My parents-in-law quarreled. What should I tell my husband?

I got a call from my mother-in-law at work and said that I had quarreled with my father-in-law and could not communicate. Mother-in-law cooks and father-in-law waters. My father-in-law fell out while my mother-in-law was cooking. In short, it is all kinds of opposites. My mother-in-law said she didn't want to live with him anymore. All she does is swear and throw things if she doesn't agree. When I heard my mother-in-law crying on the phone, I knew that things had reached a very serious level. My mother-in-law said that she had packed up and went back to my uncle's house.

As a daughter-in-law, how should you handle this situation?

Comfort her mother-in-law on the phone and call her husband after hanging up. Husband said there was no way. We are not at home. Let them make trouble. I don't think so, because my father-in-law can't cook at all The reason for the quarrel is that he has no appetite for any food. He thinks her mother-in-law's cooking is terrible, but I feel as if I have drunk too much, and I have already drunk too much. Ask the boss for leave at once. 1not until the end of October 165438+. The company is actually very busy. The boss agreed and called her husband again. He also pays great attention to his work. A friend happened to come home the next day. We drove together 14 hour and got home at 4 am. My husband and I told my dad to open the door. My dad was surprised and told him why he suddenly came back.

After a sleep, I got up and ran to my parents' house. My father-in-law said that he didn't eat breakfast or lunch. I bought a steamed stuffed bun for my father-in-law at the steamed stuffed bun shop more than ten yuan in advance. He sat up happily, took a few sips and said his mouth was still tasteless. I asked my husband to take my father-in-law to the hospital for examination. The doctor said that his blood sugar was low and he was anemic, so he was given medicine. We were thorough with my father-in-law and told him to give up drinking. The whole person is too thin to eat anything. If this goes on, the body will be unbearable. We talked seriously, and my father-in-law was scared. After returning home, let my son call three times a day and ask my father-in-law if he is drunk. I thought I couldn't quit drinking, but my father-in-law really quit drinking for decades.

My mother-in-law lives in my uncle's house, and we have visited her several times. Later, I advised her to come back, saying that my father-in-law couldn't control his temper because of drinking, asked her to go back and help supervise, and then gave her mother-in-law some money privately.

From then on, my father-in-law stopped drinking and became fat. He can eat three bowls and four bowls at dinner. The most important thing is that he looks better. He and his mother-in-law have never quarreled like this again. My mother said it was a good thing that we came back soon, otherwise I was afraid that my father-in-law would have serious problems if he continued to drink. Mother-in-law said that since she gave up drinking, everyone was reasonable and treated her much better than before. My father-in-law is not as angry as before, and he will think twice before he speaks. He won't be guilty if he exports.

In fact, I think it's nothing to drink less and occasionally, and it's no good to drink too much.

In the face of the quarrel between my parents-in-law, I think it is necessary to analyze the reasons for the quarrel in order to prescribe the right medicine. It is useless without everyone's big board. If we didn't go back, my father-in-law didn't quit drinking, and my mother-in-law didn't bring it back, I guess this family might be like this, because you can't expect an alcoholic to reflect, just reflect with your heart, and there may be no reason to do such a thing. Therefore, problems should be dealt with in time, and delays can't solve any problems, especially those between parents-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, it is not good to interfere too much, so I can only persuade my husband to mediate more. The harmonious development of a family is conducive to family happiness, so to maintain family harmony, both sons and daughters-in-law should take the initiative.