There is no completely free heart.

As the saying goes, there is no such thing as a free lunch. Similarly, there is no such thing as a completely free heart. In the workplace, winning people's hearts also requires investment. The affection between people is the most precious thing in the world. Anyone who has achieved something in his career often has a very close interpersonal network. Building interpersonal relationships requires a certain amount of material and interest, but more emotional input. You pay sincere feelings and give people warmth, in turn, you will gain a lot of friendship and human feelings.

There are many roads to success, but there are few shortcuts to success. In the workplace, a very important factor is personal connections. With connections, you have a shortcut to success. For colleagues who are directly related to their daily work and life, we should try our best to win their hearts and support. When it comes to doing things, it is better to rely on money than relationships, and it is better to rely on feelings than relationships. No matter how difficult it is to handle, you can find a solution if you have feelings to pave the way. A strong emotional foundation is beyond everything. Manage the feelings with colleagues, leaders and customers, and let colleagues and superiors and subordinates regard you as the backbone, and you will certainly succeed in the workplace.

As the old saying goes, it is better to have a good relationship with a hundred acres of land at home. People can't walk in society without human feelings all the time. In doing things and doing business, human feelings are like a kind of omnipotent oil, which can play a certain lubricating role no matter where it is. As soon as many excellent employees enter the workplace, they begin to spend a lot of time laying the groundwork for human feelings, because they know that human feelings are the most profitable investment in the workplace. The secret of doing things in the workplace is to be yourself and attack others. People are affectionate, and it is difficult for people to escape a love word. Although there has always been a saying that shopping malls do not recognize money, the human business has never stopped.

Empress Wu Zetian, the only empress in the history of China, is a master of investing in people's hearts. At first, she was only the most humble role when she entered the palace. She is smart and knows the importance of sensitive people. Three thousand harem beauties. She won the favor of the emperor, not only because of her appearance, but also because of many objective factors. First of all, Wu Zetian is very talkative, and every sentence is in the emperor's heart; Secondly, Wu Zetian is an equal sister to every concubine around the emperor, more like Princess Rong's family, whom the emperor loves. She generously gave the jewels given to her by the emperor to these concubines, showing her generosity and affinity and winning the favor of the emperor. Also, she always shows a little kindness to her father-in-law around the emperor from time to time, and wins his absolute trust with care and respect. It was with her father-in-law's help that she got another chance to enter the palace after cutting Nepal's hair.

As the saying goes, birds die for food, and people move. If you want to do well, you must do a good job in people's business. The so-called human business, simply put, is a deeper spiritual exchange outside the working relationship. Of course, this kind of human business doesn't need you to do it deliberately, which will give people a false sense of disgust. Sometimes, you meet more congenial people in the workplace, and they cooperate with each other in their work. If cooperation is successful, feelings will naturally be harmonious. When feelings are established, it means that you have gained trust, cherish and appreciation, which is a treasure that is hard to buy. In the process of investment, we should pay attention to methods.

On one occasion, Kangxi offended the wicked while patrolling the river, and the wicked wanted to beat Kangxi. Wei Dongting just looked at it, not knowing how to deal with such an emergency. Kangxi immediately raised his hand and smacked Wei Dongting in the face. That night, when Kangxi was resting, he took Wei Dongting's hand and said to him, I seem to be a little mean to you recently, so I want to exercise you on purpose. When you say you want to abandon the army, the purpose is of course to find a good way out another day. That's right. If I give you an official position, I just need a word, but it doesn't train you to be a useful person. You need more experience, so I'll be strict with you. Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? I planned it again and again, so I had to keep you with me. You should be able to bear the loss.

Kangxi explained that Wei Dongting had a lot of grievances, but after this time, he got a heart-to-heart explanation from the emperor, and he was really much more obedient and loyal.

