At what moment did you confirm the other person's mind?

Jay Chou hasn't been on the hot search for a long time. The last time, it was because Hannah Quinlivan walked on the red carpet promoted by Cannes Film Festival. In the crowded crowd of onlookers, a fan suddenly found a fully armed Jay Chou.

He mingled with the audience, silently supporting his wife and making no noise. Hannah Quinlivan didn't know about it until the reporter accidentally asked. Before that, she always thought her husband was on vacation in the next city, but I didn't expect to sneak over, probably because I didn't want to miss any bright moment of my beautiful wife. Only those who have loved wholeheartedly can understand this feeling.

This incident provoked a group of fans with lemon essence properties to be sour and sweet: "Jay Chou really loves Hannah Quinlivan." In fact, whether you love someone or not, the details are the most sincere. Every time Hannah Quinlivan posts pictures in ins, Jay Chou will try to blow the rainbow fart: Awesome, awesome, you are more beautiful than her!

After attending a music festival in Beijing two days ago, Jay Chou sent a message thanking his fans and even sprinkled dog food in the comment area:

Zhou: The starry sky in Beijing is really beautiful.

Kun: It's beautiful.

Zhou: That would be even more beautiful. Look in the mirror.

The feeling of being liked is really sweet and suffocating! KY also asked everyone, at which moment did you confirm each other's mind for you? How do you know if the other person likes you or not? What makes you so sure?

Here are some selected stories-

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1. He always said, What will happen when we get married? Put me in his life plan.

2. I met a boy when I returned to China some time ago. Only seven days after returning to China, he tried his best to take me out to play every day, climbing mountains, watching movies, watching stage plays, drinking in pubs and eating delicious food. On the penultimate day, he invited a group of his friends to a nightclub. He was with me that day and I asked him why he came to such a noisy place. He said, first, I want you to meet my friends, and second, I want you to meet me in different States. Actually, I've been doing this for several days. After all, you have only been back for a few days. I looked into his eyes and thought, "Ah, this boy likes me". At that time, I just broke up with my ex, who only took me to kill a werewolf and ignored me when playing the glory of the king. I suddenly realized that this is what a person who really likes me would do. I am willing to spend time and energy to feel you and let you know him. Everything is fine now, and I feel very happy with him.

We are all drifting in the north. It turns out that my wish is to buy a house in Beijing. In the first few years, I was really frugal. She doesn't want to buy a house in Beijing, but she saves money for me. Later, I happened to see the chat records between her and her friends. She said, "I want to save money to buy him a house", and her friend said, "He doesn't even want to marry you (this is our friend, and I once expressed this to this friend)". She said, "It doesn't matter! No matter whether I will live in that house in the future, I know that he has a place to live, so I am relieved. " It was really like tears.

I don't think you can hide your love. An ex-boyfriend of mine was chased by me. After chasing me for a year, I always feel that even if we are together, he doesn't really like me. Later, when we broke up, he said to me, "I'm sorry, I tried, but I really can't like you." I cried and laughed. I'm really not liked. Even if he is by my side, he can feel whether this person has love or not with his eyes and actions. This should be human instinct. "You look at me for a while and see the clouds for a while. You are close to me when you look at the clouds, and far away when you look at me. "

Once we went out to play, we were still good friends, but we liked each other. We went to a museum where there was a tall tower. We climbed to the top floor, and there was no one there. When we were sitting and talking, I found him looking at me. Looking down, it was very, very gentle, and I suddenly felt that he seemed to like me very much. I always remember that time, because at that moment I thought he liked me best.

Then we broke up.

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6. Two and a half months ago, I accompanied her to the playground and told her that there were several blind dates arranged at home last year. The little girl was refreshed immediately, and she was anxious to tell me not to get married. It was still early and I would meet something better ... I felt so happy at that time, and she must care about me very much.

I have been with that little girl for two months.

7. When they were not established together, they used to grab each other in a playful and casual way, and then they didn't dare to make too much movements when they walked, for fear that they would get rid of each other. In the fifth year now.

