How do introverted and quiet people change themselves?

First of all, don't think you are inferior to others just because you are introverted. If staying at home makes you feel happy, it's no different from those who soak in people every day. Anyway, it's all about making yourself comfortable!

Have you ever been scolded by your parents for making mistakes when you were a child? Or do your parents never communicate with you, or just order you to do this and that, not this and that? This kind of childhood is particularly easy to cause timid and introverted personality.

I was often beaten when I was a child. I am very introverted and quiet. After work, I found it difficult for introverts to get promoted in the workplace, so I tried to change myself. It took me a year to change. I attended all the parties, such as dinners, bars, karaoke, bathing and foot massage, playing cards, shopping and traveling. Slowly, I became good friends with my colleagues and superiors, and I was able to give lectures at company meetings and talk with Kan Kan at brainstorming meetings. Then the boss left and I got a promotion. Now in his early thirties, he is a department manager.

In fact, I still like to stay quietly with my family, watch movies, play games, blow air conditioners and eat watermelons on weekends. I am very happy at home.

Tell me how I changed from introversion to extroversion!

1, exercise your eloquence: read more jokes, stories, news and other things you are interested in. Remember the content and share it with your friends or relatives.

2, communication should be from shallow to deep: first contact your existing friends. Chat more with colleagues in the same position, try to communicate with colleagues at higher levels and other departments for problems encountered in work, try to become friends with old customers, and try to contact former classmates. . . Finally, consider meeting strangers. However, it should be noted that it is easy for colleagues to become friends, but the probability of becoming friends is very low. After all, you go to work to earn money, not to make friends.

3. More hobbies: try different new things. If you have money, you can take part in traveling, road trip and cycling, and participate in the group activities of Q group. If you have no money, you can learn to sing, dance and learn English online. Really poor. You can go to the welfare home to do free volunteer work and meet new friends.

4. Speak louder. Don't be afraid to say the wrong thing. Everyone is afraid. When I presided over the meeting of 700 people, my legs were shaking. I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing when interviewing employees.

5. Communicate with your family more: I used to be afraid to talk to my parents, but now I am not afraid. Even if my dad still scolds me often, I will tell him what I think is right, listen to his thoughts and listen more, only to find that my parents love me very much. So now I have my own husband and children, and I regard them as good friends. I often chat with my husband about online news and games and play with my children.

People who are too introverted are really not suitable for this society. If you want to have a better job, you must change it by force.

Typing on mobile phone is very hard, just trying to help introverted friends like you and me.