How to treat the 52-year-old middle-aged woman crying and criticizing her mother-in-law's "four deadly sins"

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be resolved in time, otherwise it will become a nail in the heart and it will be difficult to pull it out. Moreover, the mother-in-law should respect her daughter-in-law and not be too strong, otherwise it will easily attract her dissatisfaction.

First, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be solved in time, and it will be solved after a long time. Many daughters-in-law still have great opinions about their mother-in-law when they are old. They always feel that there is something wrong with their mother-in-law, and that some things are like a thorn in their heart that no one can pull out.

Some mothers-in-law always take age as a big reason, and their daughters-in-law don't care if they have children. What's more, as soon as she saw it was a girl's film, she didn't want to take care of it, which also led to the strong dissatisfaction of many daughter-in-law. After all, you are not good to me. Why are you not nice to my children?

Some angry daughters-in-law divorced directly. Although some daughters-in-law are not divorced, they will still be worried about this matter, and even they will not forget those things for ten or twenty years.

Second, try not to be too strong between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, otherwise it will lead to more contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Actually, why are there so many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? In fact, it is the mother-in-law who treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider and likes to be a strong housekeeper. For example, some mothers-in-law will receive their son's daughter-in-law's salary card when they come up. Daughter-in-law usually thinks washing vegetables is a waste of water, while daughter-in-law thinks it is a waste of money to buy cosmetics.

Nowadays, many young people live very comfortably, and as a result, they are not free to be managed after marriage. The key is that adults who have to be managed every day will naturally have many contradictions, which will lead to tension between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In fact, young people can make money if they can spend money. As long as they can work hard to make money, it is ok to spend some money occasionally. After all, no one can always work without relaxation, and her mother-in-law should try to mind her own business as little as possible. In this case, there won't be so many contradictions.

Third, the mother-in-law should know how to serve the elderly and help the children, so that the future life will not be too bad. Many mothers-in-law will say when they are young that I don't expect you to support me, and then they will be slapped when they are old. In fact, mother-in-law should think that she will get old one day, and when you don't expect your son and daughter-in-law to support you, who can you expect?

So usually do more practical things, and then help children when they need help. In this way, I believe your daughter-in-law will be very considerate of you, and even when you are old, the other party will not treat you badly. After all, you are not bad to her, are you?

It can be seen that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot be accumulated for too long, otherwise it will become inseparable, and mother-in-law still needs to be too strong. After all, no one likes people who are too strong, and they should know that they will be old one day, so be kind to their daughter-in-law, or they will be really miserable when they get old.