8. I have been secretly in love with a boy for almost a year. One day I met him in the study room. He was reading a book that night and I was reviewing for the exam. When it was time for dinner, he asked me if I wanted to come, just wait for me to finish the exam and accompany me to eat steamed buns outside the school. On the way back to the classroom after eating, he said he was too full to go for a walk in the playground, so we went. Sitting on the grass chatting, I turned around and suddenly looked at each other. Suddenly I think the other person is very cute. Two people who have never held hands unconsciously kissed together.

It was seven years ago, and I was sure for the first time that he also liked me. Then, on the way we walked together, I gradually understood that he liked me so much.

Now, we are both studying PhD and have been married for two years.

9. That day, he asked me to go on an autumn outing. The weather is particularly good, the sunshine is great, and it is a great autumn day. After stopping by the lake, it is a short gravel road. He took my hand for fear that I might not walk steadily. Without confession or temptation, he directly took my little hand, and this relationship began on the day 12 met.

10. When you are not with your first love, go home with him after class. He will pass my station and take a walk to change trains. However, he always goes further, especially to talk more when walking for a long time. Also, I saw a little dinosaur named after me in his game machine ... but sometimes it grows and changes too fast for people to accept, and then we separate.

1 1. My deskmate in high school, I sit in my seat every day after school to see if he will look back at me when he leaves the classroom. Then we were together for five years, until now.

12. Depressed patients, in a year of emotional abnormality, decadence and anxiety, he never gave up. One night, he looked at me and cried.

Later, we are now working hard to make money to cure diseases and live hard.

13. Know the working relationship, and then start chatting one after another. At that time, I didn't think about whether the other person liked me or not. I just simply thought that I was happy with her.

Later, I thought the chat content was a bit "strange". I am the kind of person who feels inferior and will not take the initiative to think that the other person likes me. Until one night, we went out to eat and drink together and chatted until we got up and kissed each other. Realizing your mind in hindsight is like getting an electric shock.

Because we are both girls, I will be a little entangled in the matter of "determining each other's mind". I've always been les, but this is the first time she likes girls, and I didn't expect her to "like girls for the first time" because of me ... Oh, thank you for your kiss!

14. We have known each other for five years, and we have seen each other's photos, so we are good friends. In real life, we haven't met for various reasons. Until one day in the fifth year, we finally decided on the basis. Soon after we met, I found that if I walked too close to him side by side, my heart would beat faster and I dared not look him in the eye. I know my heart is beating, so I boldly chase it. He returned to his city, and the next day I said I wanted to meet him in his city that weekend. Is it convenient to ask him? He readily agreed, and I knew he must like me, too. Very happy, very happy! Then I went and he met me at the station. Embrace when you meet, and naturally become lovers.

15. I am an inferiority complex. Even though I have been with my boyfriend for a long time, I still doubt whether he really likes me. Later, I gradually found that even though I was fat, he always made me eat a lot. Every time I was afraid that I would not have enough to eat, I confirmed that he really liked me.

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16. When we made love for the first time, he was very gentle and took care of my feelings, so I'm sure he really liked me. Yes, we had sex the first time we met. It turns out that it is really because of sex that we like each other better.

17. It was the night before I left my job, and the department partner invited me to dinner. It was already late outside. He is the one who is too sleepy to open his eyes before going to bed at twelve o'clock every night. But that day he insisted on seeing me after I finished. When I came back from barbecue beer, he brought me a cup of hot water when I had a slight stomachache. We said goodbye to tomorrow for an hour. He is sleepy in front of me and keeps telling me boring jokes. At that moment, there was a huge gravity pulling me to kiss him. It suddenly occurred to me that I could not bear to part with him. It is not so much to confirm that the other person likes me as to confirm that he likes him. There is a special energy field between people who like each other, which can be felt. We didn't say anything, and we're not even sure when to "confirm the relationship", but now we've been together for about 26 1 day. If we must talk about methods, the most obvious sign is the sense of disappointment between us when we are apart.

18. He asked me if I didn't like him, and then he cried.

An old man who is eight years older than me is crying in the street, which is really ugly. But at the same time, I feel distressed and think he is incredibly cute. Instantly confirmed that he really likes me, and confirmed that I really like him. Still together.

