"Although hard, I will still choose that kind of hot life."

1.

"What kind of life do you want?"

He still said unswervingly: "Although it is hard, I will still choose that kind of hot life.

This is a sentence from a book by Japanese director Kitano Takeshi.

Actually, the first time I came into contact with the name Kitano Takeshi was in a TV series, and someone teased Kitano Takeshi, saying that he looked at lost face.

Later, I learned that he is a genius director and a very chic person. He lived a very thorough life. Facing life and death, he also admitted that he was very afraid of death.

When a mother arranges a path for her young self, she goes to a science university, graduates into a large enterprise, and follows the rules to be a wage earner. I don't need to think much, just go down the road.

At this time, Kitano Takeshi was in great fear and felt that the wonderful life was out of him. In his words, "I was just afraid. I haven't experienced the happiness of life, and I haven't left any memories to prove that I didn't live in vain, so I disappeared from this world."

so, at that time, he was very afraid of death.

But since Kitano Takeshi decided to quit school and become an artist, he was suddenly liberated.

Kitano Takeshi said that the greater the motion intensity of an object, the greater the friction.

just like the stars, people who look up at the stars may think how beautiful the stars are. But the star is burning with hundreds of millions of degrees of heat, and it must continue to shine until all the heat is burned out.

He did not hesitate to choose the "hot life" which was set by his parents or his own choice.

2.

Facts have proved that Kitano Takeshi finally succeeded, drove a Porsche and lived a chic life.

however, most people seem to have abandoned their dreams.

In the dark, Xiao Lu, a programmer, left the company building with a tired body.

It's the 15th day of continuous overtime. When I get home, my wife and daughter have fallen asleep. It seems that I haven't played with my daughter for a long time, and I feel like an incompetent father.

I came to this company as soon as I graduated. I worked hard, got married on blind dates, married and had children. I lived a normal life, and I was no longer young in an instant.

Xiao Lu opened a can of beer and drank it. In a trance, he saw the piano box in the corner of the room. That's a guitar.

"When I was in college, I even formed a band." Xiao Lu remembered that he often mentioned this to others when he just graduated.

He slowly picked up the piano box, snapped the lock open, and the guitar lay in front of Xiao Lu, still in that state, and the time for releasing Buddha did not slip away.

Xiao Lu touched the strings, and his eyes could not help but get wet. That once musical dream seems to be laughing at his present.

"there's nothing wrong with me, just to make a living." Xiao Lu slammed the piano box.

I don't know how many people, like Xiao Lu, gave up "poetry and distance" for the so-called life.

Regrettably, after giving up these things, Xiao Lu thinks that he is still "scraping by". The life I once imagined growing up is not so wonderful. Some people, just alive, have to do their best.

leave your dreams to others.

3.

Unexpectedly, the life regret at the top of the list is "I hope to live my own life, not according to the expectations of others."

In Australia, there is a nurse who is engaged in hospice care. She takes care of people whose lives are coming to an end.

She wrote an article called "Five Regrets in Life", which mainly described the most regrettable events in the lives of these dying patients.

many people suddenly look back, only to find out later that how many dreams they have not realized are about to face death. What caused all this was actually not others, but my own choice along the way.

I didn't fight for what I like when I was in college, so I can only do what I don't like after graduation;

You have been working for your family, but you have never taken any more time to fight for your dreams.

For the family, for the society, and even for many themselves, many unnecessary shackles and chains are left for themselves. I gave up my dream, saying that I am for my life and my family.

I don't know how many people are struggling for their dreams.

Zhao Lei, a singer who has been dormant for more than ten years, finally became popular all over the country with a song "Chengdu". After graduating from high school, I decided to sing and went to college, but I didn't go. Just because he wants to sing, because this is his "dream".

Zhao Lei has been to underground tunnels, bars and wherever he can sing.

But it seems that he has been unlucky. His songs have never been well known. Even the writer Da Bing once joked, "Zhao Lei is not popular, and God forbid."

In 217, the program "Singer" won the second place with a song "Chengdu" and was successfully promoted. I started singing in 23, and that day was the 14th year. They said: Zhao Lei, it is finally popular.

This "scalding life" is really not a lip-service dream, but more a down-to-earth action and persistence.

people who have dreams have light in their eyes. It's just that sometimes, we choose to put it out.

4.

Only when you grow up will you know that the adult world is not so easy.

How many people say that if I can earn more money, maybe I can do what I want.

But the fact is that only when you do what you want can you earn more money more easily.

Yi Shu said, whatever you do, remember to do it for yourself, and then you will have no complaints.

SHE sang in a song "You were a teenager":

I once vowed to be a great person, but now, I have forgotten my vows.

is there a time when everyone is young, but it is difficult for him to pursue his ambition, and he lives in a daze. In the end, he either compromises everyone or finds no exit and is trapped by life?

there must be some kind of flame inside us that can distinguish us from others.

even if it is hard, even if it is difficult, we still choose a hot life.

Just as Wang Xiaobo said, "If a certain life goes against my heart, I will think it is not worth living."

I hope we can all choose the life we want, the wonderful life in live high.

encourage you.

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