I went to my boyfriend’s house for the first time and met his sister. After I came back, the more I thought about it, the more I felt aggrieved. Did I think too much?

To be honest, if it were me, I would dislike it very much. First of all, we agreed that you, your boyfriend, and your boyfriend's sister would have dinner together, and then when you went there, there was another boyfriend's sister. Dad can still accept it, after all, there is just one more person. The key is that three of the five dishes he served during the meal were very spicy. Your boyfriend knows that you can't eat chili peppers because you have pharyngitis, and you are in a special period. But what exactly did your boyfriend tell his sister? There are two situations. One is that your boyfriend didn’t tell your sister that you were in a special period and couldn’t eat spicy food. I guess your boyfriend took into account that his sister and best friend like spicy food, so he didn’t say that he wanted you to eat spicy food. Be patient. Because there are vegetables and crabs not far away. He thinks these two dishes are enough for you.

One of the reasons is that your boyfriend did tell his sister that you can't eat spicy food, and asked his sister not to cook dishes with chili peppers. But his sister thinks it doesn’t matter. You’re just a girlfriend. I’ll leave two out of the five dishes for you to eat. Then we love spicy food, so why should we accommodate you alone? What about the taste? So from this situation, it can be seen that his sister may not care about you that much.

If it were my brother but his girlfriend came over for dinner, I would first ask my brother what his girlfriend likes to eat and whether she likes spicy food. Because my own taste is not spicy. If his girlfriend likes spicy food, then I will definitely prepare some spicy dishes for him. In addition, he likes to eat roast duck, or what kind of meat it is, so try to make as much preparations as possible. After all, she is my girlfriend, I will also attach great importance to her, and I will also like her very much.

So no matter what the situation is, it can be seen that your boyfriend and his sister don’t actually value you that much, so it is normal for you to feel wronged. I can only say that you need to communicate more with your boyfriend. Communicate.