What if you can't chat or coax people?

If you want to overcome all the problems, believe me, no matter what method you use, you will inevitably need your insincerity, your catering to others, and your giving up on your heart, even if it is only a momentary necessity. You hate yourself who can't talk. Sometimes, I hate myself who talks too much because of professional inertia. It is true that it is understandable to improve the situation in work and life by mastering some speaking skills. Don't worry, maturity will be gentle, slowly pushing you to the lamppost on the stage of life, and then you won't get stage fright.