How tired will it be to take care of two children by one person?

I am the mother of two children, and I really feel the same way when I see your answers. To be precise, I should bring up my eldest daughter when I was pregnant with my youngest daughter, and then I began to bring up two children by myself. Only later, my sister was more obedient and followed everywhere (in her stomach, she couldn't keep up). Sister really hasn't felt many sisters in her life.

Three months after my sister was born, my sister returned to the family. The days of a family of four have officially begun. My sister has to get up at night to drink milk, so she sleeps in a bed alone, for fear of affecting her sleep. I sleep with my sister and visit her from time to time in the middle of the night. Dad must work in shifts. In order to ensure a good rest, he sleeps on the sofa! A family of four sleeps in three places.

When the sun rises, it means that the busy days of the mother of two children begin! Staring at my sleepy eyes, I started cooking for two children. Both children eat differently. The boss was more than 2 years old at that time, and he was not very good at eating. Warm milk for your sister, feed your sister with one hand and your sister with the other. Then I ate two bites of rice by myself and began to buy things in the market. The youngest daughter was lying in the car, and the eldest daughter led them to start together. Picking vegetables and worrying about the boss. Don't run too far. Thinking about what to eat at noon is really listening to all directions. A mother with two children? After buying the food, I held my sister in one hand and the food in the other, urging her to go upstairs quickly. Then go downstairs and put the car down. My home was on the fifth floor.

Go home, unload vegetables, put vegetables and prepare lunch. Meanwhile, the boss wants you to play with her. After dinner, you can take a nap. But the boss is in excellent spirits and just doesn't sleep. You are sleepy again. Then one eye is open, I look at the boss from time to time, and one eye is closed for a rest, like an owl, is there?

The boss never sent her to kindergarten, so she watched her sister grow up. Gradually, children learn to express, compare, be dissatisfied, lose their temper, quarrel and argue … These things are all over your life. On the verge of collapse, as tired as a horse! In the face of the illness of the second child, you are like being beaten with chicken blood. Even if you rotate 24 hours, you are not tired. As long as the child is well, as usual, it is ok to be naughty! Do you?

A lawsuit that cannot be solved every day, a clue that cannot be solved. I am tired and happy, the mother of two children! After all, not everyone has this experience. Collect it and experience it slowly!

I am a stay-at-home mother with two boys at home. At the end of this year, Dabao was 4 years old and Bauer just turned one.

Taking care of children is really tiring, regardless of physical fatigue, the heart tortured by children all day is even more tired and physically exhausted. The happiest moment for stay-at-home mothers is when both children fall asleep at night and then feel that they have a little time to have a good rest.

I didn't feel very tired when Dabao was a child. I just cook for him all day, play with him, and take Dabao out to play when I have time. It feels good.

After Bauer was born, life changed completely. Bauer cried and Dabao shouted. He was busy all day. Holding Bauer or accompanying Dabao, you have to take him wherever he wants to play, otherwise Dabao will cry when he sees his brother crying, and he will cry with him, which is even worse.

Now Dabao is a little older, more sensible and better. I also know that I need to hold my brother all day, not so abrasive, but also mentally relaxed.

What I fear most is that my child is ill. Generally, the boss will catch a cold, and the second will catch a cold. I took my child to the doctor alone, and the child was still waiting in line to cry. Sometimes I think I will collapse. What I want most now is for the children to grow up quickly.

I don't know how to get through it ... My son gave birth to a daughter at the age of 2, and my mother sat with me for the second month, and I was sent back. This also started my journey of taking care of two babies by myself ... My husband is very busy at work, sometimes the children leave before waking up, and when they come back, the children are already asleep ... He stays with me 24 hours a day, always feeling sorry for the children, and the little daughter is young and ignorant. I have my own ideas. Although I was only two and a half years old, before I gave birth, he kept saying that my sister was in my mother's belly. My brother likes my sister, and my son is always at ease when he says this. But I'll be fine when I get home from the hospital. The next day, all kinds of uncoordinated behaviors began. Before I gave birth, my son knew how to pee in his toilet and stopped wearing open-backed pants. That's great. I didn't go to my bathroom, but it was on my pants. I was really upset at that time, so I put on his crotch pants again. This is even more unscrupulous. I urinate everywhere and throw toys everywhere ... He must be wondering in his heart why I always hold my sister and don't play with him ... It makes me uncomfortable to look at him like that, and I even scolded him mercilessly. Every time I say, this time I'm still in confinement, and it's hard for my mother. Taking care of young people ... my son has been like this for about half a month, much better. Originally, my son slept in his crib at the age of one, next to the big bed, and now he wants to sleep with me ... I don't need my mother to accompany me at night, so I bring two myself, turn around and nurse, and cover the boss here with a quilt. ...

