How to get rid of your unrealistic dream of being a star? What kind of psychology is fame based on?

When I was young, everyone had a dream of becoming a star. Of course, the so-called star dream is not just a star now. I also want to be famous and change my role. For example, I like Hohoku very much, and sometimes I simply think of myself as Naruto, dreaming that I can become Naruto one day, which has been recognized by everyone.

In fact, now that I think about it, I just want to get a kind of self-affirmation. First of all, today's children learn everything, know a little about everything and do so many things. If no one sees them, they will have self-doubt. Attention and care is what everyone needs, otherwise people will not be social animals as others say. In fact, I think that due to the modernization of China, the more information people receive, especially for people of our age, the more things we find we like. For example, a person not only likes music and painting, but also has many other kinds. So, you are not the only one who can dream of becoming a star, but you haven't found it yet.

Speaking of it's a good thing to get over it when you grow up, personally, it's good to dream sometimes, and it won't hurt others or yourself. Just don't get too involved. Write a novel about the person you want to be, even if it's only for yourself. Change your mind, don't force it. If you can, you can really be famous if you publish it.

Having said that, what I mainly want to express is that a dream can exist in one's life, because it is not an ideal, and one does not pursue the result and does not have to learn to get rid of it. If you daydream every day because you are dissatisfied with reality, it is not a dream, but an escape. There are many disappointments in life. If you are tired, stop and dream.