Tell me about the 27-year-old

A Ying quit her job, which is a frequent business trip and uncertainty!

She is 27 years old and wants to settle down, get married and have a family of her own!

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27 years old, this is an embarrassing age!

For everyone who wants to get married and settle down, as long as she is 25 years old. No matter how much older she is than 25, she always feels that her age is an embarrassing age!

A Ying can quit her high-paying job and travel everywhere! Let me, both 27 years old, be a little surprised, but sympathize with the same truth!

From college to 26 years old, I have been wandering outside, drifting! I like the joy of harvest, but I am afraid of loneliness after joy; I like walking in other places and enjoying the beautiful scenery, but I hate floating time!

At the age of 26, I suddenly found myself wanting to settle down, settle down! Do not laugh at me. I am only 26 years old and still full of vigor, so I began to give up my struggling life and chose stability!

Sometimes life is unpredictable, and many people will start to change their minds after experiencing something! So some people choose to wander around, and some people choose a stable working life!

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I met A Ying, who just graduated from college that year and went to Wuhan to develop business with the company in Chengdu! Because of the need of college students to work part-time, I met her on the National Day near graduation internship!

At that time, A Ying, who had just graduated from college, began to work like chicken blood every day! Hard work always pays off. She has worked hard for this job for five years! In her circle of friends, she will also update her photos of traveling to different cities because of her work needs!

Life is like this sometimes. When you are still envious of a person's life, she suddenly left the life you envied!

Ying said that during this National Day, everyone attended the wedding of good friends and relatives, but she was still lonely!

National Day is a carnival festival in China, but it is also a terrible festival in single dog. Every time I attend a friend's wedding, I feel cold for a long time, as if I were out of place!

I feel the same way. I'm also afraid of those endless weddings, and friends will keep asking how long to get married!

A Ying said that she resigned, because all her friends around her were married, and she began to get tired of this long-term floating job. She wants to settle down, find someone she wants to marry and marry herself!

Many times we always want to succeed and make ourselves and our parents happier! But in the end, we found that our ideas were completely wrong! At the age of marriage, in fact, what parents expect of us is not how successful and prosperous we are; But we can have a happy family of our own!

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Hui Hui, a good friend of the university, told me about a girl she met during her internship in Beijing! At that time, the little girl was only 20 years old, and she entered the society prematurely after graduating from junior high school. Many times, the little girl always tells her friends seriously that she is getting married!

Looking at himself at the age of 22, my friend Hui Hui was particularly surprised. Such a 20-year-old girl wants to step into the wedding smoke, that is, give the rest of her life to daily necessities, which makes Hui Hui feel very incredible!

When Hui Hui was surprised, the little girl replied, "You don't understand. When you graduate in a few years, you will feel my feelings! "

Life is rare. Is it just rice, oil and salt, without poetry and distance?

Maybe a few years after graduation, if you can't have the strong determination to pursue your dreams, I think you will choose stability!

A stable life, a stable job, a stable wedding smoke and a stable family!

Everyone's heart is fragile. In that ever-changing society, if he can't have a stable life, then he is more looking forward to having a stable partner!

Many tramps are destined to find it difficult to talk about relatively stable feelings! So many people want to settle down and live a stable life!

Wandering people are doomed to be more lonely inside. He always expects stability, but he can't settle down!

Zhang Ailing wrote in the novel Love in a Fallen City that Bai Liusu returned home after divorce and was laughed at by his family! After meeting Liu Yuan, I couldn't believe how he felt! After confirming the relationship with him, he decisively gave his life to Liu Yuan! Suffered from the cold shoulder of their families, Bai Liusu and Liu Yuan soon got a marriage certificate in the days of heavy gunfire! I also moved out of my old big family and started my own life!

Liuyuan is like a straw in Bai Liusu. I don't want to let it go when I catch it! So on this spiritual straw, Bai Liu carefully cared for his feelings, and Liuyuan became the harbor of Bai Liusu's soul. Everyone who floats will have the same feelings as Bai Liusu. I hate that kind of wandering days, everyone wants to have their own spiritual belonging.

We are all the same, seeking one person and one world!

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Many people dream of opening their own small bar in the beautiful Lijiang or Dali ancient city after having certain wealth and ability! Then live a stable and comfortable life!

As long as you settle down, you can live a stable and slow life no matter where you are! People always miss the comfortable life after floating.

Maybe Ingrid is tired of floating!

I think A Ying not only graduated for a few years, but also has a lot of life truths!

Every 27-year-old will suddenly find that the little girl who used to cry suddenly got married; That silly white neighbor also married a beautiful daughter-in-law. You have always opposed early marriage everywhere in the village, and you have become an older single youth! In the dead of night, you will suddenly feel suffocated! Everyone around me is married. What should I do?

The good girlfriends who used to laugh and laugh kept posting in the circle of friends every day, and the baby was naughty again.

You rummaged through the phone numbers in the address book, but found that you couldn't find anyone who could accompany you fearless at night!

Your family suddenly thinks you are quiet and don't play outside late. The people who accompany you, except your parents, have already started to build their own new life.

What I hate most is that I once trusted my beloved so much, but I was surrounded by a group of aunts who enthusiastically introduced my boyfriend. It seems that it is urgent to settle down!

What hurts you the most is the father who was once extremely strong and determined. Suddenly become cautious, everything at home to discuss with you. Last week, when my mother went out, she suddenly fell in front of her house and stayed in the hospital for a week. It seems that she can't live without you at home suddenly.

At the age of 27, can you still struggle? Or should we choose stability? In Shakespeare's words: this is a problem!

Stability and struggle are not contradictory topics, but you choose to struggle stably or float!

So, at the age of 27, do you want to settle down?