After I sent my mother home, I got up in the morning before the children woke up, made breakfast for my husband and son, and cleaned up the house. When the children finished eating, they woke up. They dress, wash, eat breakfast and wash clothes. Except for the particularly dirty hand washing, everything else is a washing machine ... I will wash clothes when the children take a nap ... My son hasn't been able to eat by himself, so I fed a few. It began to eat constantly again ... invisibly increased my fatigue ... I played with my children after basically cleaning up around 9: 00 ... I still feel sorry for my son ... Because I can't go downstairs and stay outdoors every day, I bought a lot of toys online and decorated the children's room like a playground. However, after the children are fresh and energetic, I still watch him get bored in all aspects ... my husband comes back early occasionally. In the evening, I will take the children to the supermarket ... this has become my son's only outdoor activity ... the children are getting older and older. Now, my son is 3 years and 3 months old and my daughter is 8 months old. My son has gone back to his bed to sleep, but occasionally he comes to sleep with me in the middle of the night, and I still feed him. Give my son and daughter a bite every day, and my son is much more sensible. My daughter cried and shouted. My sister can't find her mother ... My sister is drooling, and my brother will help her clean up. It's really tiring to take care of two children by yourself ... but it's warm occasionally, and I think it's all worth it. ...

I bathed two babies by myself and did a super dangerous thing. Because my husband is too busy, there is no food at home, I can't eat, and my children can't eat ... I just fell asleep with my two children, turned on the camera at home and observed their dynamics. Children can't be put in the same room, because one wakes up and crying will wake up the other, so I separate the two rooms. I have stored fruits and vegetables for nearly a week ... My family has a lot of grain and oil, and my friends say that my family is always wholesale. It's true ... because I didn't have time to go out and buy it, I bought it online, but I didn't buy food online, and almost everything else was online. JD。 COM's takeaway brother, SF's little brother, Suning's takeaway uncle, this is not an advertisement for them, but I really appreciate them and will help me deliver them every time.

I can hardly remember what I do every day, so I came over. My son can go to kindergarten soon, and I am much more relaxed. But when my daughter was discharged from the hospital, her weight was 174 kg, and it was 105 kg on New Year's Day. I went back to my mother's house on the second day of my junior high school and came back yesterday. I soared to 165438+ in half a month. My mother brought all kinds of food ... as small as pitaya, as big as a table of dishes ... (our hometown cooks eight bowls for the New Year), and there are many large and small ones ... I almost moved ... My tears have been spinning ... My parents are so fond of children that I dare to shed tears when I get on the bus. That's it. My mother also called to say that I forgot to bring this and that.

I just think it's easy for children to be shy with their babies. When I was a son, he was the only one who often wandered around. There are two now, and it's winter, and it's cold, so I feel I can't hold two, so my youngest daughter hasn't seen many people. When I went back to my mother's house this time, I suddenly saw so many strangers, and I kept crying. If I didn't cry, I would squeak. I am having a swell time.

Holding the child in one hand, while going to the toilet, holding the child in the other hand, while cooking ... As long as you can think of it ... when you go to work, there must be children around you, holding the child in one hand and tidying up the closet in the other. Finally, it's almost over. The boss comes over, makes trouble twice, and has to rearrange it ... Holding his daughter, his son will also ask for a hug, often holding his daughter in front and carrying his son behind him. ...

In short, it is really tiring to take care of two children by one person, but the positive mood will be reduced a lot. However, you must have a husband who loves you and your family ... this will make you feel that everything is not a problem. ...

By the way, I should say that I have three babies in one hand, and I have a five-and-a-half-month-old bear at home ... taking a bath, grooming and shoveling shit. ...

My three little guys.

