The salary of a son-in-law is several times that of a daughter. Every day after work, my daughter cooks, washes pots and washes clothes. She has a bad taste in her heart. What should I do?

To tell the truth, this is the family affairs of the young couple, and we don't have to worry about other people's affairs. The average son-in-law has a high salary. He must be very busy and tired at work. He didn't do it on purpose. If you have time, you can help her.

A happy family is to respect the old and love the young.

If the elderly have a son and a daughter, then in their later years, the elderly can choose to rely on them to provide for the elderly. Although at this stage we all often say how unreliable it is for the elderly to rely on their children to support the elderly, this phenomenon is a minority after all. Therefore, it is still possible for most elderly people to rely on their children to provide for the elderly.

Only in this process will there be such a special situation, that is to say, now we have old people who have only one daughter and no son, so in this case, most of the old people can only rely on son-in-law to provide for the elderly. However, few son-in-law will take care of the elderly in a down-to-earth manner.

After all, the son-in-law is not related to the old man. At the same time, the son-in-law has no responsibility and obligation to support the elderly. To put it bluntly, even if the son-in-law doesn't want to support the elderly, no one will say much. But the key problem is that some old people now rely on their son-in-law to provide for the elderly. Otherwise, the life of the old people will be very bad in the future. So what should we do?

Today, grandpa is 68 years old, and his only child in this life is his daughter. Since his wife died, because he didn't have a penny pension and little bank deposit, he had to choose to go to his daughter's house to support the elderly. At first, the son-in-law rejected him. Later, he only achieved these four points. Then the son-in-law changed his attitude and waited on him with great care.

This is grandpa's self-report.

I am 68 years old. To tell the truth, for a long time, I have been worried about my future pension, because I only have one child, a daughter and no son. At that time, my plan was to leave my daughter at home and recruit a door-to-door son-in-law, so that I could have a support when I was old, but my daughter finally got married.

Meanwhile, I have no pension. When I was young, I was a freelancer, and my savings were not very fast, only less than 80 thousand. I usually scrimp and save this. At the beginning, I also wanted to earn more money for my old age, but because I was often in poor health, I really couldn't do it.

The most important thing is that my wife died of illness more than ten years ago. Since then, I have been living alone. Although I also want to find another wife for myself, who will be my wife in my present situation? After all, today's society is still very realistic.

Maybe someone said at this moment, don't you have a daughter? You can let your daughter and son-in-law support the elderly. But what you don't know is that I do have a daughter, but for a long time, my daughter has been supporting her parents-in-law. At the same time, my son-in-law never promised me that he would support me when I was old. It is precisely because my pension problem can't be solved that I am always unhappy.

But maybe it's God's special pity for me. Later, my daughter's in-laws chose to go to the south to live with her second son and let him support the elderly. Knowing this, I immediately called my daughter and said how difficult it is for her to live alone now. My daughter is smart, too. She immediately understood the real intention of calling her now.

A week later, my daughter called me. She said that she had told her husband that she would take me to their house. Her husband didn't object. My daughter's words naturally made me very happy. After all, at this point, I don't have to worry about my own pension.

Three days later, I packed my bags and officially moved into my daughter's house to live with her son-in-law. At first, I thought my daughter's son-in-law would try his best to support the elderly in her daughter's home, full of all kinds of beautiful dreams, but since moving into her daughter's home, I found that I was naive.

To tell the truth, my daughter is still very kind to me. No matter how hard and tired I am at ordinary times, she won't let me do housework. She just told me to have a good rest and said I could do the housework by myself. Besides, she never gave me a bad look. On the contrary, she always asks after seeing me every day.

Anyway, I came to my daughter's house to support the elderly. My daughter not only welcomes me very much, but also sincerely supports my pension. I am very satisfied and happy with what my daughter has done, but the attitude of my son-in-law makes me feel bad.

I always greet my son-in-law with a smile when I see him. Even though I had a lot of troubles in my heart at that time, he always looked at me with a sullen face when I treated him like this. People who don't know think we have a deep hatred, but in fact there has never been any contradiction or misunderstanding between us, and I have never done anything wrong to him.

At first, I didn't understand why my son-in-law always treated me like this. After all, I am his father-in-law. When he married my daughter, I didn't give him any trouble at all, but helped him a lot. It can be said that I am kind and reasonable to him, and he should not treat me like this.

I wonder if my son-in-law is under too much pressure at work at ordinary times, or if he usually has too many worries and has no place to vent and release his repressed emotions, so he will treat me like this. As it turns out, my guess is completely correct.

When my son-in-law comes home from work, I will take the initiative to cook some side dishes and then have a few drinks with him. At first, my son-in-law was very repulsive. Later, my son-in-law took the initiative to ask me for a drink every day. During this period, my son-in-law will tell me all his troubles and worries, and I will quickly comfort him and enlighten him. After all, my life experience is richer than his.

Not to mention, since then, my son-in-law has never been disloyal to me. On the contrary, I obviously feel that my son-in-law always has a smile on his face every time he sees me.

In addition, considering that my daughter and son-in-law have to go to work every day, it must be very hard and tired. Even if they promise to provide for my old age, I can't say that I sit at home and do nothing every day, and then wait for an idle meal. So, I took the initiative to undertake housework.

Because I have lived alone for more than ten years before, it is not difficult for me to do housework. On the contrary, I am good at housework. My daughter-in-law often praises me for this. Although this is what I should do, even so, my daughter-in-law's praise still makes me very happy.

Not only that, I think I don't have a pension now, and my savings are less than 80 thousand. If something happens in the future and my daughter-in-law can't support us, then my future life can only be spent in misery.

So, I decided to find myself a job, earn more money to support the elderly and prepare myself while I am still in good health. I happened to see my daughter's son-in-law in the community, recruiting a sanitary cleaner with a monthly salary of 2700 yuan, so I quickly signed up, and the community finally decided to hire me.

It is convenient for me to go to work every day, and my work is not very heavy. I get off work at five o'clock every afternoon. Go home from work to cook for my daughter and son-in-law, and do some other housework by the way. Since I can make money, I obviously feel that my son-in-law treats me with special respect. Of course, my position in my daughter's son-in-law's house has also improved a lot. My son-in-law always asks me for advice about anything at home.

Although I have done all the above, I always feel that it is not practical to live in my son-in-law's house. After all, there is no blood relationship between my son-in-law and me, and it is not the responsibility and obligation of my son-in-law to provide for the aged. To put it bluntly, even if my son-in-law doesn't want to support my old age and drive me out of the house in the future, I can only accept my fate, but I don't want to see this unfortunate ending.

Therefore, if I want my son-in-law to take good care of my old age in the future and not abandon me, before that, I must always keep my son-in-law in my heart and treat him as my own son. Seeing that my son-in-law's mobile phone was worn out, and he was reluctant to change it, I took the initiative to buy a high-end mobile phone worth 8,000 yuan for my son-in-law. The moment the son-in-law received it, she cried with excitement.

In addition, my son-in-law usually works very hard and often complains of backache. So, every night before he goes to bed, I will take the initiative to massage his body, although I am also very tired.

Then, from then on, my son-in-law not only made a 180 degree turn towards me, but also brought me tea and water at ordinary times, which served me well. I don't want to mention how comfortable my old age is. There are many people out there who don't know. My son-in-law is my son.

From my own personal experience, I personally feel that people are old, even if they don't have a pension, they don't have much savings, but I believe that as long as you can do these four things, most son-in-law will be willing to serve you tea, at least I think so.