Why don't you get married?

In fact, everyone has their own ideas about marriage. Nowadays, girls are becoming more and more independent and unwilling to get married. When I was free in the morning, I flipped through all the comments below this hot search and found that the first few hot comments were consistent. Some people say that "there is the best marriage age and only the most suitable marriage partner."

Someone said, "I am not married at marriageable age. It is not that I think marriage is not important, but that marriage is too important."

Some people also say that "marriage is not a necessity, just live alone." Maybe you will never get married. "

When I graduated from college, I was particularly anxious for a while. I was twenty-five, and I had never been in a real relationship. I watched everyone around me fall in love, get engaged, get married, and some have already started holding children.

On holidays, I am most afraid of going home and facing my family's embarrassed eyes. Most afraid of enthusiastic neighbors, they try their best to introduce people. It seems that people around you are more anxious than themselves. It seems that they all know better than themselves what kind of person is right for you.

Fortunately, I finally met the right person, walked together for three years and finally got married at the right time.

After getting married, I found that if I married the right person, it was really not as terrible as I thought. I have seen too many unhappy marriages before, afraid to face the eternal relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, afraid to face the first feather after marriage, and afraid that the triviality of life will dilute the sweetness of love.

But fortunately, I haven't found anything to worry about. If the mother-in-law doesn't live together, there is actually no contradiction. I only see her a few times a year. A small family of two people doesn't have so many housework. If you want to cook, you can cook and wash dishes alone, and if you don't want to cook, you can take out. It doesn't take much time for two people to share housework. Generally speaking, marriage is happier.

Of course, the premise of all this is to meet the right person, to be willing to coordinate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, to share housework with you, to cook and wash dishes for you, and to maintain a sense of ritual of love together in trivial matters.

I was deeply poked by my father's lines in the movie "The Leftover is King" before. Everyone hopes to have such a father who understands the righteousness. Even if not, I hope you can stick to your bottom line and meet the right person with your best self.