What if you are upset when you see your mother-in-law?

Although she is a mother-in-law and her husband's mother, she is an elder after all, and tries to avoid confrontation. After all, she is a family. If she is really torn, it will be awkward to get along with each other in the future.

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Convince yourself.

In fact, sometimes the first impression is not necessarily accurate. You may see what your mother-in-law has done or said for a period of time, so you have a bad impression on her, but you should try to convince yourself that this is only a one-sided and incomplete view and convince yourself to get to know her again with a fair and neutral attitude. Maybe she's not what you think.

three

Enhance understanding.

You can get to know your mother-in-law from the side through your husband or neighbor, or you can try to communicate with her. If you know more, you will understand many things. For example, ordinary old people used to live a hard life when they were young, so they looked stingy in the eyes of young people, but if you really understood her difficulties at that time, you might understand and even admire her.

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Respect the elders.

After all, she is an elder, and respecting the elder is the least courtesy of the younger generation. If you really can't do it, put yourself in the other person's shoes. If you are your own mother, if her daughter-in-law treats her badly, then your mother should be more sad. Maybe you can be nicer to her. Try to treat her as an elder and a mother, and you will feel different.