What if the girlfriend is too aggressive? My little ancestor will cry and spoil.

Girlfriend works too hard, you choose it yourself, even if you cry and spoil it, it is one-sided. A person's endurance and energy are limited, and now life is so stressful that it is impossible to spoil her all the time. You can tell her that you love her, so you are willing to spoil her, but she loves you, shouldn't she also consider for you? When two people are together, the most important thing is to help each other go on. Yes, but don't do it often. You always do. It's not a question of love or not. Sooner or later, you will get tired of it. You might as well speak your mind frankly.