What does the sentence "no borrowing, no courtesy, no aisle" mean?

As the saying goes, it is the experience handed down from the older generation, and people must abide by it after warning. There is a saying that if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer. If you don't accept these lessons, you will eventually lose yourself. This is what the saying goes: keep your eyes open when you borrow money, and don't lend it to everyone. When the time comes, the steamed stuffed bun will never come back, so you should pay attention to the ceremony. I can't tell.

There are three things you can't borrow

First, in daily life, we will observe that some people in life are lazy and often borrow money without paying it back. If such people borrow money, they have to keep their eyes open and can't borrow it. If they lend him money, they can't get it back, and he can't pay you back. This is the first one not to borrow.

2. Go to someone else's house for a wedding and push a cup on the wine table for a change. Some friends are acquaintances. An acquaintance can't borrow money from you because he doesn't know him or where he lives. If you lend money to such a person, you won't want to come back.

Thirdly, there is another kind of people, that is, gamblers and people who drink a lot of wine and get drunk. This kind of person must not lend him money, because he has no position in the family, owes a lot of gambling debts and drinks a lot every day. Such a person has no money in his pocket. Lend him money and never come back.

There are three things that have not been followed.

First, they are all old classmates. After graduation, they never contacted each other again. When their children grow up, they will get married. Suddenly, they asked you to share the gift. Don't bring this kind of gift, because students who haven't touched it don't know where to live. If their children call him when they get married, he may change his mobile phone number, so your gift money will be wasted.

Second, if a colleague's child gets married at work, but people look down on you and don't ask you to attend the child's wedding reception, such a courtesy member must not follow, because colleagues look down on you and you still give him gifts with money. Where is your future face?

Second, if a rural person goes to work in a city and works as a temporary worker in a job, it is the same job. If the workers' children get married, this gift can't be accompanied, because they are all temporary workers and may be separated at any time and place. If he leaves this job, he will never see it again, and such a gift will never come back.

There are three ways to go.

What are crooked ways if they don't go? If you don't take the illegal road, that is to say, the country doesn't allow business and theft, then don't take this road. If you take this road, it is a road of no return.

Second, you can't take the unknown road ahead, that is, after driving to other places, you can't take the unknown road ahead, because you don't know what the danger is. In case there is a deep pit, driving in the pit will cause car crash and death, so you have to find the way you know.

Third, when we travel, we should follow the instructions of the tour guide, don't take the initiative and go alone. At that time, we will go into the deep forest and meet jackals and big worms. These animals can't eat themselves, and they will get lost and never come back. At that time, they would really make fun of their lives.

The above is to tell people that if they follow the words of the older generation, they will not suffer when they step into society, and they will not fall into deep ditches when they walk on the road, especially young people are willing to take risks, but if they get lost, they will never go home again. These proverbs will last forever because they are good for people.