To buy people's hearts, it is not enough to give them only material rewards. Only by giving your most precious things can you buy people's hearts. What is the most precious thing? This is your time. You are willing to take the time to explain everything to him, which can make subordinates feel valued most.

Liu Bei is the originator of buying people's hearts. There is a famous two-part allegorical saying that Liu Bei threw his son to buy people's hearts, which is enough to prove this statement. The battle of Nagsaka in Dangyang was an encounter between Cao Cao and Liu Bei, and veteran Zhao Yun undertook the important task of protecting Liu Bei's family. Because of his ferocity, Liu Bei rushed out of the encirclement, but his family was trapped in the siege of Cao Jun. Zhao Yun tried his best to assassinate him and finally found a gift from Liu Bei to Dou. He broke through the siege of Cao Jun, caught up with Liu Bei and surrendered his son. Liu Bei took the child, threw it on the ground, and scolded: I am a good boy and hurt a general! Zhao Yun picked up A Dou and wept again and again: Although the clouds are all over the ground, you can't report them.

Liu Bei successfully burned Zhao Yun. The fire in zhaoyun heart, has not been put out. There is an ancient saying: Nothing is more touching than love. Move your heart after it moves, and straighten it out after it moves.

Also in the Three Kingdoms period, there was a counselor named Jia Xu under Cao Cao, who Cao Cao relied heavily on. Jia Xu refused to express his position easily and did not make friends with his cronies, which is why Cao Cao valued him more. Xelloss took a fancy to Jia Xu's wisdom and influence. One night he went to Jia Xu's house, knelt in front of Jia Xu and begged him to help him. You know, Cao Cao's official name is Wang Wei, and Cao Pi is a prince. He can kneel to Jia Xu. In that feudal era, this was no ordinary courtesy. Even Liu Bei's visit to the thatched cottage can't compare with Xelloss's kneeling down to Jia Xu.

Cao Pi won the loyalty of Jia Xu. Later, Jia Xu gave Xelloss an idea, which enabled Xelloss to win the trust of Cao Cao and squeezed out Cao Zhi, who was deeply loved by Cao Cao, and became Cao Cao's successor.

Sometimes, if you lower your posture, many problems will be solved.

During the reign of Emperor Taizong of Li Shimin, Shawn, the minister of punishments, was charged with treason. Most ministers think Sean's crime is unforgivable and should be beheaded immediately. Only Li, a small prison supervisor in the temple, thought that Sean's criminal evidence was insufficient and should not be convicted, and made an impassioned speech in court, which made Tang Taizong, who tended to be given a lighter punishment, lose face for a while. In a rage, Emperor Taizong killed Sean without hesitation. Soon after, the position of assistant minister of punishments became vacant. Emperor Taizong suggested that the Prime Minister let Li sit in this position on the grounds that Li was cautious and strict in law enforcement.

All ministers know that Li once opposed the opinions of Emperor Taizong in public, but now Emperor Taizong has appointed Li as the law enforcement officer. Once this appointment was announced, all the courts praised Tang Taizong's kindness and generosity, and the signboard of the enlightened monarch became more vivid.

Reusing people you don't like or who oppose you can not only win the loyalty of those involved, but also win the reputation of openness and tolerance, thus attracting more people to follow.

As for how to invest, companies of different sizes and natures naturally cultivate feelings with their colleagues in different ways. Even in the same company, there are different ways to cultivate feelings with different people. In anything, mastering the degree is the most critical. It is enough to compare your heart with others.

When working in a large enterprise, you must pay attention to the company's reception, celebration banquet, outing and other group activities, which is the best time for more colleagues to know you. Be an enthusiastic activist, smile at everyone and become an acquaintance of all departments in the shortest time. Acquaintance is the premise of cultivating feelings. What to do when you are ripe depends on your sincerity and eloquence. If your company is small, you should deal with everyone as quickly as possible from the day you enter. Try to have dinner and chat with everyone and get to know everyone around you. Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. Understanding is the basis of enhancing feelings. In an efficiency-oriented foreign company, if you want your colleagues to like you, you must first do your best and never hold others back. Because such enterprises are very busy, everyone has little time to go out to play, so we should cultivate our sense of humor and affinity. Humor and kindness can add points to the image and effectively dilute the serious atmosphere.