19. I hardly remember the moment when I confirmed my mind with him. We have been married for 9 years and raised 2 children. I clearly remember asking him why he chose me, and I still remember the scene where he tried to think but couldn't answer. Gradually, I stopped asking about it. But in fact, our marriage is terrible. There have been quarrels, cold wars and mutual hatred, although outsiders seem happy. Perhaps, because it has never been confirmed, it has always been deeply confident and anxious.

More than half a year ago, he was found to have cheated for two years. Sadly, I found that there were many moments in their interaction that confirmed each other. There is really no contrast, no harm.

In the late restoration period, although I returned to my family, I still couldn't answer the same question. It's not that he doesn't want answers (he wants to give his children a complete family more than I do), nor that he doesn't have professional help (we received counseling for nearly half a year after the incident), but the fact is that he gets stuck every time he asks this question.

Now, I've decided to divorce. I think because of the confirmation of the soul, it can not only improve happiness, but also make it easier to give up when the relationship is in trouble.

At that time, the relationship was still ambiguous I'm afraid of being hated. She said, "Maybe feelings will change. But I will never hate you. " At that moment, I felt extremely safe.

Now we are an enviable couple.

2 1. It is forbidden to fall in love in the repetition class. We are still together, but I don't believe he really likes me. The class teacher talked to him. I went to the office door to eavesdrop and heard him say, "I chased her." She just encouraged me to study. It's all my fault. " She is timid, can you stop looking for her? "

There are still a few days before the college entrance examination. We really encouraged each other and made a lot of progress, and the teacher acquiesced in us. I still believe in the future, so does he.

Since we belong to different nationalities, there is nothing to talk about.

He looked at me and I laughed. He looked at me and smiled when I was eating, and he looked at me and smiled when I was reading. When I looked up at him, he must be smiling at me. I was shy and angry, and said stop laughing. Ok, ok, I won't laugh, agreed. He is still smiling.

Later, now, we no longer contact.

23. My mother was diagnosed with motor neuron disease (commonly known as gradual freezing). I accompanied my mother in a sanatorium hospital for physical therapy. After lunch, I was about to walk into the hospital building. He came up to me, smiling softly all the time, holding me in his arms without saying anything, just holding me tightly. At that time, I knew that this man not only understood my pain points, but also brought me sunshine. Now we have been together for six years, married for almost five years, and our daughter is three years old. He was my first love.

24. Maybe other girls are chatting with him, and he either doesn't answer or is cold. When I chat with him, he can say many words in a row, and he will be "as happy as a lovely pet".

25. He is 16 years older than me and has never said "I love you" on his own initiative. Until one day, he hugged me and sat on the sofa and said, "I'm actually worried that when we get old, I'll die first and no one will take care of you." Suddenly, I was in tears and looked at his side face. At that moment, I really knew that he loved me ... Five years later, we finally failed to be together.

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26. When I was in college, the courier was outside the school, and the elevated road was being repaired at the door. When the zebra crossing was full of dust and the red light turned green, he gently pulled me to his left and said, "There is so much dust." Then I cover my nose and mouth with my right hand. So I crossed the street.

I suddenly reacted when crossing the road. What do you mean, God? What is he doing? Why would he do that? Finally, I came to a conclusion that he must like me.

He was my first love.

He had a nightmare in the middle of the night, but he didn't wake up. He subconsciously put his hand in my arms, patted me with his hand and put me to sleep with his mouth ... Many moments with him are certain, but at that moment, I want to be with him forever ... We will get married early next year.

I like him for two years, but he doesn't like me. In fact, I can always feel it through the details. For example, WeChat messages are slow and concise, and I ignore questions that I care about very much, and respond politely if I am very kind. That day, he asked me how I felt about him, but he said, "Let's talk about my feelings first." I'm too nervous to look at my mobile phone. I think at least I should be a cherished friend or confidant. I picked up my phone and looked at it. "I'm afraid you're disappointed." At that moment, I was finally willing to admit that he didn't have me in his heart. If a person likes you and cares about your words, he will never let you down, be sad or be answered.

From that day on, I decided to make myself "lovelorn". Now I am preparing for the farewell at the end of May.

