How terrible is the desire to compare?

Who doesn’t have the desire to compare? Who doesn’t want to compare themselves to others? In fact, everyone has a desire to compare in their hearts. There is no need to talk about how terrible the desire to compare is. In fact, having a desire to compare is not necessarily a bad thing, and not having a desire to compare is not necessarily a good thing.

The husband of a friend of mine is a Mr. Almost. At work, that's pretty much it. Never ask for advancement. I can't make any money, and I show off all day long that I have no desire to compare. Don't compare yourself to others, this is an open-minded life. He also scolded his wife all day long, disliked him, was too keen on comparison, and always compared him with others. I'm not that good, but I'm quite glass-hearted.

I especially appreciate a passage by Teacher Xiao Qiushui. I don’t have to buy a house, but I can’t afford it. The former is a matter of choice, the latter is a matter of ability.

So those who blame others for not having the desire to compare are not because of the desire to compare, but because of their ability.

On the other hand, the desire to compare is overwhelming, which is certainly not a good thing. Or those who sell their kidneys for apples, or those who take out naked loans on campus. And what are those people who want a complete set of electronic products before going to college doing?

I have a younger sister who scored more than 200 points in the college entrance examination and asked me to help with career planning. This score can only be used to study in a junior college. I told her that she must complete her undergraduate degree during college. If she has the energy, she can study for another degree. As a result, they didn't listen and forced his father to buy a laptop worth more than 7,000 yuan. Her father works at the construction site, and the couple's salary is only more than 4,000.

After I found out about this, I was absolutely furious. He scolded her directly. However, it feels like it’s useless.

Young people, sometimes you need to fall into some traps.

In short, if you use the mentality of comparison well, you will make progress; if you use it poorly, you will seek death.