Greasy is a taboo for middle-aged men.

Greasy is a general description of the characteristics of some middle-aged people, describing people as not fresh, decent and elegant. Appearance does not pay attention to physical maintenance, fat and sloppy, long beard, untidy; Verbally, he is glib, his eyes are erratic, his mouth is white, he is good at being a teacher by example and complaining about others, and he has become an ever-changing slick, pretending to be the king of B, and an overbearing leader; In behavior, he is boastful, narcissistic, frivolous and willful. These are all greasy manifestations.

Greasy, no interest, no motivation, no vitality, lost a lot of life, and bred a lot of boredom. This is also a taboo for middle-aged men. In order to avoid greasy, I think we should do the following four things:

One is abstinence. Indulgence is the greatest sorrow of middle-aged people, temperance is a person's best quality, and abstinence is a person's best sexiness. Desire is endless, and you can't catch up with it all your life. What I mean by abstinence is the control and restraint of desire, not an absolute prohibition, nor is it the abstinence of becoming a monk.

The second is perseverance. Perseverance is an important condition for a person to succeed. For middle-aged men, not only in work and career, but also in life. Control diet, insist on exercise, quit smoking and limit alcohol, live a regular life, take a bath frequently, change clothes frequently, love neatness, shave for a long time, have a clear face, don't stay up late, put an end to bad habits and cultivate a good style. More importantly, we should persevere with tenacious perseverance and finish it well.

The third is writing. Keep your mouth shut, not only do you keep your mouth shut, don't eat indiscriminately, don't overeat, don't be partial to food, and don't drink too much; Also, mind your own mouth, don't talk nonsense, don't brag, don't be a bully. Many middle-aged men, in particular, think that they have some experience, some capital, some connections and some status, and they often consciously hurt others when they speak. How can we do that? Confucius said, "Speak slowly, but act quickly.". He has done a lot and has rich practical experience. It is useless to talk empty words, so his time will be less, and he will know the power and courage of silence.

The fourth is to freeze the age. Inexperience is the best living condition for a person to maintain vigor and cultivate integrity. Don't let your physical age be greater than your psychological age, and don't let your age become your burden. Age is just a number, and your sense of existence and value are stored in your actions. Let bygones be bygones and focus on the present. When your mind is young, so is your body.

Put an end to greasy, clean and refreshing, honest and tidy, be solemn, respect others, control desires, live in the sunshine, do more things, talk less, be resolute and vigorous, make yourself no longer greasy and make life better.