Never do these 10 things in love!

Remember not to do these 10 things in love.

1. Don't test each other's love in some abnormal ways, love really can't stand the test! Love is not for testing. Let alone love, nothing can stand the test.

Don't attack and degrade each other's personality, let alone always talk about each other's shortcomings. Both sides should respect each other, which is unconditional. Attacking and demeaning the other person's personality is to push your other half away.

Don't play and disappear, it's hot and cold, and you can't find anyone for a long time. It's not that everything should be reported here in advance. It is a bad behavior to play and disappear, and it is hot and cold. Over time, the other half will get bored and leave.

If you are in a bad mood, you can confide your feelings to each other, and you can't hide unhappy things from each other. Don't accumulate emotions in your heart alone. Everything should be communicated to solve your doubts. There is no point in accumulating too many things by yourself.

5. Quarrel can't be done overnight, it should be solved immediately, don't quarrel on the mobile phone, don't be negative, and put on a bad face. Obviously, I was angry, but I said nothing coldly. Satasi, a gender expert, said, "Fighting helps to build a long-term relationship, but the point is that it is too fierce." Fight when you should. We can understand our differences by quarreling and communicating. If you don't, you should. Just putting on a bad face and not facing it will only lead to more contradictions.

6. Don't break up easily and delete each other. In this case, even if it is just an expression, it may cause "invisible harm" to your feelings.

7. Don't take each other's kindness to you for granted, but learn to praise and recognize. No matter which side pays more, it needs to be repaid to continue. Being nice to you blindly, you only know how to enjoy it, but you don't know how to return it. In the end, you will all fail.

8. You can't cheat each other, even white lies will affect their trust. Trust is an indispensable part of a happy relationship. If you really have questions, you can also know the whole story by asking questions.

9. If you don't turn over old scores, why bring things from the past? Affect the current feelings, if there is a problem, then solve it. There's no need to repeat it when it's over. After all, the problems solved at that time will only bring more contradictions to both sides.

10. Don't belittle and disrespect each other's family. Even if your partner complains about his family, you should stop. This kind of thing can sometimes be criticized by family members, but "outsiders" are disgusted when they talk about it. If we really want to talk about each other's family, let's be polite and talk about it from the starting point of solving the problem!