Tell me about the women around you who gave up their careers for marriage and family? Are they happy now?

I am a woman who gave up her career for her family. To tell the truth, I am very unhappy, but what can I do? You have children, even if you are unhappy, can you choose to divorce because of this? Once a woman loses her income, her position at home will really plummet.

In a family, people with income will speak louder. Maybe when I first got married, I had to give up my career for family reasons. At that time, maybe your husband will be grateful and remember your kindness, but you have to understand that people will gradually forget. After a long time, what he sees is a white face at home, which makes him look like a yellow-faced woman. He will dislike you, but after a long time, he will think that you are actually at home.

He can't see what you've done for this family. He can only see that you don't have to go to work, but you still have money to spend. At this time, his heart will be unbalanced, so you are like a servant girl in this family, and he is like an uncle. You need to cook, wash clothes, mop the floor and clean all the sanitation at home, but his trash can will not help you because people think these are your jobs and you should do these things.

And you are so tired, but you can't get the recognition of the other party. Whenever you ask him for money, he will say that you spend too generously, and the money at home is spent too quickly, so you can save one province and then another. In fact, you have saved a lot. In order to spend less money and be told less by him, all you can do is to save this part of your living expenses. You don't buy the latest clothes, and you don't wear makeup or skin care. You wear clothes from several years ago every day.

Housewives are generally not so beautiful, and many of them have become yellow-faced women because of their husbands' problems, so do you think their lives will be happy? Too many women regret giving up their careers for their families, but what can they do? They can't go back, can they? The child can't go back.