The first few years were really exhausting. The difference between my two children is 16 months, and I haven't slept a night in five years. First-born daughter, it's no problem to bring one. Just get up two or three times at night. I am tired when I have a son! I love to cry. I sleep for two or three hours a day and cry for half an hour. My husband won't have time to bring it until he comes back from work at night. Fortunately, neither child will say that as long as I bring it, my husband and I will bring it. My son didn't cry so much when he was seven or eight months old I put him in the walker when I want to do housework, and my daughter will help my brother at this time, which is much easier. At the age of one, I can talk, walk, feel uncomfortable or say whatever I want, and I am not so tired. By the time my son was three years old and my daughter was over four years old, I had been sent to kindergarten and got a job. It happened that my husband didn't have to work overtime in the factory that year. From 8: 00 to 1 1: 30, and from 1: 30 to 5: 30 in the afternoon, my factory left work half an hour later than him, so it was my husband who picked up the children to buy food and cook that year. If I have to work overtime, he will wash the children's clothes. If I don't work overtime, he will wash the dishes and mop the floor. Moreover, after the children have been in kindergarten for two years, the boss asked her husband to count the months, basically working overtime, and her daughter also went to primary school. He sent them all in the morning. I found another factory, and the factory explained that I had children. Pick up my daughter after work at eleven o'clock, and then buy food to do those. I send them to work at one o'clock and pick up my daughter and son at four o'clock. I went back to work in the factory until six o'clock, and the rented house was quite safe, with cameras and security guards. I just feel very tired, running around and lying down several times a day. I felt more tired that year than when my son was born. Then a year later, we found another house, which is close to the primary school. My son also went to primary school. They went back by themselves. I went to work for nine hours normally. Get up at six o'clock in summer to buy food, and get off work at six o'clock in winter to buy food. My husband still goes home at seven in the morning and ten in the evening. His factory is 20 minutes away from renting, and ours is 5 minutes away from home. Now that my daughter is over nine years old, she feels much more relaxed than before. Both children will help with the housework. To sum up, it's tiring to bring two, but I don't regret it. I didn't get married because I wanted to have two children. It is even worse to regenerate after a long interval. Finally, I can have a good sleep, and there is another one. I can't take it anymore. It is better to do so. Everything is fine now, and everything in life is getting better and better. ...

This kind of tiredness really can't be expressed in a few words. Many people think that my life is complete with a son and a daughter, but only I can understand the hardships. This kind of tiredness is not physical tiredness caused by trivial matters such as washing, cooking, rice, oil and salt. On the contrary, these things are a kind of rest in my eyes now, a way to make my ears clean and my mind calm. What is really tired is mental fatigue.

Not to mention that the future of my work is confused from time to time, nor that I have to constantly squeeze time to learn various promotions in order not to be out of touch with society. I have to deal with all kinds of disputes between my two children every day. It is really difficult to fight with my children and accompany them in various studies, activities, visits and plays. It's really hard for me not to be strong.

How tired will it be to take care of two children by one person?

I am in this state now. Dabao is almost one year old and eight months old, and she is pregnant with Bauer! Now Bao Xiao has been born for more than four months! Dabao is only over two years old!

I have raised two children by myself since the full moon in Bao Xiao! So most of the time, Dabao is in trouble and Bao Xiao is crying!

Every day, I feel that I can only be quiet for a while when they sleep, otherwise I will be busy all day and my ears will not be quiet!

Every day from morning till night, it is impossible to have time to dress up. Sometimes I don't even have time to go to the toilet. I just think in my mind, if only they had arrived at school! No matter how bitter you are, you can only get through it!

This is the second child life with too little difference! It is better to wait for Dabao to go to kindergarten to have a second child!

The above is a portrayal of my life! You can talk about your second child life.

This is what I am now. I rent a house alone, and my husband works in other places! The eldest daughter is six years old and the youngest daughter is one year old! The first few months after birth are miserable. Picking up my eldest daughter, buying food, cooking and cleaning are nothing. The hardest thing is that my two daughters are really overwhelmed when they are sick together. Once my little daughter had a high fever and kept going back and forth. The kindergarten called and said that my eldest daughter had diarrhea. I was really going to collapse at that time! I can't get sick now because I fell and no one can help you. Very bitter!

I am the mother of two children. My two sons are two years apart. One is seven and the other is five. Lively and lovely, but also often naughty gives me a headache! My mother-in-law is famous in the village for being unreasonable and not hurting people. She has a bad temper and personality, so I dare not expect her to take care of me. For me, if you don't quarrel with me, I will be amitabha!

