What should I do if I find my husband chatting with my female classmate on WeChat?

"I recently found that my husband always holds a mobile phone. He went to bed earlier than I did last night. I glanced at his cell phone when I was sleeping. Seeing a female classmate chatting on WeChat, they have already talked about sex.

That lesbian learned from my husband: how do you face the one at home after that step? Husband said: I don't know, I haven't experienced it.

Their information is disgusting. I filmed it and prepared to send it to my husband tomorrow. I thought about it and went to the guest room to sleep under the quilt.

When I went to the toilet, I saw that he was awake and brushed WeChat. Maybe he remembered that the information with his female classmates had not been deleted. I said, do you remember that the information was not deleted? You didn't expect me to see it?

When I finished, I went back to the guest room. He followed me and said, what do you want? I said, what do you want now? This is obviously what you want. If you really can't get through, you can.

He said it was just a WeChat chat, nothing. I said, what will you do if I chat with others to this extent? He didn't answer. Later, he admitted his mistake and said that he would ignore her in the future and begged me to forgive him. I'm thinking of giving him a chance. Maybe I'm not good enough, that's why he is like this. After all, he has two children.

I didn't get up until after noon today (it's a day off), thinking about who I always want to talk to, my mother-in-law and my sister. I always consider many factors and don't know who to talk to. What should I do? "

My suggestion: don't say anything to anyone for the time being, sit down and have a good talk with my husband and see if he is really determined to break up with his classmates! Observe for a while before making a decision.

Do you live in harmony? Is your life interesting? Have you talked to him about anything similar? Think about why, it's not necessarily my husband's affair, I just want to seek spiritual stimulation.

You can communicate with him calmly and express your bottom line with him in a quiet way. It's best to let him write a written guarantee, which will be a constraint for him.

Don't tell anyone around you about such a thing. There is no power without ventilation in the world. Even if he doesn't cheat, what will others think of him and you? I'm bored. I can go out for a walk, have my own hobbies and friends, and divert my attention.