Compared with traditional state-owned enterprises and institutions, it is different. In this place, consideration is the first, and being a man is the most important. Look at everything with respect, and you will say it when you see it in place, which can help you earn good popularity in the shortest time. Domestic private enterprises are characterized by high mobility of personnel and low vigilance of colleagues. You might as well infect your colleagues with sincerity and enthusiasm, invite colleagues to have a light meal at home at ordinary times, go out for an outing and watch movies together on holidays, and have appropriate personal relationships with leaders. In this way, your feelings with everyone can be established quickly.

To cultivate feelings with different types of people, we should adopt different methods. Stay with introverts, talk more secretly and encourage them to participate in group activities; With extroverts, talk less and listen more, and try to tolerate his carelessness. Get along with your boss, show your dedication and loyalty, and make him feel that you can fight alongside him; And the immediate superior * * *, should take the initiative to share his difficulties, help him adjust his mentality, and let him truly trust you; With colleagues at the same level, easy-going and helpful, eliminating vigilance; When treating subordinates, we should respect them, train them sincerely, and let them treat you as a caring elder and thank you from the heart.

Sad graduation message: All good things must come to an end.

The boat set sail in the port of youth, and we separated temporarily, full of ideals and pursuits. When shall we meet again? Will be at that harvest time!

After graduation, I want to keep those warm days, but I am eager to integrate into the torrent of life as soon as possible. The life of old classmates is a string of sweet Sugar-Coated Berry; That charming sweetness and sourness will never be forgotten.

Over the past few years, you have planted the seeds of friendship in my heart. I will take it away silently, carefully water it and cultivate it, so that it will bloom fragrant flowers in the future.

An ideal as beautiful as the morning glow beckons us. The classmates are about to break up. There is no need to ask when we will meet. We, bit by bit, will be active in the sea of the motherland!

Liu Yin shook his hand and bid farewell to all kinds of melancholy-the students are young and looking forward to thousands of thoughts, hoping that friendship will become a force for progress!

After all, fate has arrived. We have been together for three years, and today we are going to part-for the sake of each other's dreams, besides saying goodbye, I wish you happiness and liveliness.

Don't be afraid of the financial storm. If you have real skills, you are not afraid of not filling your stomach. Don't complain that it is not easy to find a job. You can only rely on yourself in life. Believe in yourself, graduation is just for a better start! Come on!

Life has opened its heart to us, my friend. Let us face it bravely and enjoy its endless grandeur and profundity!

Three years is only a short time in the journey of life, but I will never forget sitting at your desk for three years. You are a pearl in my memory and a star in the sky in my heart.

After graduation, we can no longer laugh happily together, but Qian Shan can't stop our friendship. Friends from afar wish you health and happiness!

Thank the teacher for giving me knowledge, although I didn't go to any class. Thank my classmates for giving me the ability to smoke, drink and play online games. Thank my lover for giving me love and letting me know that while I am raising another wife, the other one is also raising a wife for me. Thanks to the university, I feel everything about my youth. Goodbye. We will all have a new beginning!

Write down my words and bless me. Send a spring breeze to accompany you forward. Happiness is the color of your life, and laughter is your daily note. Open your free wings and let us dance with the wind and rain in life.

I hope you can remember me when you leave. Don't ask whether the changeable world will remain tomorrow.

Year after year, there are always similarities and differences. I can't get enough pages. How many sunsets can there be in four years?

I studied hard for three years at the cold window and tried to get into the senior high school entrance examination. All good things must come to an end. The little author went ahead and wrote the last paragraph. The language is distinctive, concise and humorous, which shows the author's strong writing ability. The language is lively. Let's all act and go all the way! With regard to the sad space of graduation, all things must come to an end.