I was 19 years old when I was pregnant with Dabao. For girls in the city, some may still be spoiled, but I played the role of a mother. More than five months of morning sickness ruined people. They are sallow and emaciated, so they can only lie down. They see stars when they sit up, and they can't eat hot meals. They can only live on fruit every day! My husband is a careless and inconsiderate person. He often quarrels with me because I complain about injustice. He shouted several times that he would take me to have an abortion. Treat him like a real jerk! I managed to stay up for six months, and the morning sickness reaction passed. Because of the long-term lack of nutrition and calcium, I often wake up with cramps in the middle of the night, and the pain of pulling out bones will never be forgotten. By about eight months, the whole person was swollen, from his feet to his hands and even his face! The days of standing with leg pain, sitting with back pain and lying with chest pain are like years! Finally, I hope to have a baby. The baby's umbilical cord is still on the neck, and the fetal position is not correct. The doctor said to plan the abdomen, so plan it! For the sake of children, I am willing to let me die! Three days after giving birth, I lived a hellish life. I have to lie down to eat and drink, but I can't move. The next day, the doctor told me to get out of bed and walk around, saying that I was afraid that my intestines would stick together. The expression of grinning and frowning at that time should not be imitated by ordinary people!

Finally came out of the hospital and went home! Unexpectedly, seven days after my operation, the husband and wife left my mother at home, because Dabao was the birthday of the sixth day of the first month, and my husband put me down a few days after he was discharged from the hospital (because the incision of the planer had not healed, I couldn't get up by myself, my stomach didn't dare to exert myself, and the wound couldn't stand it). Husband visits relatives and friends in the New Year! My mother-in-law accompanied my father-in-law to the market to see the stalls! The child hasn't been breastfed for a long time, and I haven't been to the toilet for a long time. The child was hungry, and I held back! In the face of this cold-blooded family, I can only hehe! I cried when my husband came back, and I shed tears for my helplessness. I thought my husband came back to comfort me, but I didn't expect to be scolded, saying that I had too many things to do, and they didn't play, all for the sake of life! Obviously irresponsible and specious, unreasonable! My mother-in-law came, cursing the street at the door and cursing in front of my parents! What a cold-blooded animal with no education, quality and feelings! For the sake of the children who have suffered so much for me, I have endured the painful experience that I will never forget in my life! Mother-in-law saw me bend to the extreme, and then she was unscrupulous and provocative! Husband's incompetence, mother-in-law's meanness! Success drove me into postpartum depression! I tried to commit suicide several times, and the suicide note was written, but I heard the child crying and gave up the idea of suicide! Imagine that my young and ignorant son will live with people like them after I die. How can I walk away irresponsibly? Just as I was struggling, I found myself pregnant again, and my husband wouldn't let me. My own body knows that after giving birth, I seldom eat nutritious things, and because of long-term depression and anger, my physical condition is not suitable for pregnancy again. Considering that Dabao is still young, I agreed to the abortion operation. The day after the operation, my husband quarreled with me because of trivial matters. After the miscarriage, he was so weak that he almost fainted with anger. After being persuaded by my parents, he took me home for half a month. I went to Lacrimosa every day before I went back. During this period, no one in my husband's family came to see me, not even a phone call! I compromised again for the sake of the children! I didn't expect to be pregnant three months after operation! Oh, my God, the kid's back? He can't bear to part with me and wants to renew the mother-child relationship with me! This time, I said I would keep the child. I know that in this family, I will not be taken care of by my elders or my husband until I die. All I have to do is pin my hopes for happiness on my children. Children are everything in my life! The same pain and suffering, no one cares, walking in the street with a heavy stomach in front of me, carrying a weaned child over one year old behind him, and buying food and cooking with the child alone! When a person takes a child to see a doctor for an injection, even the idle hand during infusion should hold the child and put the child to sleep! My mother-in-law said that my child had never heard of it and would not show it! In fact, she has little contact with the children, and the children don't know this grandmother. Later, I was going to have two treasures, and I couldn't take care of Dabao. My husband begged my mother-in-law to agree to take them. In those days, I watched the children there during the day. At night, it's like where Dabao and I are going, and the mother-in-law makes the child sit still crying, neither coaxing nor hugging! The child's little hand slapped the glass on the window and cried for his mother not to go! Cry like a crybaby. Every time I see Dabao's child the next day, my eyes are swollen and my voice is hoarse! Although my mother-in-law takes care of my children, I don't appreciate her at all. As the child's biological grandmother, not only did she not have the kindness and kindness of the old man, but she also mentally abused my child and refused to let me take care of the child with my family, saying that the children of the Lao family were not allowed to be taken care of by others. She takes care of my children in such a way that she is interested in me and indifferent to my children! Isn't she afraid of God's retribution?

