Have a mother-in-law relationship.

Reiko Kobayakawa and her mother went to visit Linlin, who had just given birth. Linlin was Reiko Kobayakawa University's best friend, and Linlin's mother-in-law happened to be Reiko Kobayakawa's mother's friend, so the mother and daughter went to see Linlin together.

Linlin's mother-in-law warmly welcomed Reiko Kobayakawa and her daughter. When Linlin saw her long-lost girlfriend, she also ran out of the bed in the room and held Reiko Kobayakawa's hand. Linlin's mother-in-law led them into Linlin's bedroom and said, "You two sisters talk about your personal feelings. I will take the children out to watch. If you want to nurse, I will call you. "

Linlin giggled and said, "Thank you, Mom. I know you are the most reasonable. "

Mother-in-law smiled: "well, you are sweet, because I also want to talk to my sister."

Reiko Kobayakawa always smiles, but in her heart, she envies Linlin's mother-in-law relationship. Reiko Kobayakawa thought, if only her mother-in-law could do the same.

During this period, Linlin's mother-in-law sent a fruit, added a glass of water and sent a snack. Reiko Kobayakawa said politely, "Auntie, I'm sorry to bother you and keep you running around."

Before Linlin's mother-in-law could speak, Linlin went on to say, "Yes, Mom, Reiko Kobayakawa is not an outsider. You don't have to be so polite, it makes her feel embarrassed. Tell your aunt quickly. " Then he turned to Linlin and said, "Reiko Kobayakawa, you don't know, my mother, I can be diligent and eager to do anything. I don't have to worry about things at home. "

Reiko Kobayakawa said with high emotional intelligence, "Yes, your life is very good. Who doesn't know you have a good mother-in-law? "

Linlin looked proud: "Of course, such a good mother-in-law is really rare."

Linlin's mother-in-law seems to have some embarrassed smile, and then crossed out to chat with her old sister.

In the living room, Reiko Kobayakawa's mother whispered to Linlin's mother-in-law, "Your daughter-in-law has a good personality and is careless and kind to you. Look how close she is to her mother. Unlike my daughter-in-law, she can't beat a fart with three sticks. "

Linlin's mother-in-law smiled and said, "Nothing. The child has a good personality and no bad intentions. Hey, her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, just look good. "

At noon, Reiko Kobayakawa and her mother wanted to say goodbye, but Linlin's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law desperately wanted to stay, especially Linlin. She took Reiko Kobayakawa's mother's hand and kept saying, "Auntie, Reiko Kobayakawa, you must stay for dinner and try my mother's cooking. The food cooked by my mother is more delicious than that in the restaurant. If you don't believe me, just try. I always bring my mother's cooking to work at noon now, and everyone in our unit thinks it's delicious.

Unable to resist the enthusiasm of her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Reiko Kobayakawa and her daughter stayed for lunch.

After dinner, Reiko Kobayakawa went to Linlin's bedroom to sit for a while. Finally, she couldn't help admiringly saying to Linlin, "Your relationship with your mother-in-law is really enviable. It feels like mother and daughter. Nothing like me and my mother-in-law. I don't talk to my mother-in-law now. In order not to meet him, I will wait for them to finish eating before going upstairs. "

Unexpectedly, Linlin snorted and said, "Actually, my mother-in-law and I just flatter each other insincerely. In fact, many times she doesn't like me, and I don't like her in some places. "

Reiko Kobayakawa sighed: "That's not bad. Whether it's insincere or flattering each other, at least on the surface, the family is harmonious. You can't understand the embarrassment of not talking under the same roof." Anyway, once enough paper is broken between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is difficult to repair it. Basically, the hole is getting bigger and bigger. In fact, your hypocrisy and mutual flattery are the best products to protect enough paper. "

In fact, Linlin's hypocrisy theory was also taught by her 90-year-old grandmother.

Linlin grew up with her grandmother who loved her deeply. On the wedding day, her 90-year-old grandmother called Linlin to her side and said, "You don't have to please your mother-in-law or be hostile to her. Just flatter her, just as you flattered me when you were a child. "

Linlin, who has just become his wife, doesn't know what her grandmother taught her, but flattery has always been Linlin's specialty. When she was young, she tricked her grandmother into eating a lot of lollipops because of this specialty.

Linlin gradually understood the grandmother's intention to flatter her mother-in-law. First, everyone likes to listen to good words. Secondly, the daughter-in-law always praises her mother-in-law for her ability, diligence and delicious cooking. She is as kind to her as her own daughter, but is her mother-in-law embarrassed? I'm sorry, upper body lazy cancer. I'm sorry, let you cook for a rookie? At the very least, for the sake of her mother-in-law's good image, she has to pretend even if she pretends.

At this point, Linlin finally understood what his grandmother taught him, and could not help but sigh: Ginger is still old and spicy.

Ginger is not only Linlin's grandmother, but also Linlin's mother-in-law is not spicy. She soon saw through Linlin's tricks, so she followed suit. As a daughter-in-law, Linlin was embarrassed by all kinds of praise at home and abroad. In order to be a good daughter-in-law, she had to tidy up.

From then on, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to flatter each other in vain. Unexpectedly, the effect is not bad.

In fact, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in every family can be written as a thick palace drama. After a couple gets married, it is by no means as simple as' because of love'. It not only combines the daily necessities of life, but also involves the relationship between two big families, especially the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Therefore, the harmony of a family can never be achieved because of the tolerance of the daughter-in-law, nor can it be maintained by the mother-in-law

In life, people tend to be more kind to colleagues and neighbors, and forgive and understand people outside their families; On the other hand, people are so harsh, extreme and narrow that they ignore the feelings of others. On the contrary, they expect more love and care from each other, but often "the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment." This is especially reflected in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

A beautiful life needs wisdom to create wisdom, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family needs wisdom more. Good is wits, bad is tit for tat. So the language skills between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are very subtle. A good expression is warm, and a bad expression is mean and vicious. So, if you want to be a villain, you still want to be a good person. Your mother-in-law or daughter-in-law should use her head. As the saying goes,' Everything is fine at home', if you understand that the harmony of the whole family is the foundation of happiness, then it is good for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to love each other and kill each other, as long as they are harmonious on the surface. As the saying goes,' no matter whether it's a black cat or a white cat, catching a mouse is a good cat', no matter whether she is insincere or flattering you, as long as your heart benefits and your family is safe, that's good.

In real life, most mother-in-law is always the most stingy to give her daughter-in-law a compliment; Most daughter-in-law is always the most stingy to give her mother-in-law a little affirmation; With differences, no one wants to deny themselves and affirm each other.

So, learn from a few generous mothers-in-law, praise your daughter-in-law, learn from smart daughters-in-law, and flatter your mother-in-law, whether it is true or not, because everything is for the harmony of a big family, in fact, you all know!