What do you mean by "don't be hard in different circles"?

It means that you can't walk together without the same words. The most fundamental reason is different values.

Different circles do not need to be strong, that is to say, different interests and hobbies, different circles of friends in life, barely together will only make people feel tired. In other words, they have different ways and have no common goal.

Barely meet, everyone's personality is different from childhood education, environment is different, ideas are different, and quality is different. Only people with the same hobbies and ambitions can have the same language together!

Extended information 1. Everyone wants to get effective social relations. In this process, we must abandon ineffective low-energy social relations and how to accurately manage our own relations. Starting from practical cases, this book discusses the communication problems that everyone faces and tells us how to be ourselves and how to attract good relationships.

2. In the Internet age, people's communication structure is bound to change: from casual acquaintances who don't want to miss every circle to accurate social interaction who stay away from invalid and useless circles. What we need is not how many people we know, but how many people know you.

3. By grasping the essence of interpersonal relationship, that is, value exchange is the answer to everything, turn yourself into a value ontology, improve self-worth, enhance the activity of interaction with others, discover and create your own value demand for others, and realize a positive life from the periphery to the core, from passive to active, and become an interpersonal magnet.