/kloc-got pregnant in October and gave birth to a son safely. I looked at this cute little guy and couldn't help thinking of Dabao. How wronged the child has been with that vicious mother-in-law My mother-in-law is greedy and buys snacks for her children every day. She eats it herself! The child is getting thinner, and she is getting fatter! Before I went to the field to cut sheep, Bauer was less than a hundred days old. Mother-in-law is watching the children at home with the fan on, telling everyone how good she is! I wet my clothes with sweat and milk and squeeze the water from them with my hands. Sweat is milky white, and milk keeps flowing out. I knew that the child must be hungry at home, because my mother said that the milk would go up with the child, and the milk going up means that the child is hungry! I quickly loaded the grass and rode back on a tricycle. When I got home, my mother-in-law saw me coming back and didn't wash her hands. She impatiently left the baby with me and told me to nurse it quickly. My mother knows that I am in pain at my mother-in-law's house and often tells me something about taking care of my children. If I sweat, I must cool my breasts before feeding my child, otherwise the child will have diarrhea after eating hot milk. Every time my mother-in-law hands me the baby, I don't look back, then I put the baby down and let the baby cry for a while, because I have to wash my hands and face and wash my breasts to cool down. When I was sitting on the sofa nursing, it was the most relaxing moment! When the child is full and stops crying, gently put the child down, change all the sweaty clothes, wash the child's diapers and pants separately and hang them together, as well as Dabao's, her husband's and her own clothes and pants. It's time to cook in the dark again!

Day after day, year after year passed like this. Married on10.22, 2008. Married for nine years. After 90, 19 became a big treasure mother, 2 1 became a second treasure mother, and now she is about to become a three treasure mother at the age of 27! I'm four months pregnant now, and I'm a daughter. Thank God for giving me two children. Thank God for giving me two lovely and sensible sons. At the age of seven, Dabao often helped me wash dishes and pots, fold quilts and cover them, and make a fire to cook. Bauer is only five years old, sweeping the floor, putting away the chopsticks and stools of the whole family for dinner, carrying the urinal at night and emptying the urinal in the morning! The two children also said, "Mom, when you have a sister, we will take care of you. You don't have to ask for it anymore, and others don't need to worry about you. My brother and sister love you. When we grow up, we will never let others bully you again. " Looking at the lovely faces, innocent eyes and touching words of the children, I feel very sad and moved!

Many people say I am stupid, I am so young and at such a good age. Since I have been wronged for my two children, why should I be so miserable? No one will know in detail what I have experienced in the past ten years. The pain and suffering that life has given me have been weathered by time in the laughter of children and my own tears. Although a lot of pain has become a wound that I can't heal all my life, I think it's worth it for the children! Because they are my roots, the continuation of my life! If the trunk of a tree is not strong enough and the leaves are not lush enough, then only its roots will support it to live! I would like to use all my youth to make time pass by in a hurry, and I would also like to protect my children! Even if the wind and rain, sun and rain, and finally hurt by life, as long as my roots are still there, I will always guard them! Because in my world, there are only children!

I also have a say in this issue. My eldest brother is three years and eight months, and my second brother is one year and two months. Almost all of them take care of their own children. The eldest daughter is very clever and sensible. It was good to go to kindergarten last year. The second one is too clingy, and his physical quality is not as good as that of the boss. Regret having a second child, especially years ago, they both got pneumonia at the same time, and I almost fell down. My mother took care of me for two days. I was infected with pneumonia. Old age, poor immunity. There is almost no feeling of Chinese New Year in our family, and we all spend it in illness. I was afraid to go anywhere at home and almost collapsed. My husband can't come back from working in other places, and almost all the children are brought up by themselves. I don't want anything else, I just want the children to grow up healthily and happily. I'm afraid the children will get sick now. Really, I must choose carefully whether to have a second child or not! Children's health is better than anything else!