Speaking of softness

Eating people has a short mouth and a soft heart. It means: eating someone's mouth is shorter and talking less; If you hold someone's hand, it will become soft, so please be tolerant of them.

As a child who grew up in the countryside, adults always taught us not to take other people's things casually when we were young. Generally speaking, we mean food, not the concept of abducting and selling children now, but the concept of eating other people's food and owing them mutual affection. Even individuals who live and work in rural areas can hardly imagine that there will be positive arguments or behind-the-scenes discussions in order to occupy people's land or trample on people's crops.

Last year, I said it was cold at home. Let's go to Southeast Asia this Spring Festival. There is sea, beach and warmth. Look at the exotic customs by the way. My parents have lived in Jiangsu and Zhejiang all their lives, so it's good to have a chance to go out and have a look. My mother was the first to object, so we can gather together two tables to have a reunion dinner with relatives during the Chinese New Year. When you go out, your relatives will not leave.

So real name is the opposite of the topic. This is a traditional concept, how can it become the bottom thinking. Is it an upper-class lifestyle to go out to eat and drink without a grateful heart? If you are rich and powerful, it is easy to give back to others if you eat other people's things and take others' things. How much time and energy should ordinary people spend in return for others' help?