Ten characteristics of unqualified fathers

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Child: "Dad, where are the toys you promised me last time?"

Dad: "Son, dad forgot, can I buy it for you next time?"

Child: "You always say that and ignore you ..."

The child walked away crying like this. ....

In real life, such situations abound, because before 12 years old, children worship and trust their father the most, especially every word their father says, and children will take it seriously.

However, many fathers always find many reasons not to participate in their children's education. For example: busy at work; Overtime; Dinner or something. Feel that the child is still young, just find a reason.

For such a dishonest father, it will do a lot of harm to the children, and it will also let the children gradually develop bad living habits, which will affect their lives.

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Dad who is absent from education-unqualified

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Teacher: "classmate XX, didn't your father say that parents would come this time?" Is anybody there? Are you here? "

Classmate: "Teacher, my father is on a temporary business trip and can't come."

Teacher: "Next time, remember to call your parents."

Classmate: "I see ..."

In fact, in the children's hearts, I still hope that my father can attend the parent-teacher conference. But the above situation is happening in many families. Many fathers are absent from their children's education, and even many fathers do not participate in their children's education. All mothers are educating their children alone.

Actually, this is not right. Dad's lack of education for children will make children gradually lose their father's love, and children without father's company will make children less masculine!

three

A grumpy father-unqualified

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"If you can't do this little thing well, I won't slap you."

"What do you think you can do? You did so badly in the exam!"

"Next time you don't listen, don't go home! ! ! "

Some fathers have a bad temper, especially when educating their children, but they can't control their emotions. They always like to hit children, even scold them and call names.

I don't know if this will continue for a long time, which will lead to the imperfect psychological development of children. If the situation is serious, it will also cause psychological shadow and even trauma.

four

A controlling father-unqualified

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"Tell me everything you did today."

"What is your friend's relationship with you, boyfriend and girlfriend? Tell me about it? "

"You go out with me tomorrow."

Some fathers always like to impose everything that interferes with their children when educating them, and always want them to act according to their own wishes. This practice will only deprive children of the opportunity to express themselves and express their views, and will make them feel "I won't", "I won't" and "I'm not good", leading to self-doubt and cowardice.

Such a father will only bring invisible pressure to the children and affect the parent-child relationship.

five

Dad with bad habits-unqualified

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"Dad, can you stop smoking at home?"

"Dad, can you drink less next time? You threw up all over the room! "

"Dad, can you not take people home to play mahjong? Affect my homework! "

In real life, there are not a few such fathers, and their life style is not good. They never even thought that this kind of happiness is based on the pain of their families, at the expense of their children's health?