29. I can't confirm it completely yet, but the fact that I can't confirm it itself means that he doesn't like you.

30. I think only true confession can decide whether you like it or not. Before I confessed, I always doubted whether he liked me or not, and I always brainwashed myself that if he didn't like you, how could he care so much about you? He didn't reply to me until I confessed. That night, I dreamed that someone told me that he had gone to study in England, so there was a time difference. Before he saw it, I immediately woke up and giggled. At that moment, I thought dreams were reality. Later he replied to me and said, I'm sorry. We never contacted again, but I don't regret it at all.

3 1. I saw him tell me the appearance of the person he liked, and he liked the appearance of others. Then I saw his attitude towards me, which confirmed that he really didn't like me. ...

32. Send a message about a person walking in a circle of friends. Both members of the opposite sex work in other places. A person really wants to be with you. The other one suddenly drove with me. I sent a photo when chatting at night after I left. I just found out that he has returned to the company. He didn't say he came back to accompany me. At that moment, I felt that he cared about me and wouldn't say much, but he cared about my life.

33. We are classmates in primary school, junior high school is not in a district, and senior high school is not in a city. 20 16 12, knowing that Cui kaichao was going to visit our small city, I wrote happily in my circle of friends, "I must go and see Cui kaichao, I like him so much!" In the evening, he secretly called me in the dormitory toilet and asked me, "I wanted to tell you after graduating from high school, but I couldn't help seeing your circle of friends today." I want to tell you now that I like you since primary school ... Compared with me, maybe you still like that Cui, but I don't want to regret it. "I explained to him that Cui Kaichao was a folk singer, and he was probably relieved, and then he began to giggle on the other end of the phone.

We got together later, and now we are together.

34. There is a line in "Spring Jiao saves Zhiming": "When you are in danger, the first person you think of is the right person in your heart." Before confirming each other, he always comes to meet from a distance and only says: Let's eat, let's drink, let's go out to play. We treated each other as good friends who talked about everything until something happened. When I met an accident overseas, I completely collapsed. I sent him a WeChat with the only flow at 2 am domestic time. He replied in seconds, and my traffic was used up in an hour. The next day, I will find him every once in a while. Ask me if I'm okay. Look at the time, I basically didn't sleep all night, but he is usually a person who falls asleep after touching the pillow for less than ten seconds, and he has to catch a plane on business early that morning. His last message was 5: 30 a.m. domestic time: Be good and be at ease. Later together, until now. I think that a person who likes you is always willing to go a long way to catch the earliest plane to see you, and never takes the trouble to accompany you to eat, drink and go out for a walk. Even if he is not around when he is in danger, he will tell you in another way: I am with you.

I thought he liked me, so I ran to his city. But he already has a girlfriend. I didn't give up liking him in the days after that. Even watching them hold hands, snuggle up and live together, I still feel lucky. It was not until one day that I found out that his girlfriend and I were so different people that I couldn't be that person that I accepted that he couldn't like me.

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What I want to say is how I know that the other person doesn't like me.

I am a girl, short and weak. I like a female classmate. She sings well in the high school class. She is very eccentric and always says something ambiguous to me. Later, I went abroad to exchange, and she asked me to bring her a mask weighing several kilograms. At the airport, I was carrying a backpack full of luggage and a super heavy duty-free shop bag. I knew she didn't like me.

37. Two people are walking on the road. He strode ahead and I struggled to follow in high heels. He didn't stop to wait for me. Then I knew that he might really dislike me. ...

38. That's how I know he doesn't like me:

After being gentle, he is not him. Or, he finally changed back to him. Unprepared and cold, I knew his mind in a second.

As for what is going on between us now? He is him and I am me.

39. In the era when mobile phones were not popular, we liked to keep in touch by letters and notes. Once he made me angry. I can't remember the specific reason. He drew a picture on a piece of paper. A duckling said sorry, stuffed it in a duckling pendant and secretly put it in my drawer. I knew it was the duck when I saw his old-fashioned expression. The moment I opened the note, I knew that he actually cared about my feelings.

40. From the beginning of Grade One, he asked me about my homework every day and sent me short messages every day. Gradually, I found that our stationery is the same style and different colors. I know he likes me.

Sophomore, when we were traveling together, one night I was lying in bed and asked him, "Do you still like me?" I knew he didn't like me when he didn't laugh or talk. We broke up after the trip.

