After the age of 35, women want to live like this, but husbands may not understand.

Confucius said, "Five out of ten, I am determined to learn; I am thirty years old; Forty without confusion; At the age of fifty, I knew my destiny; I am obedient at the age of sixty; I am still obedient at the age of seventy; I didn't cross the line inside. " .

Confucius said: "I decided to study at the age of fifteen;" Self-reliance at the age of 30; Forty years old can't be confused by foreign things; At the age of fifty, I learned my fate; At the age of 60, I can treat all kinds of remarks correctly without feeling uncomfortable; At the age of seventy, you can do anything you want without breaking the rules. "

This also coincides with the growth process of adults now. In life, I think the two most important thresholds for men are to stand at 30 and not be confused at 40. When a man reaches the age of 30, he can get married, get married and have children, which is also a winner in life. When a man is forty years old, he has a successful career, money and leisure, and he can keep his heart and not abandon his wife. This is probably the highest praise for a 40-year-old man seduced by all kinds of power and money.

On the other hand, women's golden hairpin years refer to ancient women 12 years old. When a girl reaches the age of twelve, she will wear a hairpin, with Jin Chai as a pronoun and another name.

Logistics: In ancient times, when a woman reached the age of 15, she was associated with logistics, because when she reached the age of 15, she was called logistics. It also means that you have reached marriageable age, such as "the year is over".

Tao: synonymous with a 20-year-old woman; Jasper year: female 16 years old. The ancients in China divided it into two words to mark the year; Xu Niang: The ancient woman was 30 years old.

Yes, you are not mistaken. Now that we see the word "semi-old Xu Niang", it must be an old lady in her forties and fifties, but what people didn't expect was that an ancient woman in her thirties was already a semi-old Xu Niang.

Thirty-five years old, not embarrassed. Although most men are married but not married, women are also facing family business, children and the elderly, and even marriage crisis. Today, we are going to listen to a 35-year-old woman talk about what kind of husband and wife life she wants.

Li Xia is 33 years old this year, but she has a lot of white hair. She and her husband run a breakfast shop, and their business is average. They have two sons, the younger just went to kindergarten and the older is in the fourth grade.

Li Xia often complains with her husband, hoping that she can spend more time with her children and go back to her hometown in Sichuan, 2,000 kilometers away, to see her 60-year-old parents. Said these, Li Xia eyes shining with tears, next to the simple and honest husband some embarrassed smile, said in a low voice, such as the epidemic is over in the past two years, the mortgage will take you back to your hometown.

Li Xia leaned on her husband's shoulder and said with a smile, although he is fat and timid, he is considerate, unromantic, caring and thoughtful. My children and I have never forgotten any birthday anniversary every year. We have a good relationship. Every day when we get up at three o'clock to steam steamed buns, he will wake me up an hour late, just for fear that I will be too tired. He said that men are not afraid of getting old, and women will get old quickly if they don't get enough sleep.

While speaking, there was a burst of hearty laughter in the booth. I think this is probably what happiness looks like.

However, 38-year-old Song Tingting and her husband have different lives.

They have been lovers since college, and then they broke up for various reasons. After that, they will contact occasionally. After breaking up, Song Tingting proposed to get back together with her current husband. At that time, both of them were thirty years old, and their families were anxious and had an emotional foundation. They had sex on the first day they met and then got back together. Just like the old saying goes, impulsiveness can easily make things get twice the result with half the effort, but you always regret your choice afterwards.

Song Tingting and her husband are such examples. Song Tingting is an accountant of a listed company, and her husband is the chief executive. They have a good life, a car and a house, but their feelings are not satisfactory. First of all, children, both of whom are career-oriented people, can only be given to grandparents in their hometown, but Ms. Song is very picky about her children's education, and she quarrels with her husband because of this.

Secondly, the emotional crisis of two people, both of whom have rich love history, probably everyone knows that such two people together will inevitably have some lace thoughts occasionally. And Ms. Song's husband is the first person to "eat crabs".

When her husband cheated, Ms. Song knew it was an accident. During that time, her husband was always so nervous that he looked at his mobile phone alone, and sometimes he had to go to the balcony to close the door when answering the phone, which made Ms. Song wonder. Once when she was washing clothes, she saw the brown lipstick mark on her husband's shirt collar, which strengthened her mind.

Ms. Song is not a slobber, but for the sake of her children, she still hopes to save her marriage. So my husband and I made an appointment for the weekend, and they returned to the place where they once confessed. Ms. Song and her husband said that they knew that he was cheating, but they hoped that he would think more about his children and return to his family. The husband didn't say anything, probably because he had already made a psychological decision.

That night, the husband took the initiative to take a bath and took the initiative to comfort Ms. Song. That night, the two were sweating, and Ms. Song chose herself until her husband chose herself.

Ms. Song bluntly said: "I hope to live in harmony with my husband as much as possible."

To tell the truth, my marriage with my husband is full of cracks, because we always quarrel over trivial matters, and even often fall into the cold war, and the relationship between husband and wife has always been affected.

But now that we have made up, I hope we can all remember this lesson and work together in the future. It is my greatest wish to educate and accompany my children and family.

Although we have always said that age should not be the boundary between people's pursuit of romantic life and beautiful yearning, people of any status at any stage should have the right to pursue the life they want. From the above two examples, it is not difficult to see that love and happiness have nothing to do with material things, but with inner thoughts. Are two people thinking about each other and sometimes caring about each other's smiles? This is the true nature of happiness.