There is no such thing as a banquet that must come to an end, and people who are reluctant to part with you can't stay with you forever. May we pretend to be far away from each other in our hearts and talk about life together after many years.

1. The next summer, the classroom was crowded with people, but it was no longer us.

It is not fun to get a summer vacation without homework at the expense of ending a class.

Don't cry on graduation day, we will leave with a smile.

I thought I left hell on graduation day, but in fact I left heaven.

5. In the last class of Grade Three, the teacher said: Read again, and I'll take a look at you.

6. We will never go back to the class that is crazy, slapstick, laughing, playing mobile phones in class, whispering in class and loving teachers.

7. I'm afraid we will only get a stupid graduation photo in the end.

8. After graduation, the principal said that each of us should choose something as a souvenir, and the students in the grade said in unison: Principal, give us back the tuition!

9. Actually, we like going to school, but we don't like going to class. We miss those times when we used to have fun and laugh together.

10. Don't forget each other when you are separated, but cherish what you have done.

1 1. You have changed from a group of strangers to a group of people I can't bear to part with.

12. I used a sack of money to go to school and traded it for a sack of books. After graduation, I exchanged these books for money, but I couldn't afford a sack.

13. We all fell in love with school before graduation.

14. I came in a hurry, went in a hurry, and left a lot of things, looking forward to a reunion. It's hard to say my share in a thousand words. I hope you have a wonderful trip!

15. A whistle landed in the wilderness; At the moment of parting, infinite melancholy and loneliness welled up in my heart.

16. If I can, I would like to rub everything in my heart into today's difference. But I can't! Then, let's break up silently! You know, this is the silence of the volcano, which is better than all other words!

17. My friends, we have to be apart for a while; If you cherish it, I won't say it. On this lingering night, try to cast a few small morning stars; Although there is not much light, it can also make people who leave early happy.

18. Facing the feast laid by the years, we smiled at each other and politely advised the wine, as if all the unspoken love and disappointment were hidden behind the sentence. Because we all know that there is no more mellow wine than this bottle of wine in our hands.

19. Can you give me a handkerchief? Let my heart raise a sail.

Dear friends, please don't be sad. Take care of each other after parting.

2 1. Don't be depressed in Liu Yin. Students and teenagers have been in love for many years, hoping to cross thousands of thoughts. I hope friendship will become a force for progress!

22. You are finally leaving, but you have left the image of flowers, their fragrance and the hope of watering us together. As long as I think of you in the future, my years will always be bright.

23. Your figure is a sail and my eyes are a river. How many times I tried to keep you, I couldn't keep you in the end. I know that friendship is rare in this world, but freedom is more precious.

24. Cherish the days of wearing school uniforms with them, because taking them off is a lifetime.

25. In the three years of junior high school, I endured one class, one hour, one week and one semester. But failed to withstand the senior high school entrance examination, which dispersed our group.

26. Maybe I will cry silently after the last exam, because I can't sit with you anymore!

Students, on graduation day, you should cry, laugh, make noise, confess and hug.

28. Happiness, innocence, happiness and friendship in 2008 all turned into memories according to graduation photo's moment.

29. The only thing that the teacher didn't lie to us is that three years is really short.

After this summer, all we have is a smirking graduation photo and an unforgettable memory. What's left is just missing.

3 1. I'd rather choose a holiday without homework.

You always say graduation is far away, but in the blink of an eye, we will go our separate ways.

33. It's time to start. Let's go! There is no need to regret or say goodbye, even if the song fades away, our hearts will beat forever.

34. The south wind is blowing gently again, and the time to get together is in a hurry.

35. Meeting to say goodbye and returning to the sea is not only the end of past happiness, but also the beginning of future happiness.

Wave goodbye and set sail. I can't help it It is the friendship cable you threw, which is firmly tied to my heart invisibly.