4 1. Lying beside me, he woke up crying in his sleep, but he couldn't recover for a long time. I asked him softly what he dreamed. He said he dreamed that we broke up. Now we really broke up.

Man is really a strange creature. We used to have deep feelings, but the past is over.

42. Me: "I'm going to lose traffic, so stop brushing your face."

He: "Oh."

a few minutes later

10086: "Hello, you have successfully subscribed to 1GB traffic ..."

This stalk later became

Me: "Where did you find such a good girlfriend?"

He: "It's all-in-one."

43. Once the class counted the phone numbers, I was reporting my mobile phone number to the class committee, and he was standing next to me. As soon as I reported the first seven digits, he blurted out the last four digits. I was surprised, and then came to my senses and asked him how he knew. He said that I had read the contact information of the class before and wrote down my number when I saw it. At that time, I thought he might like me a little.

Later, we got together without any suspense. From high school to the same university, now we are all going to graduate and go to the same city for postgraduate study. It looks beautiful. Everyone thinks so. Even my mother, who has always opposed me, doesn't say anything anymore.

44.20 12 When I came to work in Shanghai, I met a foreign uncle who was 20 years older than me. I just think the way he looks at me is different from others. Later, my friend died suddenly because of leukemia. I didn't receive the last phone call on the day of his death, which touched me a lot. I rushed back to the funeral and went back to work, and suddenly fell in love with this uncle. After much thought, I think life is only once, so I should be bolder. So I ran to him trembling on Qixi Day. He is drinking and chatting with a group of foreigners. I told him in Chinese: Today is Valentine's Day in China. It was silly to say such a thing. He replied to me: Can I kiss you then? I walked away shyly, and then I was really together. The first love of life, five years, he is 45 and I am 25.

45. We are in love in a foreign country. Once he came back from a holiday, I don't know what caused WeChat to empty our chat records. He suddenly cried like a child. Because it is abroad, chat records are basically our daily life. There are still dozens of days before he returns to China. I miss him very much.

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46. When we were together, I felt that she didn't like me. I opened my mouth wide. Soon I met the winter vacation. Before I left, she said she would miss me, but I didn't believe her. But after she helped me put my luggage in the taxi, she sent me messages all the way until I got off the plane and put down my cell phone to sleep. She is on the high-speed train, the signal is not good, and the news is intermittent. After getting off the plane, she saved several pieces. I thought at that time, she would at least like me a little, otherwise the signal was so bad, so sleepy at night, bored on the high-speed rail, she should go to bed. Later, I put my face on my mobile phone for a month, and I was still together until school started. I'm glad I had the courage to express my feelings at the beginning, but now I think about it and I still hang up. I am so close that I can't open my mouth. I almost died. I never feel sure about anything. A beautiful person, when he meets something good, he must seize it. She is so beautiful that I need to prove it again and again. We are roommates.

47. Go out to watch the flower show that day. On the way back to the subway, I sat and helped him with his bag. He stood talking. He reached out and touched my hair and said, "Oh, your hair is so messy."

Sure enough, the song is right. I want to touch your hair. This is just a simple test. Then we got together.

48. Probably when I was on the subway, I hit my head on a post. He silently put his hand behind my head, and the back turned into a male ticket.

49. I wasn't sure if he liked me, until one day I said I wanted to lose weight, for fear that my boyfriend couldn't afford it. The next day, he told me that he picked up 140 kg roommate. Now that we are together, we will strive to be better for the future of * * *.

50. I didn't reply to his message. He always feels anxious when he says he can't reach me. Suddenly I feel a soft heart. As the song goes, "If I don't love you, how can I be anxious?" . And he is willing to show me this uneasiness and let me know that he must like me very much. Then I took the initiative to confirm the relationship with him.

I have always had a very unscientific belief. I always believe that two people who like each other can always know each other. This "knowing" is meaningless, and sometimes there is no evidence in reality. So I always encourage people to get close to each other and express their feelings when they feel this intuition. You can meet very few people who like each other in your life. If you miss it, you will not regret it.

So do girls. Don't think that girls won't take the initiative and will miss that person for nothing. "I would like to be like a star, like the moon, and time is bright every day." These girls who boldly express their ideas are so cute from ancient times to the present.

Who does today's push remind you of?