How hard is it to be middle-aged after 50?

Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. When people reach middle age, they face more and more difficulties and problems, and their health declines. At work and at home, they have a lot of troubles and feel that life is getting more and more boring. There are old people in the world who need to support, and children in the world who need to work hard. Life is facing multiple tests, and I really feel the hardships and helplessness of life. When people reach middle age, there is a hurdle in life, and there will be no less important events in life. The obligation to enter and the task to be completed must be experienced and understood by yourself. After this hurdle, the rest of the day will be more and more exciting.

First, after the age of 50, the health of middle-aged people declines, aging accelerates and they begin to feel overwhelmed.

When I was young, I stayed up late drinking, socializing at work, and overdrawn my body. After the age of 50, I felt an obvious watershed, my physical strength and energy declined, my body began to gain weight, and various chronic diseases began to come to me. At this time, I gave up smoking, dared not drink more wine, and reduced my social activities. Consciously or unconsciously, I put myself into the ranks of middle-aged and elderly people, and my mentality has changed obviously. The fun of life is reduced, work begins to shift to family, and people are more and more aware of the importance of good health.

Second, middle-aged people after the age of 50 are bent by the burden of family, and they have to support them no matter how hard or tired they are.

After the age of 50, their old people need care and support, and they need to make economic efforts. It is a blessing for children that the old man can spend the rest of his life on his own. They are always on tenterhooks and nervous when they encounter major diseases. Your own children are even more heartbreaking. Going to school for employment, getting married and having children, which major event is not to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss. Especially now, buying a house and a car, getting a bride price, spending all my life savings and getting a loan. Children will continue to take care of the third generation after completing their tasks. The bitterness of life is nowhere to tell, and the bright future is endless.

Third, middle-aged people after the age of 50 have been marginalized at work, and they have no competitive advantage.

After the age of 50, there is no age advantage, learning new things and accepting new things are slow, and important positions are basically no longer arranged in the unit, becoming dispensable people. After the age of 50, there is no advantage in working hard in the workplace or working outside to earn money. I am struggling for my family and my life. In the face of severe reality and miserable life, face is no longer important, everything returns to reality, and I no longer have any illusions about life.

Four, after the age of 50, everything has been optimistic, and it is most important to have a healthy body.

People struggle all their lives. When they were young, it was nothing to suffer more. When they are old, it is happiest to have a good home. After 50 years old, life is a foregone conclusion, and all the pains you should eat and suffer have been experienced. When the major events in life have been completed, it is time to enjoy life and enjoy life. At this time, it is most important to have a healthy body. Life has quality, and children will not be troubled. When they are old, they can leave with dignity. Therefore, at this age, we should calm down, don't be pessimistic and anxious, face life bravely and do what we should do.

In short, it is not easy for people to reach middle age, and the situation of ordinary people is similar. Keep a good attitude, make yourself stronger, keep an open-minded and optimistic mood, and have a healthy body, and the future will be better and better.

After 50, it is no longer middle age, but old age. People after 50 have three difficulties in life.

First, it is difficult to retire.

After the age of 50, both men and women will face the unavoidable problem of retirement. Whether there is old-age insurance and retirement units has become a topic that people often talk about after they are 50 years old. In fact, many people after the age of 50 are still trying to earn old-age insurance, hoping that they can retire smoothly.

Second, children are difficult.

After the age of 50, all the children have grown up completely, but whether they can live independently is a long-standing problem for their parents.

Those who are not independent are always at home, and those who can be independent are not married. Married people need money to buy a car and a house, and children need their parents after 50. In short, if you are idle, you will continue to be tired.

Third, it is difficult to comfort.

People after 50 are human beings and need emotional comfort. Unfortunately, people at the bedside are strangers, and divorced and widowed people can't sleep alone. Most importantly, young people want your money, peers want your kidneys, and they are extremely lonely.

finally

The so-called middle age refers to people aged 35-50. After 50, you can only be called old age, otherwise you will become a stone on the road of young people.

I am still a few years away from fifty, and I have fully felt the difficulty of life.

First of all, physical strength is getting worse and worse. When I was young, I worked overtime and stayed up late, and went back and forth on the day of business trip. I will recover soon. After forty-five years, I found that as long as I was a little tired, my period would be abnormal immediately. From time to time, there are some important and urgent things to stay up late at work, and they can't recover for ten days and a half. I owe it to my parents to help me with the housework and take care of the children, otherwise I can't take care of them at all.

The second is to find that life pressure is unprecedented. Children are still in middle school, which is the age when they need money. I still have a mortgage to pay at home. After deducting various expenses every month, there is not much left. When I was young, I was not stingy when I saw what I liked, because I thought it was most important to let money serve people, whether it was natural or not. Now I will think that at this age, I may be eliminated at any time. If it is confiscated, what about the children and the mortgage? Don't even think about it.

At this age, it is difficult to change jobs again. No unit will be willing to hire a person who is about to retire. Even if you have rich work experience and strong ability, the company is more willing to leave opportunities to young people with low cost and high energy. Therefore, I can only do a good job in front of me. Even if there are a lot of dissatisfaction and grievances, they can only bear it silently.

This is the embarrassment and difficulty of people reaching 50. Parents are old and children are underage. I am the pillar of my family and an umbrella against the wind and rain.

I always encourage myself to carry forward under pressure and remind myself not to be overwhelmed by pressure. Because I still have dreams and long for beauty. As long as I have time, I will continue to study and improve, eager to start my own business as soon as possible; Find time to exercise every day and try to stay healthy. At this age, the law of work and rest is very important. So I also try to get rid of unnecessary social interaction, adjust my schedule as much as possible, and make my daily life more healthy and regular.

I think every friend of my age will encounter the same pressure and embarrassment as me. I hope everyone can spend this special period smoothly in an appropriate way, * * *!