What does it mean that the blind date only chats and doesn't meet? What if the blind date doesn't meet?

Many people start with chatting after being introduced to a blind date, but some blind dates just chat with you, but they can't make an appointment. What should we do in the face of such a blind date who only chats but doesn't meet?

What do you mean, blind date only chats but doesn't meet?

1, girls feel inferior and look average.

Modern society is an era of looking at faces. Even if you have had a hot WeChat chat, the girl has a good impression on you, but because she is not good-looking or even ugly, I am worried that you will lose your good impression on her when you meet her. She lacks self-confidence and dares to hide behind the screen and chat with you, hoping to continue to enjoy this feeling of online dating.

2. treat you as a spare tire

Some boys are typical ingratiating personalities. As soon as they meet the right girl, they want to please each other and try to establish a relationship with each other by ingratiating themselves. The blind date only needs to spend time chatting with you on WeChat, and doesn't need to pay any extra energy, so she can't feel the feeling of love in you. She only sees you as an emotional trash can or a spare tire.

I'm dating you just to deal with my family.

There are more men than women in society now. It is a common phenomenon that men are single in real life, and many boys have the delusion of falling in love. What you call spicy is actually a polite way for girls to cope, so it is normal for girls not to come out to see you. Moreover, a slightly more beautiful girl will be surrounded by countless suitors. Maybe she already has a boyfriend outside, but because the family doesn't agree, she can only date each other, and chatting with you on WeChat is just to cope with the family. If this is the case, it is normal not to date.

What if the blind date doesn't meet?

1. Have the courage to communicate sincerely with girls.

It is said that a woman's mind is a needle at the bottom of the sea. Women's minds are much more complicated than men's, and people's hearts will never be guessed. If you can't figure out a girl's mind all the time, you'll never ask out a girl. Therefore, we might as well put down our face and communicate sincerely with girls and ask them why they don't go out with you, because she only dates you to cope with the family, or because she has no feelings for you at all, and you can untie the knot by saying everything. If you two really don't fit, keep looking for the next relationship and don't delay each other.

Step 2 express your attitude

Because there are more men than women, many boys have no attitude when pursuing girls. They only flatter and please girls blindly. There is no sense of boundaries in social interaction. If a girl doesn't feel the feeling of love in you, she will be a spare tire with you first, and then abandon you when she finds the prince charming in her mind.

If the blind date puts you in a spare tire, then she is playing with or deceiving your feelings, and it is a waste of time and energy for you to continue to be with her.

So we should dare to express our attitude towards women. Only a man who dares to express his attitude can be confident and independent, and a woman can feel safe with him. We can say to girls like this: "If you don't want to see me all the time, then I don't have to waste my time on you."

Why doesn't the blind date take the initiative

First, blind date may not be his own will, but forced.

In fact, many young people are not in a hurry to get married. It is likely that the family urged or the matchmaker took the initiative to arrange it. In this case, he met you out of courtesy and then forgot about it and didn't take it seriously. Therefore, if you are not a fairy or a male god, people will not take the initiative!

Second, he has no feelings for you.

In fact, if you don't feel it, it is that your appearance may look ordinary. On the outside, you don't have the qualities that attract him. For example, you are not beautiful enough to chat with him, and there is no sound. No matter in appearance or spirit, he doesn't like you, so you should give up, because if you pester him actively, he will resent you or even ignore you. In fact, it is very sad to be ignored.

Third, the other party is a girl, more reserved.

If your blind date is a girl, it is impossible for others to take the initiative unless she is very excited. Generally speaking, taking the initiative after the meeting is a very shameful thing. If you like girls, you might as well ask first. She has feelings for you, and you will naturally have room for development!

What if the blind date becomes cold after meeting?

1. It is not perfunctory to send a message without replying. When you go back to contact after meeting, you often don't reply, or even if you reply, it is perfunctory. Just one word makes you unable to find a topic to talk about. This situation is hopeless. The other party doesn't want you to bother the other party again, there is no need to contact again.

2. If you don't answer the phone or are not interested in chatting, you will hang up later. This is hopeless. Give up decisively.

I can't make an appointment. After meeting, I will ask you out to play or eat something. I always say that I am busy or that I have been to one place or another. This kind of talk is just perfunctory. I don't want to go out with you at all. You can also give up decisively.

Don't accept gifts, or pay you back with money after accepting them. In this case, I want to draw a line with you, so I'm not satisfied, so I can leave without going any further.

5. I'm just not so enthusiastic, but I will still ignore your response. In this case, it means that the other party has not completely blacklisted you. If you have a good impression on each other and want to develop further, there is still a little hope. At this time, you should pay attention to getting along. Usually try to chat or get along with each other according to their interests. Usually, there are many relationships. The key is that you can't cause disgust. Get along more, let the other person find your benefits and change your impression. This is promising.