a comedy movie "My Fair Lady", which is about supplementing the quality of the nouveau riche.

In fact, it's not just the nouveau riche who lack aesthetics. We China people basically have to make up this lesson.

Because we ignore aesthetic education and overemphasize intellectual education.

It is inappropriate to blindly add famous brands, but it is still inappropriate to be temperamental.

The same is true for children to dress, not to buy big-name clothes or dress up.

It's about heart, decency and respect.

Therefore, parents should consider cultivating their children's aesthetics as soon as possible.

Because "the temperament of adults is caused by the aesthetics of childhood, and the aesthetics of childhood has laid the aesthetic tendency and quality of life of people all their lives."

And this kind of training is in peacetime.

In the clothes we choose for our children, in the layout of the room, and in the beautiful picture books we read to our children.

Of course, parents themselves should constantly improve their aesthetic level, cultivation and knowledge.

This will affect and help children.

Parents never give up the pursuit of beauty wherever they are, and the ability to live a meticulous and beautiful life is the key link of children's aesthetic education.

Let our children have a wonderful New Year.

Live a good life every day.