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For some people and things, how much bitterness does it take to say forget it?

One person’s hard work cannot bring two people eternal life.

This sentence applies not only to love, but also to all aspects of emotion in our interpersonal relationships.

Many times, you have to do your best and listen to fate; for some people and some things, it’s better to forget about it.

Forget about the love that cannot continue!

Those who die for love are so stupid after all!

Every life is a life that cannot be repeated. Love is just an occasional splash in the long river of life. In addition, there are so many beautiful things that are worth pursuing.

I once read a story about a woman who was abandoned by her husband. She was so sad that she wanted to jump into the sea. After being rescued, she was still in pain. So she went to the temple and asked the eminent monk for advice.

The woman shed tears before she spoke, crying out about the injustice of fate to her. She lamented her husband's ruthlessness and hated her own weakness. But even though she was so sad, she just couldn't come out and wanted to die to prove it. My own dedication to this love.

The eminent monk sighed softly and asked the woman to tell her about herself before entering into this relationship. The woman was stunned, as if the softest part deep in her heart had been touched. She was silent for a long time before slowly speaking.

When you are alone, you are full of all kinds of expectations and fantasies about love, you have the little thoughts of all the little girls in the world, you dress up beautifully, you have three or five close friends, you can chat anytime and anywhere; There is a "little woman" side and a "female man" side, and a person's life becomes a shining scenery.

The woman murmured about her former self, and her sad eyes gradually revealed a hint of joy. Probably, she herself was surprised by this version of herself.

After hearing this, the eminent monk nodded slightly and said only one sentence: "You used to be a person, and you are still a person now. How can you lose it?" ?

The woman paused for a long time and suddenly realized. She bid farewell to the eminent monk and went down the mountain with a smile.

Who in the mortal world is not? Coming and going naked without care?, I have loved, hated, and experienced love. For the rest of my life, I will know how to follow the fate, no matter it is love, Or being loved, no longer hysterical, no longer regard it as the only one in life.

Because, loving someone and being loved by someone are both natural!

Forget about the unbearable family affection! Life is a gorgeous robe covered with lice? Living in a big family, if the family atmosphere is too strong or too cold, it will become an unbearable burden.

My cousin Alin is already thirty-six years old, but she has not yet discussed marriage. When her parents had no hope of persuasion, they fully mobilized all relatives to act as counselors. As long as the family When people are together, no matter what topic they talk about, no matter how far they go, they always come back to this topic.

At first, A-Lin was still listening with a smile on his face, and felt that this was a warm family affection. She has also accepted blind date arrangements, but her first love was so beautiful that she could never forget it, couldn't let it go, and had no feelings for anyone.

With an attitude of preferring nothing to nothing, in the blink of an eye, A-Lin became an older leftover girl. Relatives also changed their attitude towards A Lin from trying hard to win over him at first, to cynicism, to worry.

Obviously, my parents were extremely disappointed with my attitude of not getting married. But she was extremely worried about her future. They no longer say anything more, but this anxiety and worry will always come from time to time through the greeting calls from relatives.

Alin also felt very distressed. She was struggling to find a lover she liked, but she was unwilling to give up her persistent pursuit of love. But the insinuations and insinuations from the family members were undoubtedly "tightening curses" that made people breathless.

As a result, A Lin deliberately alienated his family and did not want to go home during the holidays. He would rather travel around alone.

Everyone is an independent individual, and care and concern between relatives should be appropriate. Once the sense of boundaries is lost, family affection can be used as a matter of course to impose moral kidnapping.

It is enough for relatives to come and go. As for other people’s family and private affairs, it is better to keep a respectful distance. Otherwise, the family relationship will gradually drift away and never be the same again. .

Forget it if you can’t do it!

People always say that you must learn to jump to pick peaches. Indeed, on the road of life, many people can always climb one peak after another, constantly accumulate experience, and go from one success to another, triumphant songs are played all the way, and good news is transmitted.

Their experience seems to be in line with the saying: Genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration. ?In fact, their success corrects the second half of this famous saying: The one percent of inspiration is the most important, even more important than the ninety-nine percent of sweat. ?

Some things, indeed, diligence can make up for failure. But there are some things, if you still can't master the tricks and understand the secrets, the harder you work, the more you will go in the opposite direction.

My best friend Xiaojing works within the system, and the most important thing on weekdays is to write materials. Although it is boring, she has already been refined into steel and is very familiar with it.

But on this day, she was temporarily assigned to work in reception. As the saying goes, the ignorant are fearless, because there is a set plan, and the office has been contacted in advance. Meeting room reservations, meal reservations, room reservations, etc. have all been implemented one by one. Just ask Xiaojing to follow him to the scene.

Unable to bear the guest's temporary change of schedule, Xiaojing had to report to the office in a hurry and asked them to contact them immediately. After several calls, she was already dizzy; when she arrived at the scheduled special farmhouse for lunch, there was no one there. The waiter served tea and water all the time, so Xiaojing had to do these trivial tasks.

When dining, there are dining etiquette, tea and water are served, and they are also ordered according to rank and host and guest seating order. However, Xiaojing made a mistake in the order and was immediately corrected by an old leader accompanying her. , making her even more overwhelmed.

After a day of reception, Xiaojing said it was much more difficult than writing the materials. Xiaojing said that this time she finally understood why she had always been a dispensable person in the eyes of the leader.

How can you quickly enter the "leadership field" if you are not flexible, don't know what to do, and can't take the opportunity to express yourself?

Xiaojing said that in the past, she would have some ideas, thinking about continuing to make progress while she was young. But now it seems that for some things, even if I work very hard, my heart is unhappy, extremely anxious and uneasy, and even my inner thoughts are contrary to my inner thoughts, so why do I need to persist?