37. We had to part, say goodbye gently, and our hearts were full of gratitude. Thank you for giving me that profound friendship.

38. Finally, you have to leave, saying that you will go far away to read a book about far away. I'm not surprised because you should be.

39. Dear friends, please shake hands. From now on, you will go your separate ways.

40. I don't know how many stars I have fascinated, but how can I erase this inseparable attachment with a wave of my hand? Even if the future scenery is more beautiful and better, I can't put a smile on my face, although it's hard to say goodbye when life says goodbye to ordinary things.

4 1. Bloom the most gorgeous smile and give a better dream for tomorrow.

Sad to say goodbye, there is no such thing as a banquet that must come to an end, even if you have poured out your heart.

First, songs, listen to the rhythm when you are happy and understand the lyrics when you are sad.

Second, when I was young, I always regarded liking as love, and I didn't want to regard it as not letting go.

Third, happiness is a stop between too few rivers.

Fourth, I always feel that Coulee will take out a piece of Dev Nanxiang and turn around and say, Hey, you will be in the same city as Yida Lin Xiao, and Gu Yuan will stop *

As long as you say you need me, I am willing to solve any troubles behind you for you.

6. Love is not the first sweetness, but prosperity is still inseparable.

Seven, caught in the rain at a loss but unscrupulous.

Eight, sometimes, your casual words warm my whole heart.

I always think a lot when I am quiet, and then I feel uncomfortable for a long time.

Even if you are a myth, I can't be your legend.

Forgive me and my stubbornness for waiting for you here.

12. Make excuses to yell if you don't do your homework.

Thirteen, if one day I disappear in your sight, don't be sad, don't be sad, don't blame me, say it's my fault, it's really not my fault, more.

Fourteen, the final wait, but in vain.

Fifteen, people eat to live, not live to eat.

Sixteen, some words are always said, but never done.

Seventeen, the teenager treated me with long hair and waist, and married me. The point is that you have no waist.

18. I have nowhere to release my love for you, but in the end I get infinite disappointment.

Nineteen, some people will never be together; But you can keep it in your heart all your life.

20. All good things must come to an end.

2 1. Nothing in this world can be overdrawn unconditionally. Especially love.

Twenty-two, there is no gorgeous romance, only quiet company

Twenty-three, if boys don't have more than six abdominal muscles, why should they laugh at girls' poor figure?

24. You don't know how powerful you are until you encounter setbacks.

Twenty-five, you said your dream was fragmented, but I squatted down to piece it together, and I didn't have time to take care of it just to give you freedom in the blue sky and make you smile again.

Twenty-six, saying that others show love and die young, or there is no object, or the object is not around!

Twenty-seven, some memories of the victory of the war can stand the fleeting time, the departure and the yearning.

28. If despair befalls me, I will move on, not confused, not panicked and not looking back.

Twenty-nine, pale thoughts and persistent persistence are only scarred endings.

How afraid I am of loneliness, but what I can do doesn't matter.

Thirty-one, who dares to mess with you, I am the biggest trouble in her life.

Thirty-two, once sweet, became fatal.

Don't ask me what to do, and I don't want to do it, because I never care what others think.

34. It is better to take time to improve yourself than to care about other people's eyes and attitudes. Only self-confidence can go further in the future.

Thirty-five, we obviously had an intersection, but we have to stay away from each other at some point in the future. Going further and further, strangers meet.

You said that no matter what I became, you would never leave me, so I took off my mask and watched you escape.

37. I look forward to someone who can make me cry one day.

Thirty-eight, I want to draw a circle, shut myself in and keep everything out.

Thirty-nine, cool thin by nature, withdrawn by nature, you see, I am such a woman.

The greatest sense of accomplishment in the world is that the person you like gradually falls in love with you with your efforts.

Forty-one, you love to ignore me now. In the future, I may be beyond your reach.