What should women do in the face of domestic violence?

The more a woman endures domestic violence, the more she will be beaten. A girl asked me last night, if a man really loves a woman, will he hit her? This question asks, as long as a woman falls in love with a man, will her IQ really go to zero? It's not the same thing that a man beats a woman and a parent beats a child. Have you ever heard that sticks make a dutiful son and sticks make a good wife? The girl said that men really did it, and women were no rivals at all. Yes, I agree with this, but women can't just sit around and let men punch and kick. Don't they understand that people are good at being bullied and ridden? Because I haven't finished talking about that girl, I will write her article in a few days, just want to talk about this domestic violence first. In fact, there is a first time for everything, that is, the first quarrel after marriage. A friend once told me that the first quarrel after marriage was mainly based on the first time. After that, it's basically this mode. At first, I thought it was ridiculous. Later, I asked many married people, and it turns out that this statement is correct. Therefore, the first quarrel in those marriages should not be underestimated. Even if I didn't handle it well the first time, I should think about coping strategies when it happens again afterwards. Speaking of domestic violence, when a man's fist falls on a woman for the first time, the woman's heart pain is absolutely greater than everything. When men come to their senses and start apologizing, women will deceive themselves and help men make excuses together. It is because of what happened to him that men get angry and hit people. Most men are just confused for a moment. Ha, this is a common problem of many women. When there is no first domestic violence, it is difficult for us to predict that men will be such assholes. We can forgive the first domestic violence, but we can't be silent. We must seriously warn him that my mother will bite you to death next time. After forgiveness, it doesn't mean that this matter has passed. Of course, it's not that you want to talk about it, but in your heart, you must think about what to do if there is a second time. If the second time and the first time are handled in this way, then I can say that the third time is waiting for you not far away, and there will be the fourth, fifth and sixth times. Every time I write about domestic violence, I always think of that TV series. Don't talk to strangers. The ferocious and twisted face of the hero in the play will appear in front of me. This TV series tells us two things. One is that men's domestic violence has nothing to do with academic qualifications, and high academic qualifications do not necessarily mean sound personality. The second is that the weaker a woman is, the harder a man's fist is. The girl told me that every time a man started, she was passively beaten. After three years of marriage, she was beaten several times. I asked her why she didn't resist. She also said that women can't beat men Yes, just because she can't beat a man, she has to find ways to avoid being beaten. If she can beat him, she is harder than anyone. A dog jumped over the wall and bit a rabbit. If she can't, she will bite him. Maybe a man will become more angry when he is bitten. I asked why I didn't call the police. She said that I was afraid that the police would make a mountain out of a molehill, which really left me speechless. not too good , not too bad As long as I can bear it, I will continue to bear it. Calling my family and friends my uncle won't help at all. I never approve of going home or work to solve housework, which can only make things worse, but I can call the police for help. Most men are a little afraid to go to the police station, and this record is in case they have to go to court in the future. Being beaten by men again and again without taking any measures is called meanness. What kind of love is this? You don't care about yourself. Why should a man care about you? A man's bravery is completely indulged by himself. Generally, there are more than three cases of domestic violence, and basically this marriage is hopeless. Make a plan and return to the shore as soon as possible.