I'm a nanny.

Not long ago, one of my high school classmates complained to me that after giving birth to a second child, she obviously felt that she couldn't take care of it, but her mother-in-law was busy doing small business, regardless of helping her look after the children. She is annoyed every day, expressing envy that I live with my parents-in-law and have someone to take care of the children.

I smiled. It turns out that every family has a hard story to read, and everyone is envious of each other.

I said, "I still envy you. My parents-in-law have their own things to do, you don't have to worry about them. It is entirely your responsibility to take care of the children. How free a person lives. "

She said, "I don't care. There are many things every day. I cook breakfast in the morning, send my children to school, wash dishes and sweep the floor all by myself. "

I said, "Although I may be a little tired physically, I feel at ease inside. I live with my parents-in-law and feel at home everywhere. I can't do whatever I want. I have to ask their advice in everything. "

She replied, "If there are any constraints, you can treat them as nannies, which is better than paying for nannies outside."

I smiled and thought, I am the nanny at home.

Because my father-in-law had an operation five or six years ago and has always regarded himself as a patient. He does nothing but go downstairs to pick up some bottles and cartons and sell waste products every day. His mother-in-law threw his clothes into the washing machine for him to wash. Ask me to cook for him when he is hungry.

My mother-in-law gets up early in the morning, so she cooks rice soup and hot steamed buns and steamed buns in the morning, so we have rice soup and steamed buns in the morning. But I do everything else, picking up the children, cleaning the room, cleaning, cooking and washing dishes. Who told me to be idle at home? The most embarrassing thing is that we like to eat different things. I can't just cook what I like.

My mother-in-law wants to "get together" with her fellow villagers on time through video, and my father-in-law plays radio or watches TV almost every day. Two voices are coming and going, and my heart can't calm down. Listen, they are all enjoying their spiritual world comfortably. Why can't I calm my heart?

I really envy others who can take care of their own children or have their own private space. So after finishing housework, I try to stay in the bedroom, but the sound insulation is not good and it is still very loud.

How can we get along day and night without affecting each other? Just like my father-in-law complained to my husband a while ago, I guess they often don't like my attitude and the taste of cooking.

For example, when I send my children to school every morning, I like to arrive at the school gate on time, and my mother-in-law always urges us to go out twenty minutes early. But it's only four or five minutes on the road. Why are you standing at the door so early? I arrived ten minutes early, but waiting at the door for three or four minutes was not enough.

I want my children to study, but every time they come back from school, they see their grandparents watching TV. He used to stand in front of the TV and start watching TV. How should I study?

Without a quiet study atmosphere, I can't settle down, let alone be a child.

I always want to escape from reality, and I want to escape if something goes wrong, but I know that escape is not the best policy. Find ways to change the status quo. This is undoubtedly a great challenge for me.