Ten reasons for getting worse today

1, too thin-skinned

I am embarrassed to talk about big and small things, miss many opportunities, and dare not express my thoughts, which is tantamount to giving them to others and regretting afterwards.

2, the heart is too soft

A bodhisattva's heart, others say well, is soft-hearted, can't refuse, and doesn't care if others have a purpose, and finally suffers.

3, no scheming

I'm not asking you to be the Hua Fei in Zhen Huan's biography. I'm asking you to look at silly and sweet Zhenyuan and feel happy about everything. In reality, smart men like smart women, which is really not stupid or sweet.

4 personality is too straight

You never think carefully when you speak. If you open your mouth, you will be offended, and people will think that your IQ is wrong. Such a person can't get along in the workplace. Low EQ will really affect your future.

5, like to stay up late

Every day, I say that I should get up early and go to bed early to make myself healthy and have good skin. Self-discipline is just lip service, and it has never been well implemented. Holding my mobile phone is often in the morning ... the efforts of my family have paid off, which is also achieved by optimizing myself. Rich second generation is much more self-disciplined than you.

Step 6 be unsociable

I often stay at home on weekends, playing games or watching videos all day. Many people read the article saying that they should be alone with high quality. That's all excuses. If you want to go out more, socialize more and experience the world more, you must take this step. Otherwise, your life will be narrower and narrower, and the strong can't live without socializing.

7. No confidence

If you don't believe in yourself, you have no confidence in anything. You backed out and thought you couldn't do this or that. When encountering difficulties, you can avoid having the confidence to do everything well. Believe in the method rather than the difficulty. The more you solve problems, the more confidence you have.

8, like fantasy

I always fantasize about how to succeed and make money in the future. Don't worry, don't worry, you're young, the future will be better, and you're fine. What you pay now, how can you get it in the future? What are you waiting for? Is there any pie in the sky? Watching too many movies has sequelae, be realistic and don't go with the flow!

9, don't know how to cherish

What you have always likes to compare, compare what you have with others, or fantasize that you are the same as others.

10, easy to get emotional, easy to mix feelings. It is impossible to be completely calm when you do things according to your mood. You know, people who do great things must first keep their cool. Once something happens, you can get away with it!