Please speak well.

A word can accomplish one thing, and a word can also do a bad thing. A word can turn a good thing into a bad thing, and a word can turn a bad thing into a good thing.

Why do people turn against each other, fight with each other, and even die of old age? Most of the reason is that this sentence hurts too much. It makes the listener uncomfortable, annoying if he listens too much, and disgusting if he listens again. In particular, a sentence that has been said over and over for countless times is endless. Listening can make people collapse. I hope he will shut up immediately, or stay away and never want to see him again.

When I woke up in the morning, my husband said that the meal was ready and left it in the pot for you. Xiaomi is very happy to hear this, and it is rare to have breakfast cooked by her husband.

"What did you do?" Xiaomi asked.

"Isn't it yesterday's leftovers? Distill two steamed buns. " Is this a meal? Well, it's a pity to waste it. Anyway, I don't have to eat today for the time being.

"Is it spicy?" Xiaomi has allergic rhinitis and can't eat spicy food.

"I don't know if it's spicy?" What is this? Xiaomi is very sad to hear this.

"Do I have to ask you if I want to know?" Xiaomi doesn't want to argue with him early in the morning. Talking is too choking, listening makes her lose her appetite.

"Can you talk well? Just say it's spicy or not. Why are you so strange? " Xiaomi is a little angry.

"You didn't eat spicy food last night, so you forget it now?" Seeing that Xiaomi was angry, the husband quickly lowered his tone.

"I just forgot, what's the matter?" millet

One sentence after another, two people quarreled, and neither one would let them.

"My heart will break down if you keep arguing." I kept hearing my son's voice, and the two of them stopped at once.

Xiaomi is still angry. I don't know if I'm going through menopause or if my husband is angry recently. Anyway, not a day goes by without quarreling.

Every time it is for one thing, for example, Xiaomi's gums are always bleeding during this time. Yesterday afternoon, he went to the hospital to wash his teeth. When I came back, I found that one of my front teeth was missing, and I said that I would go to the doctor for a theory.

"Looking for what to find? I can't make it up to you if I find someone else? Seeing people washing their teeth hot, telling you that washing your teeth is not good is not listening. "

Xiaomi is not happy when he listens. "You mean, watching people wash their teeth is retailing? My gums are bad, and I bleed every day, you know? It is not good to wash your teeth. Why do you wash it every year? "

"Then don't wash it off?"

"What is your logic? Did I drop it myself? " At the sight of her husband lying on the sofa laughing, Xiaomi was so angry that he stopped playing. Men in their early fifties go home to nest on the sofa all year round, either covered with quilts or wrapped in towels, looking like old ladies in their seventies and eighties.

"I'm too lazy to tell you. Don't talk to me from now on. " Xiaomi turned and went into the kitchen.

She's a little tired. Why did you tell him? It's no use bothering.

"Are you angry? Is it worth it for such a trifle? I am telling the truth. "

"How old are you, can you talk well? Say something that makes people feel comfortable. What happened? What do you do like a hedgehog every day? What have I done to you? Or are you tired of me and angry with me on purpose? When I am angry, you can find a new one. If you want a divorce, make it clear. If you don't want to leave, please talk to me. " Xiaomi lost his teapot and got angry with the people who followed the kitchen.

If it weren't for fear of affecting the children, the two would start a new round of quarrels.

According to my conscience, Xiaomi's husband is not bad, and he should be a good man at home, but his bad words make Xiaomi very angry. Sometimes, in order to avoid getting angry, Xiaomi simply talks less and doesn't even want to talk to her husband for a few days.

Every time Xiaomi quarrels with his wife, it is because of one sentence. Some people may think Xiaomei is a little melodramatic. After all these years, why should she take a serious sentence?

But sometimes a nasty word may become a fuse, and if you are not careful, you will hurt others. A warm-hearted word will be remembered many years later and will be very touching.

Some people classify people who can talk as people with high emotional intelligence. Everything a person with high EQ says will make you feel comfortable, and even blame will convince you.

Some people say good things in front of outsiders, but when they get home, they say bad things to their families. Maybe they think their families won't care too much, so they will be hurt by their words.

Don't forget, who cares about yourself the most in this world? They tolerate it because they think you are their relative. Rome wasn't built in a day, all tolerance will have a bottom line, and those who kiss again will get bored one day.

So in any case, please talk well, no matter how annoying or tired.

What does a person say? How to speak? The effect is often different.