How can a friend's mother be comforted when she gets cancer?

People often say that a good word is warm in three winters and a bad word is cold in June. Especially for seriously ill patients, comforting them with warm words like the spring breeze is a kind of psychotherapy besides medical treatment. Everyone knows that "illness comes from the mouth", but rarely thinks that "illness comes from the heart", and the heart is the root of illness.

It has been reported that most cancer patients have depression and inexplicable anger before they get sick, and most of the unhappiness in life is condensed in their hearts, that is, they are sulking and unwilling to tell others, and often solve the knot in their unhappiness. Then it is very important for patients to relax and feel comfortable. If the patient knows what disease he has, you should comfort, trust and cooperate with the doctor from the advanced modern medical technology. This disease is very common now, and so on. Then if you don't know you have this disease, you'd better not tell them, because some of them can't bear this sudden change and bad news, which will accelerate the deterioration of the disease.

Verbal comfort is only one aspect. You should take actions, such as taking the patient for a walk in the park, or traveling abroad, going where he wants to go and satisfying his wishes. In short, it is to make him feel happy, happy, transfer emotions and relax. I also read a report that a patient was relieved after learning that he had the disease. Anyway, there is nothing left in life. He went to a beautiful mountain, enjoyed the fun of nature, and let go of the idea of "being sick". As a result, the cancer disappeared when he was reexamined later. This is a miracle.

Therefore, if you want to comfort the patient, you must first understand the depressed things that he never forgets, and enlighten and comfort him. Only in this way can you open the knot, the knot will be smooth, and there will be miracles when there is sunshine in your heart.