Talk about your feelings about reality: Taking everything too seriously will only make you suffer and tire yourself.

1. Please don’t judge me rashly. You only know my name, but you don’t know my story. You only hear what I did, but you don’t know what I went through.

2. Life is not perfect, live every day seriously. Friends should not be compared with each other, but should be sincere to each other; clothes should not be compared with high or low, they should fit well; houses should not be compared with size, they should be comfortable and warm; cars should not be compared with fame, but a safe journey ; Appearance should not be compared with beauty or ugliness, the mentality should be balanced; body should not be fat or thin, should be healthy and disease-free.

3. Live the days lightly. Life is like water, and life is like tea. No matter how good the tea is, once it is soaked in water, it will become weak over time. Maybe it's because the edges and corners have become smoother, maybe because I've become more mature and steady, my steps are becoming more and more practical, and my days are becoming duller. Life has entered another realm, indifferent. Gains and losses, successes and failures, gatherings and separations, although we still long for everything to be good, we can also accept everything that is not good. Indifference is a kind of growth in life.

4. A foot is short and an inch is long. Only by always having a humble heart can you make yourself more perfect. There is no perfection in life, only perfection; there is no perfect time in life, only try your best.

5. Half of your destiny is in your hands, and the other half is in God's hands. The more extraordinary your efforts are, the greater the half you hold in your hands, and the more abundant you will gain. When you are completely desperate, don't forget that you own half of your destiny; when you are carried away, don't forget that God still has half of your destiny.

6. Don’t think too much, just let nature take its course. You will get what is yours. There is no need to suppress yourself, and there is no need to flatter yourself. Maintaining the strength of character you deserve will win you more opportunities and respect. Don't be particularly nice to anyone, and don't be particularly bad to anyone. Never be taken advantage of by the few. It is more important to believe in yourself than to rely on others. It is better to work quietly than to use all your energy.

7. There are many beautiful things waiting for you in the world, so you have to be gentle at heart and work hard quietly.

8. No matter how beautiful people live, there will be desolation; no matter how graceful the road is, there will be confusion; no matter how loud the song is, there will be silence. People each have their own position, outlook on life and values. Don't be too demanding of others, and don't be too demanding of yourself. Stay kind, be sincere, be tolerant of others, and be strict with yourself.

9. It is better to endure hardship later in life than to endure hardship early. Life is very tiring. If you are not tired now, you will be even more tired in the future. Life is very bitter. If you are not miserable now, you will be more miserable in the future. All things are mutually reinforcing and mutually restraining each other. If there is no bottom, there will be no top. If there is no low, there will be no high. If there is no bitterness, there will be no sweetness. Only when you are tired can you feel free; only when you are bitter can you know how sweet it is. While you are still young, boldly go out to face the baptism of wind, frost, rain and snow, and develop a patient, open-minded and wise heart, then happiness will come.

10. No one leaves you because of impulse. You can’t see those tears of sadness and helplessness that you endure again and again. Like a crack under a dam that gradually widens due to erosion, all you see is the moment it collapses.

11. You can still drink the water when it is cold, but when your heart is cold, even talking about happiness seems lonely.

12. It’s really disgusting to be someone who stabs someone else and then flaunts himself as a sharp-tongued person.

13. The reason why people are troubled is because of their memories; the reason why people are tired is because they are wandering; the reason why people are moving forward is because they are grateful; the reason why people are happy is because they are open-minded; the reason why people are mature is because they are open-minded. See through; the reason why people give up lies in choice; the reason why people are tolerant, lies in understanding; the reason why people are human, lies in feelings; the reason why people are fulfilled lies in the process; the reason why people are successful lies in diligence; the reason why people are happy lies in contentment.

14. In fact, I am always behind you, I just need you to look back.

15. Competent people do not care about emotions, but only take things seriously; incompetent people do not take things seriously, but only care about emotions. Taking out your temper is called instinct; suppressing your temper is called ability!

16. In a relationship, if there is always more unhappiness than happiness, then there is no need to continue, regardless of love or friendship.

17. Life is full of ups and downs, and stumbles are inevitable. At any time, no matter what confusion you face in life, or how many setbacks you experience, no matter how difficult the road is, no matter how slim your hope becomes, no matter how many times you fall, you must be strong enough to stand up again.

In fact, the reason for failure in life is very simple: standing up is always less than falling down.

18. Life is also full of ups and downs, joys and sorrows, and this constitutes a complete life. If you live too seriously and care too much, you will have something to worry about every day; if you can maintain a normal heart, behave according to your true colors, act according to your role, and position yourself according to your characteristics, and do not worry about losses or gain. If you are happy, you will be happy all the time in your life.

19. Happiness in life does not lie in abundance, but in satisfaction. Satisfaction does not consist in adding more fuel but in reducing the flames; it does not consist in accumulating wealth but in reducing desires. Human desires are endless, but life is limited. How can we pursue endless desires with a limited life to be satisfied? Letting go of greed and pursuing a plain and simple life is the easiest way to obtain happiness.

20. Have you ever experienced the empty feeling when the person you love most disappears? I have been out of state all day and am feeling groggy. I want to get busy, but when I suddenly think of him, my eyes get wet in an instant. I make mistakes frequently as if I am not thinking. At night, I huddle under the quilt and keep crying. It is such a strong pain. , the pretense of strength is actually full of loopholes. It’s not that I can’t live without him, but that without him I’m like a child who can’t find a home, and I can’t do anything in isolation.

21. You can choose to be a saint or a layman, but you cannot choose to have everyone worship you like a saint and forgive you like a layman.

22. I have always forgotten to tell you how lucky I am to meet you. I want to hold your hand one day and toast all the guests with wine.

23. There are some things that you really can’t see clearly, and it will hurt your heart to see them clearly; there are some people that you really can’t understand, and it will hurt you to understand them. It's rare to be confused in life. Taking everything too seriously will only make you miserable and tire yourself.

24. Half of the happiness in life must be fought for, and the other half must be followed. Fight, not with others, but with hardship. There is no happiness that is easy to come by. Only by working hard and actively striving for happiness can you get closer to happiness step by step. Following doesn’t mean going with the flow, but knowing where to stop and then settle down. Many people and affairs can only take things as they come and let them go. If you fight, you will have fewer regrets in life; if you follow suit, those who are content will always be happy. What I'm most afraid of is not fighting when it's time to fight, not stopping when it's time to fight, and always suffering from the entanglement.

25. If I show affection one day, that person must be the best in the world. True love is that I moved your heart and you made me feel at ease

26. Forgive me for being greedy. I always want to keep everyone around me who treats me well, and finally I can I found that some people cannot be kept no matter what.