My wife is going to have a baby. What should I do as a husband?

Before the wife gives birth to a child, the husband should eat, drink, sleep and do whatever he wants. Cheer up and get ready to accompany your wife when she gives birth. (I'm not slandering the prospective father)

Although my family already has two children, if you ask my husband what he has now, he can't answer. Because it is always prepared by me or my parents. The good thing is that he has never been stingy with money, but he is really unclear about what to buy. I think this is normal, because as a husband, there are more important things to do now than preparing luggage: making financial preparations and accompanying preparations.

1. Economically, the income of most expectant mothers may have an impact, but it costs a lot of money to have a child before, during and after pregnancy, so this important task must fall on the prospective father.

2. During production:

It will be a little better if you give birth naturally, and your mother's own activities are not so limited. Caesarean section requires at least 4 days in hospital, and I have been in hospital for 7 days. If the economy is good, we will definitely invite the Lunar New Year. Everyone can relax, the economic conditions are average, and they can only serve their families.

It is the most painful time for a parturient to have a caesarean section for a week. My husband has been accompanying me to eat and live. He takes care of my daily life, from washing my face and brushing my teeth to checking my body with wormwood water, and then cleaning my wounds. Of course, he also handles the children alone. After a few days in the hospital, the whole person lost a circle, very thin, but I can still see that he is thinner and haggard.

So before I was born, I would do everything I could myself, and the two of us were also working together.

First of all, I hope my husband is strong enough. He can respond quickly to any problems I encounter in the production process. Instead of being overwhelmed and flustered.

Then be careful and considerate. I will prepare the bags before delivery, and I can finish them ten days before the due date. I can pack my things right away and take me to the hospital in time. Comfort me calmly and tell me, don't be nervous and don't be afraid. Then he can hold my hand to comfort me, or massage my back to relieve my pain when I am in severe pain. I can carefully record the interval and duration of my pain.

Keep a clear head in the production process. Once an emergency occurs and a caesarean section is needed, the doctor comes out to ask his opinion, and he can immediately give affirmation and sign it quickly. If all goes well, the first person I want to see after giving birth is my husband. I heard him say to me, thank you, wife, I love you.

It will be difficult for me to go to the toilet the first few times after giving birth. I hope my husband will accompany me. I hope my husband will take the initiative to take care of the baby.

After returning home, he can arrange everything for me during confinement. Can let me have a good confinement. Isn't it a popular saying now? This is called the revenge of confinement, and it's not * * * to wear clothes! If the husband can't be with him, then take care of his parents and family, take the initiative to help his wife look after the children and take care of his wife's diet and daily life. After all, a month after a woman gives birth is very important for our future health.

I said my own husband did it, but I also know that not everyone can do it, and what my husband did is not necessarily standard. But in my mind, what my husband does is still very good and perfect. On the tenth day of my confinement, my husband bought me a corset. He told me that getting back in shape is not important. It is necessary to restore internal organs and uterus after delivery, which will affect future health and must be worn. 12 I wore a corset that day. As he wishes, I am in good health and my figure has recovered well! !

Finally, women are mostly emotional animals, as long as their husbands are pregnant, have children and feed them. Never give up, accompany and take care of. Then when you need him, she will not give up taking care of him!

1. Check the luggage again.

Honey, I want to check the contents of the bag carefully. The bag should at least include: pajamas: 2-4 sets. Nursing underwear: 3 pieces. Slippers: 1-2 pairs. Towels: 2-4. Underwear: 2-4. Breast pump: 1. Maternity sanitary napkins: 2-4 packs. Lunch boxes, spoons, chopsticks and other tableware. Toilet: 1 set. Dental appliance, comb, small mirror, skin cream, toiletries, etc. Discharge clothes: 1 set, etc.

2. The lovemaker's "crutch".

The pregnant woman is about to give birth, and the doctor will ask her to exercise properly. At this time, the husband will help his lover walk around and be a "crutch" for pregnant women.

3. The "masseur" of the lovemaker.

When my wife gave birth, her contractions were severe. The guide and I took turns massaging her back. This is a very good and practical method, which can greatly alleviate the pain of pregnant women.

As a recognized god, let me answer.

First, do a good job of punching bag.

Pregnant women can't control their emotions because of hormones, so please play the role of punching bag and conscientiously implement the central idea that "the wife is right if she is wrong".

Second, keep telling your wife, "You are the most precious!"

In short, put your wife's feelings first and keep telling her this.

Pregnant women are often said, "For the sake of children, you want xxxx". Frankly speaking, sometimes I really want to slap the person who said this to me. For example, I just don't eat internal organs, and I don't see that I lack arms and legs. I still have to feed my children. I thank my husband for standing by me no matter what happened at that time. Even when walking, he will emphasize to the children that mother is a small deed of mutual covenant in this family.

Third, if you plan to give birth naturally, I will accompany you to do sports and Latin dance training.

After 28 weeks, Ramaz's related sports can be done with his wife. This is mainly to exercise his ability to control muscles, and then he can better cooperate with the midwife, which is very helpful to relieve pain.

Besides, you can walk with me or something.

Fourth, please ask the doctor to use painless when giving birth naturally.

Painless, is the greatest invention in the world, no one. The penetration rate abroad is as high as over 85%. Please feel free to consult the doctor boldly. As long as there is no problem after the doctor's examination, your wife will sign it.

Ps: Many hospitals allow husbands to accompany their babies, which is arranged by your wife.

5. After leaving the delivery room, see the adults first and then the children.

In class, the teacher in the hospital said that 80% of postpartum depression began in the delivery room, and the reason for the beginning was that the closest people chose to look after the children at that moment and ignored the adults.

I have a friend whose husband accompanied her in childbirth and stayed with her after giving birth. She didn't take her hands and eyes away until she let her husband see her, and she always kept them in her heart. We all envy her.

Finally, I wish the production smooth and all my wishes come true.

My wife is going to have a baby. What should I do as a husband?

I am the mother of a second child. I believe this will help you talk about what I hope my husband can do after I have children.

If you give birth naturally, you can't imagine the pain she has to endure, and this is when she needs you most. You should stay with her, comfort her and cheer her on. You can hold her hand to give her strength, prepare water for her when she wants to drink water, and replenish her strength when the pain is not severe. In short, let her know that she is not fighting alone!

If it's a caesarean section, all you have to do is let her relieve her psychological pressure.

Remember to wait for her outside the delivery room after giving birth. The first thing you saw when you let her out was you. Hold her hand and tell her that your wife has worked hard, which is more important than anything.

After returning to the ward, you must take good care of her, take good care of her and the children, and let her have a good rest. Take good care of the moon when you get home.

In fact, whether a woman marries the wrong person depends on how her husband treats her when she gives birth to a child. Women are emotional animals. If you are kind to her, she will be kind to you. Some people say that whether a family is happy or not depends on what this woman has done, so if you want a happy family, please hold your wife in the palm of your hand and love her, and she will give you a happy home!

I hope my answer can help you.

As a husband, do you need to ask? My wife is going to have a baby. First of all, you should comfort her more and let her relax and not be nervous. If the hospital can let her family accompany her to give birth, it is understandable that you accompany her to cheer him up and let her get it when she is in extreme pain.